Do I have sex addiction?

[Rex]

Long read,


As I got a little older feel more uninhibited. Growing up in the age of internet I had no problem finding guys for sex online. Now become more comfortable with my sexuality and came out to more people. Have propositioned and have had sexual encounters without the internet mostly involving men I knew in the military.

Now even as I am older I am open to possibility of relationship but I am insanely picky. I know what type of guy I like and will not settle for a guy who wouldn't fit my type. Guess you could say I'm shallow. I still would rather have sex with as many men as I could over a relationship because I enjoy the thrill and there is excitement that comes with having sex with someone you never hooked up with before.


On top of this, addicted to porn, Instagram models, bodybuilders, sex cam type sites I have a lot of fun with. I have a high sex drive and would call myself a pervert. I have lots of kinks involving feet, sweat, s&m type things. Nothing overly extreme like pee, blood, etc but would say I am addicted to sex and sometimes the chase. Most of my friends are masc straight guys and I find myself going out of my way to hang out more with those friends than other friends and some I would absolutely F with if given a chance without much consideration.

I hook up with both gay and straight men but will admit the characteristics I'm attracted to are more prevalent in straight guys so I prefer them over gay guys. For some reason I love the chace.

The worst part about all of this: I like being a sex addict. I enjoy how perverse I am. There is nothing I enjoy more than sex and hot men. I imagine my sex addiction is going to become worse when I start hitting up gay bars and such. I am not afraid of getting an STI because as I said, I'm selective and concious of my health but I am afraid I am going to become extremely sexually active and I do not have any desire to really change or work on this.


Am I a sex addict?

 

[Cormac135]

No, you sound pretty normal to me.

 

[mikey3000]

I think when something inhibits you from having meaningful romantic relationships with people, there is a problem.

 

[rareboy]

The real test is whether it interferes with your work or your personal relationships with others.

If it is something that has caused you to fall into a pattern of lying and if you are missing work or other important events because you have opted for a quick sexual encounter instead, and if your whole sex life is nothing but one time encounters, then yes...you may have an addiction.

 

[Rex]

The real test is whether it interferes with your work or your personal relationships with others.

Jerked off in the employee restroom while taking dick pics and screwing off on GrindR and whatnot bout a week ago.

As far as relationships, hasn't had that big of effect. I sexualize the fuk out of some of my straight friends. One of my best friends is a hot straight guy who does bodybuilding and rugged jock type I go crazy for. We've been friends since about grade 8. I'd still blow him at the drop of a cat.

If it is something that has caused you to fall into a pattern of lying and if you are missing work or other important events because you have opted for a quick sexual encounter instead, and if your whole sex life is nothing but one time encounters, then yes...you may have an addiction.

Haven't really done that.