Do top guys suck?

[dkonfrost]

I've been with a total top who absolutely loved to suck my dick. i guess i lucked out that way!

I know it's a matter of personal preference, but whether you're a top, bottom, versatile, upside-down, whatever, IMHO sucking dick is a fun part of sex. give it a blow a few times, you know? ;-)

 

[ncguy7]

I'm all over the map on this question, and I'm OK with being that. So much depends on the sexual energy, the other guy, what I want. I have so many different sexual energies.

I have two different play buds that are both all top, and neither one has ever, ever sucked me, even though I've given them both long session of BJs at least a dozen times each. Once when I was real horny, I begged one of them to suck me just a little and he still wouldn't. He just put his hand on my head and told me to keep going. And yet ... yet ... some of the HOTTEST sex I've had is with these two. Their refusal actually drives me mad in some hot, unexplainable way.

On the other hand, I know another top who loves to such me, and it's just terrific.

Usually when I'm topping, I like to kiss the guy, suck him and rim him. But sometimes, if the vibe is going a certain way, I won't suck him. I'll make it ALL about me. And you know what - those are the sessions I get the most call backs on. Lots of guys LIKE to be put into service, and I like to put them there. They say I'm good at it.

And in a whole other space, I knew guy and we loved to 69 each other and do frequent swaps. We were perfect for it - same dick size, same height and weight. Couldn't imagine a one or the other with him.

I've even made a game out of the denial thing - I know a few guys who prefer to get sucked but are willing to suck. We'll get together and toss a coin or do some skill or endurance thing. Loser has to put on his pants and suck the winner off. Loser can't touch himself or get off (until he goes home - LOL). It sounds WEIRD, I know, but it's a hell of a lot of fun. The tension is HUGE, not knowing if you'll be the sucker or the suckee.

So the bottom line is I'm OK with a top doing that (not sucking) or me not sucking a bottom if the sexual energy and vibe is there for that kind of dynamic.

 

[NW007]

As with many questions, the answer probably depends on each of our experiences.

My own experience is that those that have topped me, have also sucked me.

 

[gabriel1]

I've never met a top who sucked

 

[john71]

hmmmz i do believe i'm guilty of this lol.

the few times i've done it with a guy, i've topped all times but once. it wasn't the greatest thing.. i enjoyed topping much more lol. As far as sucking, i really only do it to be nice.... never will someone cum in my mouth though!

probably depends more on the person too... if i really really like that person then i'm willing to do much much more lol.

 

[colemanshs]

When I first started having sex with men, I was a top and I didn't want to suck or jerk my partners cock. Now, I'm a bottom and I still feel pretty much the same unless I have strong feelings for that person. If there is a connection, then I will do whatever it is with him; however, if it's just someone for a hookup or something, I feel very uncomfortable about it.

I know. Wierd.

 

[thewiz]

I used to be an exclusive top; however, I have found that receiving can be soooo fun and good that I have really gotten into it. I have always loved to suck dick however; it is one of the things I so wanted to do before I came out and that I love. Nothing like kissing a guy laying next to you, running your tongue down his chest, around his nipples and then sucking his dick, his balls and smelling all that is him.

So I must be different in that I love to suck dick......

 

[sixthson]

Can anyone say "internalised homophobia"?

I think this is exactly right.

 

[Ninja108]

Took a while for my bf to do it(he's bi) but you better be willing to return the favor or it's done. I'm not here just to get you off.