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Do bisexual guys prefer to identify as straight?

easyroad

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It's a trend I've been noticing in amateur porn. But, as we all know, porn is not real life, so I decided to look for some anecdotal evidence.

What do you guys think?
 
think it's diff in porn than rea life...in porn they sorta cater to those gay guys who likes the idea of a str8 man fucking another guy, so they market the bi guys as str8...
 
Another question I would add to this discussion is whether people actually consider bi guys bisexual? Too many times I've heard people who say they are bisexual identified by others as "gay". It reminds me of an old Louisiana law that identifies someone 1/32 black as black on their birth certificates. Nothing wrong with being black or multiracial or swinging both ways, but sometimes you have to deal with the narrow-minded categories other people restrict their perception of other's too.

Personally, I don't think who you go to bed with should not be mandated as public knowledge if between consenting adults. Categories too easily lead to seeing other people as objects, not actual individual people. It's one of the first warnings I was taught in psychology.
 
No I stick with bi probably because I'm more towards gay but I Wouldn't mind slamming women :p
 
This is an interesting topic. Personally, I don't care if people know I'm bi so if they ask, I have no problem telling them I'm bi. Ideally. However, if they ask if I'm gay, I just say no. It's a weird psychological thing. So I guess I'd consider myself straight more than I would consider myself gay. But I think this comes down to the individual. I'd imagine that the bis that are more into guys than girls may think otherwise.

As for the second question, I'm a little more unsure. I've had friends who said something like "Well, that's cuz your gay" to me once, but we all had a good laugh, so it was obviously meant as a joke. All in all, I really don't think any of my friends really care if im bi or not. They just see me for me. Which is great.
 
The other perception I often hear about is that bisexual people cannot be monogamous, because they are attracted to too many people. I personally like bi guys (and not just for the idea of threesomes).
 
Polite folks do not ask about one's sexual orientation. And, wise fellows do not broadcast the details of their sexual relationships.

Sex is personal and private and wise persons keep it that way.

We all want and need to "fit in" and most of us do not want to call attention to ourselves. Fortunately, persons who find each other sexually attractive often become good friends and friendships do create that bonding in which the desire to express affection sexually becomes strong.

Yes, in our society, it is prudent to try to fit in. But surely, it is important to maintain an independent atttitude in living one's life. The public is free to draw its own conclusions from what it sees

My strategy has always been to keep the outside world guessing. Family and close friends are helpful in showing understanding and keeping quiet.
 
Well, people from both the straight and gay communities tend to be very judgemental of bisexual men, so I wouldn't be surprised they would choose to go with the more socially-acceptable level.

Also most women have negative opinions of bisexual men (I have no idea why, since I love 'em) because they view them as bigger sluts than straight men, which is completely stupid because bi men can be perfectly faithful, while straight men can be cheating dogs. Other men view bisexual men negatively as well because they focus more on their "gay" aspect.
 
I can't identify as straight to myself after the experiences that I have had. It'd be a lie, and I kind of like looking myself in the eye ya know? I'm bisexual. I could easily identify as straight seeing as how i am with a woman right now, and I have only been with one guy. But again.. it wouldn't be true. "Straight" just doesn't fit anywhere inside of me anymore.

As for other guys, if they have had sexual encounters with men and still identify as straight, then I don't argue with them. I have picked the brain of a guy like that before but more in a devils advocate kind of way than a forceful "bullshit!" kind of way. In my opinion, how you identify should not be solely based on your sexual experiences. It's more complex than that.
 
Personally, I identify more as a gay male, but I'm sure it's different for everyone.
 
No...I just don't find women disggusting and I could enjoy sex with them...so that makes me biseuxal.
 
I don't believe in sexual assignments, which is part of my bisexuality. I like the person for who they are, not necessarily their bod or gender. And it's not that I need to choose, according to many straight people, but I just am attracted to the people who I'd be attracted to, male or female. So no, I don't think bisexuals refer to themselves as straight.
 
I tell people I'm gay... gets me more guys and also girls who'll let me bone them thinking that they'll be the one to finally turn me straight :P
 
Everybody prefers to identity as straight, because society as a whole clearly and obviously values heterosexuality over homosexuality. I'm gay and have lied about being gay before, it's only natural.

As for discriminating against bisexuals, well that sort of works both ways. Some bi guys think that gay guys are 'more straighter then they really are.' I say ideally, bi guys should date other bi guys (or females) and gay men should be with gay men. But I fell in love with a bisexual guy, my soulmate actually is a real 100% bisexual man I believe.
 
easyroad said:
It's a trend I've been noticing in amateur porn. But, as we all know, porn is not real life, so I decided to look for some anecdotal evidence.

What do you guys think?
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I identify myself as Bi.Botm.Sub. I lust both men and women, but love to be dominated by men.
 
In reality there are 10% core homosexuals and 10% core heterosexuals. The rest is more or less in between. According to statistics 10% is gay and 90% str8. So all bisexual guys (80%) declare themselves str8.
 
i stick more towards "gay" as that is what i first identified myself as before i started liking the idea of women.
 
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