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Do I tell him I'm "unexperienced"?

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I've been talking with this guy for a while. He's funny, cute and smart. The main three right? So good so far but I don't know whether to tell him I'm a virgin.

Do I?
 
Eventually, but when you say talking, do you mean face-to-face or online?
 
Absolutely.... albeit when its appopriate to do that. But bankside's question should really be answered first.

Before you start the physical relationship, you should be clear as to what your intentions are.... and when I say that, I mean that you have to be clear about your intentions TO YOURSELF. Are you just looking to make out? Oral? Mutual touching/exploring? Intercourse? Bottoming or topping? And don't be intimidated by the conversation - the more hoenst you are the better the experience will be, when you're ready to go for it.

If you're not honest, it could lead to a very awkward moment when you're both naked in bed and nervous to move forward - he'll think it's something that he did, you'll think you did something to kill the mood.

But first, clarifying what your relationship has been to this point would be good to do - you can get a lot more advice specific to your current situation.
 
First @bankside - Online

Second @dhchitown1984 - I giggled when reading about touching and exploring. So it makes me think that I may not be ready
 
Yes, definitely tell him you're inexperience. It would be better to tell him face to face. Don't say it as something you're ashame of. Just state it as fact or something fun, "I'm inexperience. Can't wait for you to show me a good time!" Set the right expectation. Most guys are patient with first timers.
 
Hopefully you'll meet in person without any expectations other than meeting. That would be a good time to let him know. If the topic is part of an online conversation, however, then I wouldn't put it off.
 
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