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Do these pants make me look fat?

Yooper

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Or, how do you answer your BF/Partner/Husband/Spouse/Significant Other when there is NO correct answer?

Eventually, in any relationship, you run into this.

Mine isn't the pants question. :help:

My partner ABSOLUTELY CANNOT figure out which bin to put the garbage in. We've been over and over it. Yet he still puts the garbage into the recycle bin and vice versa. There's a $100 fine if we do it wrong and get caught. :##:

If I tell him, he gets upset. So I generally just take out the garbage myself.

How do you handle the 'No Right Answer' questions without a Divorce?

Huh?
 
I go for honesty "They do make you look fat" and I'd expect the same in return... because if your partner's thinking it, there's one heck of a chance everyone else will be too.
 
I tell him whatever he wants to hear. I was married for a very long time...I learned that lesson years ago.
 
The answer to that question is a quick, no-need-to-think-about-it "NO!"

If you want to elaborate, "ABSOLUTELY NOT!"
 
"Do these pants make me look fat?"

"No sweetheart, it's your ass that makes you look fat, the pants are fine."






Needless to say I'm single.
 
Just let him mix it up and then when you get fined, ask him to pay the bill.

And tell him that his pants make him look like a muffin top.
 
Put a sign on top of both bins making it clear what can and cannot go in each one. When he gets it wrong, pinch him.
 
I have had this discussion on other topics and it goes pretty much like this when I have reached my boiling point - How old are you? Are you educated? Do you have a job, paid well, and apparently have some responsibility at work? Then why the fuck can you not get (insert topic of conversation here) correct?!?! Did you get hit in the head - do you need to grab the short bus and take it to work? JUST STOP DOING IT WRONG!

I also find the louder you scream this at the other person, eventually they will get the point. It may not solve your issue the first time, but eventually you will get your point across.
 
Yooper said:
Or, how do you answer your BF/Partner/Husband/Spouse/Significant Other when there is NO correct answer?

Eventually, in any relationship, you run into this.

Mine isn't the pants question. :help:

My partner ABSOLUTELY CANNOT figure out which bin to put the garbage in. We've been over and over it. Yet he still puts the garbage into the recycle bin and vice versa. There's a $100 fine if we do it wrong and get caught. :##:

If I tell him, he gets upset. So I generally just take out the garbage myself.

How do you handle the 'No Right Answer' questions without a Divorce?

Huh?
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Just do the garbage yourself, it is not worth the stress otherwise. For 35 yrs I've watched someone believe the earth recycled everything and then when the bins came everything went in the recycle bin. It is far easier to do it in the first place then diving into the bin to sort it. He cant even sort it in the kitchen.He has only recently managed to drag the bin back in.

On the pants.. we were going out to a market and I refused to go with him because his shorts had holes and he was not wearing undies, I said you can go out by yourself like that but not with me. He changed. At the markets he grabbed me by the arm and said "and you were worried about me" I saw a guy with just as bad condition shorts and his knob was hanging out of a hole.

There is no point in yelling or screaming (unless it really is your thing and that still doesnt make it good). A trade off works the best. Take advantage of the things he likes to do. Better still take advantage of the things you like about him and especially what he likes to do for you.
 
biguy732 said:
I have had this discussion on other topics and it goes pretty much like this when I have reached my boiling point - How old are you? Are you educated? Do you have a job, paid well, and apparently have some responsibility at work? Then why the fuck can you not get (insert topic of conversation here) correct?!?! Did you get hit in the head - do you need to grab the short bus and take it to work? JUST STOP DOING IT WRONG!

I also find the louder you scream this at the other person, eventually they will get the point. It may not solve your issue the first time, but eventually you will get your point across.
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ARE YOU SERIOUS?
Ok you have a problem sorry which is abusive . Do you do this with your friends, workplace also? Have you ever heard of anger management ? Frightening people with aggression is not the answer and I implore you to discover this immediately.
I could scream all of this back at you and what would you do ?
 
Lukeee said:
Put a sign on top of both bins making it clear what can and cannot go in each one. When he gets it wrong, pinch him.
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TheJapBoy said:
Label the bins?
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Considering the 96 gallon Recycle bin has in 2-inch debossed block letters 'RECYCLE ONLY' and is a completely different color (blue with a grey lid) than the Garbage bin (also 96 gallons, but black with a black lid), labeling them again would be an exercise in futility.

I just try to do it myself.

I give up. #-o
 
No wirey. Lets not even start with the r word

The poster was/is a directionist....

No need to fan the embers of a flamer damn it.
 
Lefty said:
No wirey. Lets not even start with the r word

The poster was/is a directionist....

No need to fan the embers of a flamer damn it.
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Is yooper a flamer or lefty? What is wrong here ?
 
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