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Do I need therapy????

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Hallo everyone at JUB :)
I met this guy on a dating site.We started dating,seeing almost every day.I really started to like him.After two weeks I ask him if he seeing someone else and he said not.A(wanted to know if we're exclusive)After that I wanted to delete my profile on the dating site and noticed that hi's online,I ask him why he's still on that site if he's not seeing anyone he said that his phone automaticly turns him online.So then I messed up.I made another profile and contact him (so wrong I know) asking if he want to have one night staind and he said yes.Than I ask him 100 times if he's contacting someone else he said no and one of that times he said:No way I only love you (first time said that he loves me).I did't say it back and he said I got trust isues and should go to therapy.
Is he right???
 
Right now, the thing to do is to be honest. If you think you have or need to spy on a boyfriend, partner or husband, you're with the wrong person. He's not a good guy, putting this on you.
 
Run far and run fast. You saved yourself from a guy you can't trust. He's lied to you and is obviously trying to hook up with other guys. No matter how many times you ask he's going to lie to you. What's your plan if he would admit that he's still searching online? Take it from someone that's been cheated on.... you'll never trust him. Save yourself the heartache. delete his contact information and block him so you're not tempted to start seeing him again.

Steven
 
Just pointing out something: you titled this thread "Do I need therapy????". You should have titled it, "Do I need to dump this guy????".

You created this thread to prove something you already knew- that he was cheating on you and lying about it.

That little voice in side your head is telling you to get rid of this guy because he's a liar and a cheater. If you don't get rid of him, you're just in for more heartache and disappointment... and then you will need therapy.
 
Also -- this guy knows how to play the game.

He realized that you may know more than you let on -- and upped his game to tell you that he loves you. There is ZERO TRUTH in that statement. He loves himself.

Like the other have said -- get gone. This guy is trouble. You don't even need to let him know what you did.
 
My therapist once said if I had to ask then I should probably error on the safe side.

Think of it as an annual physical for your mind.
 
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