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Do straight/curious/bi men like fem boys?

I've looked at them a few times.......I think door #4 does it for me....... :twisted:
 
Lotta judgment from people who don't like fem guys. It's almost like you feel threatened or jealous that MANY bi guys and straight guys out there are into fem guys. And they are. MANY of them. Being a fem boy means being soft, delicate, pretty boy, with a more shy/timid personality (not an aggressive personality) and MANY men are into that. It's funny that for those of you are are hairy, and huge, and not clean cut...you're all offended that many straight/bi guys aren't into that. Sorry, they're not.

Not to mention...I do believe most guys who preach about being into "masculine" and go on and on about their masculinity do so because of some self hate and homophobia. They want to be with a masculine guy because they aren't secure enough in their own sexuality and out in public, don't have to worry about being deemed gay.

Most straight men I've talked to (and I've talked to many) would skrew a fem, pretty boy. If they were cute and in shape.
Many of them wouldn't have anything to do with a hair bear.

For some people, sex isn't about just fitting a societal standard and pleasing society but doing what turns them on.

and the saying "if I wanted to be with a man...I'd be with a MAN" well, that fem boy is just as much a man. Broaden your definition of what man is and don't be narrow.
 
dreamdancer310 said:
lotta judgment from people who don't like fem guys. It's almost like you feel threatened or jealous that many bi guys and straight guys out there are into fem guys. And they are. Many of them. Being a fem boy means being soft, delicate, pretty boy, with a more shy/timid personality (not an aggressive personality) and many men are into that. It's funny that for those of you are are hairy, and huge, and not clean cut...you're all offended that many straight/bi guys aren't into that. Sorry, they're not.

Not to mention...i do believe most guys who preach about being into "masculine" and go on and on about their masculinity do so because of some self hate and homophobia. They want to be with a masculine guy because they aren't secure enough in their own sexuality and out in public, don't have to worry about being deemed gay.

Most straight men i've talked to (and i've talked to many) would skrew a fem, pretty boy. If they were cute and in shape.
Many of them wouldn't have anything to do with a hair bear.

For some people, sex isn't about just fitting a societal standard and pleasing society but doing what turns them on.

And the saying "if i wanted to be with a man...i'd be with a man" well, that fem boy is just as much a man. Broaden your definition of what man is and don't be narrow.
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Preach! :=D:
 
I'm a bi top and love fucking both, but a very passable Asian femboy will go to the front of the line!
 
@DreamDancer310 - I tried to reply to your Private Message, but your box is full.

You said:

Why not just state that you're not into fem guys...why make a big stink and seem judgmental toward those who are. There's MANY straight and bi men into fem guys....I don't know why guys like you feel threatened by that. The idea of a big masculine dominant top being with a submissive, cute, soft, boyish dude is a turn on for many. And BOTH are men. Being a man isn't just about winning spitting contests. And not everyone is into some hairy, smelly, bear . there are just as many guys out there who are disgusted by being with a latino guy..but that would make you angry and call them ignorant, but you stating your disdain for fem guys and others who are with them is supposed to be acceptable and non judgmental? please.
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My reply:

I answered the question posed by the OP. And I gave my reasons why. Judgemental? (I don't know if thats the right word, but, I'll go with it for the sake of discussion.) It's my preference.

I never said I preferred "some hairy, smelly, bear". In fact, not all masculine guys are "hairy, smelly bears". So judgemental of you.

I did not "make a big stink", put down, or "show disdain" for those that do like femboys, nor would I. I get that everyone has their turn-ons. Femboys don't do it for me. Why is that so horrible?

You make a lot of weird points - like guys like me feeling threatened by femboys, or guys who are into femboys. Where in the hell in my post did you come up with that? It's like you are so threatened by my unattraction to femboys that you started reaching for reasons why I might not be. I'm sure there are things that don't exactly get your motor purring, does that make you insecure, or threatened? Of course not. It makes you selective. It makes you aware of what you like, and what you want. It keeps you fulfilled.

So, to clarify: Sure, lots of other guys might like femboys. I don't. I tried it once, and I didn't like it. He sounded like a chick, he acted like a chick, and that isn't something I found attractive. It isn't judgemental. It's fact. Fuck, doesn't "femboy" mean "feminine boy"?

People like what they like. And despite what you said in your message about "guys out there who are disgusted by being with a latino guy". That would be their choice. Their preference. Shit, if it doesn't make your dick hard, you ain't gonna fuck it, are you? I wouldn't be angry, and I wouldn't call them ignorant. And I certainly wouldn't send them a private message whining about how unfair it is that they aren't interested in the same thing as I am. It isn't about feeling threatened, or being insecure. It's about knowing what I like, and being secure and confident enough to go after it.

You sound like an oversensitive soap-box preacher who believes the whole world would be better off with a hug. Join reality.


PS: I am also not into transvestites, transsexuals, senior citizens, super fat guys, super skinny guys, children, men with poor hygeine, or guys who do drugs. Any other PM's you wanna send about my preferences?
 
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