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Do i have to sleep with a guy before i consider myself bi?

Would you be wrong if you are a straight male that is a virgin, telling girls that he is meeting online that he is straight???No...so how can you be wrong by telling these guys something that you know to be true about yourself? Just because you haven't ever eaten a good steak....doesn't mean that you won't like the taste of it when you finally do try it. In fact.... I'll just bet you will.lol
 
EthanPark26 said:
You don't have to have a million dollars to know it would feel good looking at your bank statement
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On the other hand, you need a million dollars to call yourself a millionaire. And imagining what a million dollars in your bank account would feel like isn't the same as having a million dollars.

There is a difference between imagining the act and actually having experienced the act.
 
ChicagoNormalGuy said:
On the other hand, you need a million dollars to call yourself a millionaire. And imagining what a million dollars in your bank account would feel like isn't the same as having a million dollars.

There is a difference between imagining the act and actually having experienced the act.
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You say that as if he'd stop being atracted to men if he has a bad experience during his first physical encounter with a man.

It's all about preference more than practice.
 
red1979 said:
You say that as if he'd stop being atracted to men if he has a bad experience during his first physical encounter with a man.

It's all about preference more than practice.
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That isn't what I'm saying at all. He can be bi right now if he feels like he is bi. But if I'm chatting with a guy online, maybe hoping to hook-up, I'm not looking for a beginner. And I think we all know there are, for lack of a better term, keywords when chatting online. "Bi-curious" is inexperienced. "Bi" implies some level of experience.

So if a guy tells me online that he's a bisexual millionaire and it turns out he is bi-curious and overdrawn, I'm going to be annoyed because I'm not looking for bi-curious.
 
Your sexuality is not confirmed by performing the physical act. Your sexuality is what you are attracted to. A 100% straight guy could perform the physical act, but that doesn't mean he would enjoy it. It's all about the attraction.

Feel free to ignore the smartass answers when you're searching for the truth.

:)
 
Generally I agree what's been said here, but to some degree I need to disagree.

I know a number of guys who have been with women, always were with women, and always considered themselves straight. Then for one reason or another they have some limited sexual experience with a guy. Could be a drunken deal, a trusted friend, anything. After that they realize that there was something there with the guy that just wasn't there with the girl. They called themselves straight just b/c they didn't fit the gay stereotype, or just never considered it an option. There was a guy on here a while ago who had such an experience.

Likewise I have also met guys who have thought they were bi. They got a hardon from a guy once, or they beat off to bi porn, or think of guys when they jack off. Then they actually try it, and realize it's just a fantasy. Not something they want to actually engage in.

Sexuality is a very strange thing, and sometimes it's quite fluid for a lot of people. Just because you envision something as right for you doesn't always mean it actually is. Call yourself what you like, and in most cases I would be inclined to agree with you, but until you actually experience the real thing (maybe several times since there are bad sexual encounters), I wouldn't set anything in stone as your final answer. Just be content that you are sexual. Maybe you fit into the group of people who when asked what their sexual orientation is, they reply "yes". Lol
 
Does a guy have to have sex with a woman before he knows he's straight? No, he already knows who he's attracted to.

Sexual orientation is less about sex, and more about who you're attracted to, who you're capable of having a crush on and who you can see yourself in a relationship with.
 
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