Do you consider inheritance winning the lottery?

[ADAM333]

It was no fastrack to the high life but I totally get it...I've seen it...my grandmother explained it all to me when I was young. She treated me as a familiar soul and her and I said what needed to be said, My mom says we had our own language. AS a kid from an old family my grandmother wasn't wealthy, she worked many jobs one ending before she could drink coffee she was ready at the next and next job until her last shift of the day...stringing beads for the jewler, maid, am breakfast thru lunch shift...reading tea leaves Anyway heard lots about why which uncle hates this one, why my aunt called my other aunt a 1 dollar millionaire etc....she broke it down...Though she was born into a very famous weathy family after age 4 she was one of 5 kids after her dad died, an unskilled Irish immigtant that was disowned after her dad died, she was artsy, liked music, we water colored and oiled, she pushed reading old and new all the time...great expectations to the rage of angels...there were so many family fights about whose rights are what...who owned what, why auntie needed to will more to my aunt etc..,.at a young age I learned to tune it out. I never ingaged. Up unil recently my savings wound up in a reletives trust for her benefactors. She has alzheimers and it came on bang....no signs no dementia...just she has it and her head isn't thinking in our dimension most of the time. Mostly, supposedly had my hollywood earnings in a ira or some investment...now it's all her worth is in a general account with her will and trust...what makes me crazy,...my grandmother said one day you will see that you got screwed. Don't waste your life counting on other peoples money, wills, gifts.....when it happens all that time wondering will be just short of being a sneeze in your life...when you get screwed, yeah...you'll be pissed. Weigh the odds and reasons and resposibilities. Can the boat or car or hummell collection etc...will it be worth the fighting? If you fight over a will it will never be over until yours is being read....but, probably not even as soon as that. I saw how bitter and crewl family were to each other...their kids....husbands. wives etc early deaths always mad uninvited lonely. My dads family screwed me twice. My grandmother called it the money if blood. I saw the pain in those that explode if they dont get salt on their part of the will....My oneliner when it comes to sign....both times....keep it.

 

[ADAM333]

It amazes me that people feel they should get stuff when it comes to things like that.



My aunt's husband was badly hurt at work before he married my aunt, but got paid after they were married. Some in my family was pissed he did not give them some of his money from the lawsuit. His foot is pretty much black and dead now, but he married their sister so they should get something too. They thought the same when I got hurt. Fuck them.

dude, so true and wrong. you're right but instead of fucking them all could we cut off the males and stuff the women wish superglue...i don't want to fuck them....
That mindset is so like....how even dare you?