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Do people speak more openly/truthfully when they're drunk?

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Do you think people are more inclined to speak their mind and true feelings when they're drunk or do you think it's usually just drunken babble that doesn't mean much?

For example, if someone told you they have feelings for you, etc when they've had a few drinks on more than one occasion, but when sober, do not show those sorts of feelings, how would you take that?
 
I wouldn't believe them, especially because they're under alcohol's influence, alcohol is not a truth serum, but I may confront them when sober to find out
 
Alcohol lowers inhibitions and removes a lot of fears and self doubts. I always found when I was drunk I'd say things I'd never have had the courage to say sober.
 
Alcohol's not a lie serum either though. All it does is decrease inhibitions. That's why I don't buy that "it was the alcohol" when something happens like Mel Gibson going on an anti-semitic rant. There's nothing in the chemicals of the alcohol that make somebody hate Jews.
 
Of course. When we're in a sober state, we have a mental filter of sorts that prevents us from saying things that could either get us into trouble or that we don't want someone else to know. Alcohol loosens our inhibitions especially if we've had a lot to drink, and our judgment becomes impaired.
 
yes, they do. there was a study awhile back that said that most people are well aware of what they're doing when they're intoxicated bringing about the theory that people just use being under the influence as an excuse to why they do bad behaviors when they're shitfaced. :lol: i seriously believe that's the case with most people. the person that gets drunk to say some racist shit, the person that gets drunk to get loose sexually, the person that gets drunk and starts fighting everybody in the room as a means of taking out the pent up and bottled up frustration they have going on in their lives or within themselves and etc.

me personally, if some guy were to personally come on to me if he were drunk and i was sober, i would pass. that would be a case of someone's word going up against yours and people will always believe the drunk guy more than the sober person. they think that the drunk person brainpower is completely out the window when that's NOT always the case.
 
Right alcohol doesn't make someone do something they don't want to do, it removes the inhibitions that would ordinarily stop them from doing it. Even common sense sometimes.
 
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If I'm telling you repeatedly that I have an attraction for you - drunk or not - you can count on it being at least partly true.

If I'm ONLY telling you this when I'm drunk, there's a reason I don't tell you this when I'm sober.


Ask me what that is, when I'm sober.
 
Yes. It's called "Liquid Courage" for a reason.

I remember when I was in my early 20's and my friends and I were at a Pride Parade and they wanted me to drink (which I didn't do at that time) they all got more then they bargained for and I didn't apologize for any of it. If I say something or do something sober or buzzed I meant it. I own all of my actions.

CXXX..|
 
People can't lie to save their lives when they're drunk.

For example, if someone told you they have feelings for you, etc when they've had a few drinks on more than one occasion, but when sober, do not show those sorts of feelings, how would you take that?
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It would mean they had feelings for me, and chose not to act on them. And I'd appreciate that.

Lex
 
This is sort of a superstition, but if anything, I find it makes a lot of people chattery... including myself. XD
 
There are many factors in this hypothetical that need to be explored before a coherent answer can be given. For instance what is going on during these "confessions"? What are you doing? What is the other person doing? Is this someone who normally keeps his feelings inside? Does he wear his emotions on his sleeve?

Since you haven't given much info lets take a look at a couple scenarios. Some coworkers are out for a few drinks after work, just winding down and whatnot. Person A is openly gay, person B is straight. There are a few others but they leave early. Person B has had far too much to drink, while person A has remained sober to being the designated driver. During the course of Person A helping Person B into his apartment Person B (who is normally the strong silent type) caught up in the alcohol and appreciation for such a good friend blurts out the typical "I love you man!" Is he exclaiming his undying love, or just expressing appreciation to a friend?

Now lets look at scenario 2: Coworkers out for beer, everyone's drinking. Late into the night we have the same Person A and Person B sitting in the bar. They are just randomly talking and the topic drifts toward love and family. Person A then expresses his love for Person A.

There are so many variables that factor in that could change either of these scenarios. Overall I would say disregard it as they are definitely NOT saying what they mean to say.
 
Lol ... my fellow JUBbers have basically summed up everything (and then some) what I would have interjected, but I am left wondering ...

"Why do you ask, Mr. Sultan -- what did you do?" :-)
 
I used to work for a company which involved occasional travel to other cities. In one of those trips, a group of us employees went out to a bar one night. One of the employees was a female who was drinking. As she was in the middle of a conversation with another female coworker who was sitting next to her, she leaned over and tried to insert her tongue into the other female's mouth. The whole scene was shocking and extremely awkward.

It would be silly to imply that she didn't really want to insert her tongue in the other woman's mouth, or that it was just some random effect of being drunk.
 
Maybe she did, but she probably wouldn't have even thought of attempting anything like that in public if she was sober.
 
Sultan said:
Do you think people are more inclined to speak their mind and true feelings when they're drunk or do you think it's usually just drunken babble that doesn't mean much?

For example, if someone told you they have feelings for you, etc when they've had a few drinks on more than one occasion, but when sober, do not show those sorts of feelings, how would you take that?
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It just means you have to get them drunk before you get to fuck their anushole. Big deal. A real whore is more expensive.
 
They are more likely to speak the truth.

And the day after they are likely to excuse themselves by claiming it was just drunken babble :)
 
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