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Do you fear getting rejected?

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Women are so much more complicated compared to men. Well not really but they are much harder to read and there is usually so much more work and effort involved in trying to hook up with a girl. You have to charm them, talk to them and even then you may not get to fuck. It all depends on how willing the girl is to put out.


With guys it's just, look at each other and "you wanna fuck?" .... "yeah"...


I think I'm just bitter because I tend to pussy out too much when I have opportunities right in front of me but I avoid asking them for their number because I don't wanna get rejected. :mad: Arrgghhh....

Today I was talking to this CUTE girl at the mall and we hit it off and I think she was interested but I didn't ask her for her number. Damn pussy I am.

I noticed with women I am MUCH more self conscious and would take rejection a lot harder than if it was a guy. Why is that?

Oh, and on another note, how bold are you when it comes to getting what you want? Can you handle rejection well?



Discuss. :p
 
Re: Why are women so much harder than men?

you could go to a club and find a drunk girl if all you want is poon
 
Re: Why are women so much harder than men?

I go to bars. I hate clubs.

The ones who get wasted enough to let you bang them are usually hogs or already claimed by some other guy who probably paid the money to get her drunk but yeah... you have a point.
 
This reminds me of an old joke:

A minister of religion, nearing the end of a long and blameless life looking after the poor and needy, was visited by God, who said to him: "You've worked hard and tirelessly for me, doing only good, and before you leave this life, I'd like to reward you - what would you like?"

"Well..." said the minister, "My brother moved overseas many years ago, and now he's dying and can't travel. I'd dearly love to visit him but I'm terrified of flying. Could you build a road over the Pacific Ocean so that I can drive over?"

"ARE YOU MAD?" screamed God, "Think of the environment, man! - the devastation that such a road would cause would be immense! I could do it of course, but at far too great a cost to your fragile Earth. Think of something else."

"OK, then," replied the minister. "I've been married now for over fifty years, but you know I don't think I've ever really understood my wife - women are so different to men. Do you think you could fix things so that I could understand how women work?"

There was silence for a few minutes, and then God said: "Do you want single, or double lanes?"

-T.
 
did you change the title of this thread?

I used to fear rejection and almost never made the first move unless it was a sure thing. Now, it's no big deal. There's no point in getting your panties in a bunch over some random pretty boy when there's another one around the corner.
 
I tell myself that you rarely meet the person you are interested in who are also interested in you the first time. You have to meet many people before you meet the one. Rejection sucks but it is a part of life.
 
Sultan said:
I noticed with women I am MUCH more self conscious and would take rejection a lot harder than if it was a guy. Why is that?
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Maybe because all you want from a guy is sex and girls represent so much more to you?
 
ourgaysite said:
I tell myself that you rarely meet the person you are interested in who are also interested in you the first time. You have to meet many people before you meet the one. Rejection sucks but it is a part of life.
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Remember the song"row row row yr boat?" Use this lyrics to sing.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, yes!

Keep singing and remember, at the end of no's, there's ALWAYS a yes waiting.
How bad you want the yes determines how steady you go through the no's. Is it worth it? You tell me...|

How many yes(s) you need to get the one? Just one single yes.
 
i get rejected all the time.

it never gets any easier.
 
Newbie_69 said:
Remember the song"row row row yr boat?" Use this lyrics to sing.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, yes!

Keep singing and remember, at the end of no's, there's ALWAYS a yes waiting.
How bad you want the yes determines how steady you go through the no's. Is it worth it? You tell me...|

How many yes(s) you need to get the one? Just one single yes.
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HA! That's a good one. ..|
 
Rejection is scary and horrible, but at the end of the day, it depends how much acceptance there is to balance it out.

If you get your fair share of acceptance as well as rejection, then that's fine.

However, if all you get is rejection, you'll probably stop trying. On the other hand, if all you get is acceptance, rejection will seem impossible and something not to be feared.
 
Sultan said:
Women are so much more complicated compared to men. Well not really but they are much harder to read and there is usually so much more work and effort involved in trying to hook up with a girl. You have to charm them, talk to them and even then you may not get to fuck. It all depends on how willing the girl is to put out.


With guys it's just, look at each other and "you wanna fuck?" .... "yeah"...


I think I'm just bitter because I tend to pussy out too much when I have opportunities right in front of me but I avoid asking them for their number because I don't wanna get rejected. :mad: Arrgghhh....

Today I was talking to this CUTE girl at the mall and we hit it off and I think she was interested but I didn't ask her for her number. Damn pussy I am.

I noticed with women I am MUCH more self conscious and would take rejection a lot harder than if it was a guy. Why is that?

Oh, and on another note, how bold are you when it comes to getting what you want? Can you handle rejection well?



Discuss. :p
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Uhm no, bitch. You would have to charm the pants off of me. And based on your preconceived notions you wouldn't have a chance with me. Sorry for you!
 
dj415 said:
Uhm no, bitch. You would have to charm the pants off of me. And based on your preconceived notions you wouldn't have a chance with me. Sorry for you!
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You go girl!

monique.jpg
 
Re: Do you fear getting rejected?

And let me be clear. I fear for those that are rejected by me.

Poor mother fuckers!
 
It's a case of nothing ventured, nothing gained.

You try.

Sometimes you're rejected.

Some good times, you're not.

Big deal.
 
Nope.........a few straight guys have turned me down though.........
 
I don't fear it--but if you don't try then you never know...what if?

But being told "no thanks"---doesn't feel to too great, but it's better than going home and kicking yourself or and over.
 
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