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Do I have sex with him?

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I'm 19, and this person in my college I'm friends with, and he's revealed to me that he's bi, and attracted to me. He's not really that attractive, and a bit of an awkward person, but, when we had sport I saw him naked: he has an amazing body and a absolutely huge cock, it's huge. Really turned me on. He said that nothing would happen between us if I didn't want it, and he knew that I didn't really want to.
Now in my mind I don't really want to get with him, because as a person he's just strange and I'm not keen on him. But secretly in the back of mind I really really have the urge to fuck him, and suck his huge cock, maybe not anal, but definitley a blowjob. But I don't want my friends to find out, because it would be so so so embarassing that people knew I got with him.. and at school he's not very well liked.

If you were in my position, would you have sex with him/blowjob? I dont want to, but I kind of do want to, but just the whole situation makes it awkward if people find out...
 
Then just suggest him being friends with benefits and set the boundaries. Worth trying :-)
 
Well, it doesn't sound like you want him, you just want his cock.

In the end, you have to decide what it is you really want here. You don't want to risk being outed. You have a very limited interest in this guy- at least when it comes to his personality.

It sounds like a lot to risk for a blowjob. Maybe you should look elsewhere for a playmate?

PS "I'm 19" - Join Date: Dec 2010. Since you would have had to have been 18 when you joined JUB, this must be your birthday, so happy birthday. :rolleyes:
 
What you're really asking is if it's ok to use a friend, whom you consider socially unacceptable, yet who is attracted to you, for sex. The answer is no.
 
Probably not a good idea to have sex and risking getting found out.
 
if i were you, I wont! cause im more concern of the looks before anything else. but to advice you i would say no, like you said he is being hated in your school which mean that he has a bad attitude or something wrong with him so he might blackmail you in the end if you agreed. not worth the risk dude!
 
I see nothing wrong with it as long as you're upfront with him that you're only interested in sex with him as a fuck buddy on the down low. You say he's already a friend...so he won't want to alienate you, especially since he's got few other friends. As well, it wouldn't be odd or unusual for your other friends to know that you hang out with him from time to time...they won't know you're really hooking up with him...cover story: studying, video games, etc.

As long as you stay honest and respectful with the guy with the big cock, he won't blab. He'll be happy to be getting some. :fellate: You may even find he's not as awkward as you think he is...socially and sexually.

ps...Happy Birthday ;)
 
I think your potentially opening a Pandora's box and are asking for trouble. Even if you set the ground rules before hooking up with him what is to stop him from wanting to change the rules afterwards. Is a blow job worth having a stalker? Truth is you really don't know how this is going to play out and you have to decide if the reward is worth the risk of him outing you or worse. On the other hand maybe he's really a nice guy outside of school and is just awkward in social settings.

If he really is strange I'd find a different playmate.

Steven.
 
Hi Sacklett!!! :wave:

I'm actually going to address your post rather than answer your direct question...

You are NINETEEN -- that means that you are NO LONGER a CHILD and have become a MAN and are your OWN person...

DON'T allow other people's perspectives of an individual DICTATE whether or not YOU want to be FRIENDS with that person...

BE STRONG and BE A LEADER -- the alternative is to be a weak follower -- there is NO in-between...

BEST OF LUCK -- and its GREAT to see you posting...

:):):)
 
Nail him.

Who knows but that he isn't more attractive than you realize? For instance....

If you are going to just treat him like shit after you have his cock...then you might want to give some thought to who the more attractive person is.
 
Haha well spotted, sh KaraBulut, I'm 19 now that's all that matters ;)

Thank you for all the replies. Well appreciated, especially Swerve. :) Thank you all!
 
swerve said:
Hi Sacklett!!! :wave:

I'm actually going to address your post rather than answer your direct question...

You are NINETEEN -- that means that you are NO LONGER a CHILD and have become a MAN and are your OWN person...

DON'T allow other people's perspectives of an individual DICTATE whether or not YOU want to be FRIENDS with that person...

BE STRONG and BE A LEADER -- the alternative is to be a weak follower -- there is NO in-between...

BEST OF LUCK -- and its GREAT to see you posting...

:):):)
Click to expand...

I signed up in 2010 and never used my account, I only used this website properly in the last few months! Thought I'd post some stuff. Thank you for replying, :)
 
You describe your relationship with this person as a friendship. Do you value this friendship? Clearly you are repulsed by this friend's facial appearance and personality. Unfortunately, those are the aspects of a person that you engage with the most. So if all you're interested is putting your hands on this body and penis, then any aspect of an attraction towards him is going to be very short lived. In the end, the dynamic of your friendship will change, and this situation will most likely not end well.

If the attraction is not mutual, do not pursue it.
 
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