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Do All Gay Guys Want Sex?

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My buddy's gay. I'm bi, not out, but he knows.

We're hanging out in a few days, and I want to invite him back to my place afterwards. But I don't want to offend him.

If a gay guy wants to hang out, is it safe to assume he wouldn't mind fooling around?

Thanks dudes.
 
So, you want to fool around with him, right? I wouldn't say that is a sure thing, but your chances are pretty good.

Just ask him, don't play any games, just play it cool. Thats all you got to do, and I think things will work out the way you want them to.
 
It's not "safe to assume" anything, but you could just drop some really obvious hints that you'd be interested in doing something with him and see how he responds. But to answer your original question gay does not by default equate to horny manslut.
 
>>>If a gay guy wants to hang out, is it safe to assume he wouldn't mind fooling around?

I'd say no, it isn't safe to assume that. But I'm a prude.

Lex
 
I can't speak for all gays, but me personally I'm always up for fooling around.

If a friend invites me to chill, I usually don't expect anything. Were and acquaintance invite me over, and I'm kind of into him, I may drop hints.

The question for you is are you looking to fool around with him?
 
If you haven't made it clear you'd like to play with him,
I think you should make it clear beforehand that you wouldn't mind if he just stayed over when he comes back to your place.

If he's receptive to fooling around, I think you'll know about it.

But if he feels a little unprepared or trapped once he's there and he's not in the mood to get the sheets sweaty for whatever reason, it could just end up being awkward.
 
I like guys, but I would mind fooling around very much...

And that's without giving any details...
 
orem244 said:
It's not "safe to assume" anything, but you could just drop some really obvious hints that you'd be interested in doing something with him and see how he responds. But to answer your original question gay does not by default equate to horny manslut.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA .. this made me laugh ... lol :rotflmao:

Don't assume anything, but let him make the first move, or say something vague and go from there.
 
I mostly agree with what others have said above, but you're all missing one thing. What if the guy just doesn't want to have sex with you for some reason such as you not being his type, not wanting to bring sex into your friendship, etc.? Just because he's a horny manslut, doesn't mean he'd do anybody, anytime, anywhere. Although it can sometimes mean that too...
 
I don't see what his orientation has to do with it. Most healthy, young men - you, for instance - are interested in fooling around as long as secrecy and safety are guaranteed.

The problem is more likely to be in your definition of 'fooling around'. What is just a casual bonk to you, in all likelihood will mean more to him. Then the problem won't be how to get him to start but how to get him to stop.

Straight men believe that a woman's gender alone defines her possible availability. Gay men do not have this luxury; homophobia increases the risk they run when assessing potential partners. The fact that you approach him is likely to set off all sorts of expectations about LTR's.

In order to avoid misunderstandings I think you need to think carefully about whether you want to risk the friendship you have for a night of manlove, and then be absolutely clear about your expectations when you proposition him. If you two fuck the relationship will never be the same again.
 
I think the best way to answer would be this:

In my experience, it is not safe to assume that because he hangs around, he is interested in having sex with you. Making that assumption seems like either a bad stereotype ("gay men are indiscriminate cocksluts"), or extreme narcissism ("how could any guy fail to be attracted to me?"). I know that when my straight acquaintances assume I'm after their asses, I'm usually annoyed by the assumptions they make (unless I actually am, in which case I'm only a little embarrassed).

However, in my experience most gay guys would not be offended by the idea that you wanted to fool around. You might still get rejected, and things might get awkward after that, but in most cases I think so long as you're respectful and not a jerk about it, you probably won't risk offending him much.

But then again, I know nothing about this guy, so I can only speak from my own experiences as a gay man. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.
 
Don't just hop onto his dick and expect a pleasant reaction. It might happen, but it might not. Go the safe route like others have said and drop hints. If you really want to fool around alcohol is always a great way to persuade someone. ;) But who knows, you might not be his type at all.

Then again, I fooled around with my best friend who swears he's straight (I guess curiosity just got the best of him)... and he's DEFINITELY not my type. But it was after a night of drinking, and he initiated it. *shrugs*
 
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