Note: I don't want any past, present or future entertainers, or captains of those establishments offended.
I use to have interest in starting one, but after experiencing others through patronage, I've experienced personality types ranging from hostile to deceitful, and have lost confidence in any joy that could come from running such an establishment.
For the most part I've experienced:
(1) Boys threatening me as a patron, without provocation, perhaps as a result of a character flaw.
Example: A boy nude dancing for several gentleman is doing so without a hitch, and upon my entry into the area, without an embrace, pushes my shoulder and rants "YOU HAVE TO PAY TO TOUCH".
(2) Boys over-zealously scrutinizing me, other patrons and dancers about their looks, regardless of either parties level of attraction, and then after, "sell" themselves to someone seemingly of the same physical class.
Example: A guy rants about my, others patrons, and his co-workers looks, calling us all ugly, and then afterwards makes out with a guy physically identical to the rest, and sells himself to them as an escort. It comes off as a blind rant, or an impulsive personality without any predictable patterns.
(3) Boys lying to management on me when refusing to take them up on sexual advances, for pay or not, in an attempt to have me thrown out.
Example: A boy gropes me and offers himself as an escort, and after being politely turned down, goes to his manager, or the owner, and claims he's being harassed.
These unpredictable behaviors in many entertainers at these establishments have thrown me off.
Opinions?
I use to have interest in starting one, but after experiencing others through patronage, I've experienced personality types ranging from hostile to deceitful, and have lost confidence in any joy that could come from running such an establishment.
For the most part I've experienced:
(1) Boys threatening me as a patron, without provocation, perhaps as a result of a character flaw.
Example: A boy nude dancing for several gentleman is doing so without a hitch, and upon my entry into the area, without an embrace, pushes my shoulder and rants "YOU HAVE TO PAY TO TOUCH".
(2) Boys over-zealously scrutinizing me, other patrons and dancers about their looks, regardless of either parties level of attraction, and then after, "sell" themselves to someone seemingly of the same physical class.
Example: A guy rants about my, others patrons, and his co-workers looks, calling us all ugly, and then afterwards makes out with a guy physically identical to the rest, and sells himself to them as an escort. It comes off as a blind rant, or an impulsive personality without any predictable patterns.
(3) Boys lying to management on me when refusing to take them up on sexual advances, for pay or not, in an attempt to have me thrown out.
Example: A boy gropes me and offers himself as an escort, and after being politely turned down, goes to his manager, or the owner, and claims he's being harassed.
These unpredictable behaviors in many entertainers at these establishments have thrown me off.
Opinions?
