Do you feel conformable talking about you're sex life to your family?

[USEDCAR]

i was thinking about this i remember my mother coming into my room a few months ago and telling me she had a dream that i was gay. and i had a boyfriend and she was over someone house and we both walked out in our boxers and she could tell me and the guy had sex. and she said its a shame when the devil put bad stuff in my head . And she said i know your a virgin and stuff like that i went oh wow and changed the subject which im not i had sex with a guy a few times and I'm also in the closet.

To answer my question i don't feel conformable telling my family about my sex life. When something is mentioned about it i always tell them yall will never know so stop asking. So pretty much everyone thinks I'm a virgin thats not into sex or girls.


so when your family mention something about your sex life do you tell them i fuck a guy or is it common sense or you tell them to shut up its none of your business. Or do they automatically think your a virgin thats not into sex?

 

[kevbo]

I only talk about sex with my sister...

 

[probable]

no. never. awkward...

 

[theplayerking]

None of their business.

 

[TickTockMan]

My family is coming around. They know that I have talks with people about sex and sexuality all of the time. That usually lead to one or more asking me questions in general, which turns to me. When they ask straight out I tell them. It doesn't bother me at all.


Now when it comes to my mother only somtimes. She can get creepy and wants to know way more than a mother should know for any reason.

 

[joshgld]

It would never occur to me to talk about sex with my parents...my brother and I discuss it all the damn time.

 

[hotdog1846]

Yuk. That might lead to me thinking about my parents having sex, which is just gross.

 

[bankside]

I feel comfortable to mention my relationship to anyone in my family.
I feel comfortable to tell anyone in my family that my sex life is private.

Fortunately no one has ever asked. "Hey bankside, still getting good head from your boyfriend?" asked Mom. "Oh and pass the gravy."

No, it doesn't work like that.

 

[USEDCAR]

No butt I tawlk grammer

thats good but keep it out of my thread

 

[omminc]

What they don't need to know wont hurt them...

They know I am interested in guys, just if they knew I've done things... wait... they would just say use a condom...

but still, it would feel awkward to talk about it... Very awkward.

 

[BRIOHAZARD]

I don't talk about sex to anyone in my family other than my cousin. =]



My mom can barely get past the fact that I'm gay,
I'm pretty sure if I said "Hey mom. How are you? I just had sex with this really hot guy before I came over. He had the biggest dick I'd ever seen." she'd double over and die.

 

[Yooper]

It is REALLY embarrassing when my 71 year old Mother starts talking about HERS.

 

[Paws]

I am not a sex life so I don't talk about it.

 

[Rex]

I've never been close enough with my parents to discuss anything sexual. I'm not even comfortable watching sexual stuff on TV with them. If a nude women is prancing around naked in a movie and my mom or dad is in the room I'll probably change the channel.

I can discuss sex and stuff with cousins and other family members but never with parents or most of my older relatives except for some uncles. When it comes to my sex life though, no I don't really discuss it with anyone.

 

[lawrenceal]

Nope, it just make things really awkward. Even watching tv series or movies with kissing / sex scenes make us feel really awkward. I do discuss a bit with my sister. But not entirely, since she wasn't really that interested.

 

[alexunited]

I am comfortable watching say, sex scenes on TV with them but I think there is that general consensus among all of my family members that talkin about sex is off the table. Well, we don't even communicate that much to begin with. I don't think I would be comfortable discussing my sexual misadventures with my brother or sis, or heck, my mom.

 

[doctorsun]

I have no sex life and never have, but I get uncomfortable if I'm watching TV with my mother and the word sex is mentioned...so, no, I can't imagine being comfortable talking about my sex life with my family.

 

[TickTockMan]

Why would anyone talk to family about their sex life?

Sex is the most natural thing in the world. Why shouldn’t we if asked, sought out for advice, or just chatting?



There is nothing to be embarrassed about.

 

[bounder]

Comfortable? No.
Have I before? Sometimes when asked.
Full Disclosure? Fuck no.

 

[boxerdudeuk]

they've met boyfriends, but that's enough...

and it's not a gay vs straight thing either... if i dated women i wouldn't talk about our actual sex lives either... there's some things you don't want to know about your family members, and their sexual habits/likes/dislikes are definitely one of those things...

at least with me anyway. some people may be different.