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Do open relationships freak you out?

Doesn't freak me out at all. I'm just not into it and never saw an open relationship last very long...at least among my own circle of friends. Still, what two people decide is best for them to do is their business. Aside from the fact that I'm not into it, I do respect a couple with an open relationship more than I do a couple who are cheating behind each others backs.
 
I'm going to direct my response to this over to the "are you picky" thread. I don't support whorish behaviour and people who use open relationship agreements for only that end are wrong.

Wow.

Ask a question about defining social responsibility. Get a puritanical reactionary response.

Funny considering you're the one bringing in the
Monogamy is a human construction that flies in the face of the instinctive desire to mate in a way that provides the most (quantity) viable offspring.

angle... If you don't support whorish behavior then why trot out one of the most tired arguments for it? And then structure the rest of your post to suggest that even the morally elevated of us who are monogamous for reasons of social responsibility are still tempted...

The whore will win errrrrtime. We love the whore.
 
So are we on our way to making this a slut-shaming thread now?


When did it stop being that?

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The concept doesn't frighten me; but as others have said, I'd only really support it or be behind it if it were a couple actively sharing other partners together at the same time. I don't know that I'd like the thought of my partner skulking around at night hooking up randomly; but if both of us were doing it together, with the same extra person, I could see having no problem with that.
 
I barely have the time patience or motivation to find 1 person to stick my dick in...much less wasting time looking for more holes to fill.

NO THANK YOU.

Fuck one guy and then try something novel like actually reading a novel!
 
:?

Suppose the room only had four men in it? If one guy had 12-20 year relationships with each of the other men, one at a time, it would more than likely span his entire life.... What's wrong with that?

There's definitely a difference between a handful of men in a small room and 200+ in an auditorium...

I don't think a relationship is like an orange that you squeeze dry and then move on to the next orange. I think that's what serial monogamy is like. I don't even see why it is called monogamy to be honest. It's not that I find anything wrong with it, it just seems obvious to me that if a person considers it desirable and ideal to sleep with more than one person in his lifespan, and I see pros and cons, then why not all at once? Polyamory seems the more honest and desirable alternative IMHO.

It seems equally obvious that if a relationship can last 12-20 years, why not 60?
 
Open relationships? Not for me. Do they freak me out? No. If I were seeing a guy, and he suggested the possibility of an open relationship, then I would be uneasy. Not because open relationships freak me out, just because of the awkward different relationship desires.

Small holes clustered together freak me out :?
 
Not at all :) I know a really wonderful couple that have an open relationship that truly love each other <3

Not sure I could have one myself though, I'm too needy :p
 
Freak me out? No.

My style or choice? No.

Different strokes for different folks.....:D
 
I haven't been in one, but they don't freak me out and I don't get what the big deal is. They seem to be like most other relationships except with more honesty about what's going on.
I also like tinned asparagus in sandwiches though. :O
 
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Not really freaked out, I just don't understand how people can engage in such relationships. No offense to those who engage in it, but it strikes me as something animals would do.

well, not to sound like a smartass but we are a part of the animal kingdom which makes us animals.
 
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