I would not say that most straight guys don't do this. I see it all the time at the gym and it means nothing. Straight guys are always horsing around and having anybody that will touch them feel their pumped up arms. I always considered it a "macho" thing and never paid any attention to it. Unless you are CERTAIN this guy has more than a need for everyone, including you, to see and feel how muscular he might be, I would proceed with caution. You may be getting mixed signals and your own desire for more of him may be outweighing the reality of the situation. Now...if he starts touching you...go for it!! Go back to the straight bar and get to know him better as a person, not just a "muscle".


