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Do Gay Long Term Relationships Exist?!!

erobert said:
You're not alone in your thinking, I'm 22 and I'm already thinking LTR- and I've never dated anyone yet.

It seems that there are a few guys in there early twenties who think of relationships in terms of LTR, though there are probably a few of us in our twenties that think like that. (Or maybe not?)

Lex said it well. You want to be realistic and build a long term relationship with someone. Date people and get to know them and determine if these people would be good to have a LTR with, some guys just aren't LTR material. You don't want to jump the gun with them.

I wonder how long the average relationship lasts with people our age.
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I'm in the exact same boat. I've never dated, yet I can't wait to find someone to love, really love, for the rest of my life.
 
Not sure if I can give you any really good advice, but taking things slow at the beginning helps. Let your intellect, rather than your hormones, help you pick the right guy and then let things develop.

Jumping in bed with an attractive guy after a first date can be fun, but I think it's hard to go anywhere from there, because you kind of hit your "peak" the first time out, and it takes a while to get back up to that again.
 
Friends of mine will be celebrating their 14th anniversary next month. They've had an open relationship since the beginning. They are some of the most mature people you will ever meet.
 
g_lexington, I might not agree with you all the time, but you always amaze me with your insight and wisdom. Thanks for that post. It makes me actually want to be in a relationship.
 
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