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Do you have a sibling? How has having/not having a sibling impacted your life?

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that sucks, dude.

i have an older brother who is about a year and six months older than me. there was a lot of sibling rivalry growing up but we're cool now. would say that him and me are exact opposites personality wise even though as much as i hate to say it, we pretty much look alike and another fucked up thing, we pretty much have similar names as our first names start with the same letter so people confuse us and our names. :mad: whatever he was good in, i sucked at and whatever he sucked at, i was good in. i knew how to get good grades even though i didn't always get them because i didn't do my work. either way, i knew how to get the grades while he struggled to get good grades no matter how hard he studied. he on the other hand was the guy who was active in sports, clubs, volunteer work, and was holding down jobs while i stayed my ass at home not doing shit. i would say that i attract people towards me where i come off as a people person when i'm not and he's someone who tries to make a lot of friends but has trouble doing so. he's also straight too. he knows how to dress and i'd say, he's way more attractive than me. i'm the guy with no fashion sense, dresses like a bum and looks hit in the face.

i would say as an only child, you pretty much have a lot of pressure on your hands. if there's more than one sibling, if one sibling screws up and the other is doing the right thing, the parent will try to take the credit for the one doing right. they'll be like "why can't you be like our brother?" they don't want to take responsibility for the one that fucks up but they sure as hell want to take the credit for the one that gets the good grades, gets rich and etc.
 
There are 5 boys in my family and we are all 2 yrs. apart. 2 of us are gay, 2 are straight, and 1 is bi. We were all very close growing up and remain that way in adulthood. Of course, my gay brother and I remained really close for obvious reasons. We looked out for each other growning up, you didn't mess with one of us and not expect the wrath of the other 4. Needless to say, we were well known in our small town.
 
i have four siblings and they have either enriched my life beyond belief or made it an absolute horror show.
 
1 sister, the oldest and 6 brothers...always felt sorry for her. 1 brother was gay and died of aids and the oldest brother is a homophobe and asshole but the rest I would call my best friends. I would not change anything about growing up with them and I know alot of my friends were jealous of us even though we we poor...feeding 10 was pretty costly but there was so much love...who cared. Moms family was 16 kids..Dads was 9 so lots of relitives and we were all close..most are now gone and can'T WAIT TO SEE THEM ALL AGAIN SOME DAY.
 
I have 9 siblings, I fall in the middle. I think we tended to be relatively close growing up because of our bad parents. Things changed between my siblings and me when they found out I was gay.
 
I'm an only child, and I doubt it's had any real impact on my life. I've got no other knowledge to compare it too anyway. I wasn't spoilt, despite being the only child in my mother's immediate family, probably because all her cousins bred like rabbits and there were nearly a dozen of us in total.

I've often wondered if having a sibling would have made me a different person, I guess it would have had too. There are times I wish there was someone else around, but there's no point wanting what you can't have.

I've been alone most of my life, and I guess that impact is that for the most part I don't need anyone to lean on, although there are times I wouldn't say no to that.
 
I find that your observation in the OP that parents care about an only child MORE to, quite frankly, be ludicrous...

But, then again, I have 9 brothers and sisters -- so, what do I know... :rotflmao:

:):):)
 
swerve said:
But, then again, I have 9 brothers and sisters -- so, what do I know... :rotflmao:

:):):)
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^ I had a 'mini premonition' about you and this exact topic this morning (about 12 hours ago) :eek:

Shortly after I woke up, for some inexplicable reason, I thought about you and SPECIFICALLY how you said you had many brothers and sisters. Then I tried to remember what you said happened to them, that you said - 1 was this, 1 was that, 1 was in prison(?), 1 you don't talk to, 1 you're close to, etc. etc.

It happens all the time - random thoughts and musings that later in the day or next day manifest themselves like this. It's really coincidental and very odd.

Anyway, for the sake of completing the premonition....

Tell me about your 9 brothers and sisters again, and what has happened to each of them? ;)
 
^I HOPE that your premonition does NOT come true...

I talk to and am close with ALL of them...

And...

No one in my family is in prison... :rotflmao:

DON'T START RUMORS about such HORRIBLE stuff!!! [-X

:):):)
 
I have a younger brother by three years, we were never that close. As a kid he usually played with neighbors that were around his age or younger and I would rather be by myself. Its been about a year since I have seen or talked to him aside from facebook every now and then.
 
swerve said:
^I HOPE that your premonition does NOT come true...

I talk to and am close with ALL of them...

And...

No one in my family is in prison... :rotflmao:

DON'T START RUMORS about such HORRIBLE stuff!!! [-X

:):):)
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:o

I've got you mixed up with some other JUBber, apologies.

I'm now racking my brains trying to think which JUBber it was who said on here that they had a huge number of brothers/sisters but some were in prison, some they were estranged from, etc.

It was a post from I'd say well over 2 years ago, so no wonder I'm having trouble remembering. :lol:
 
It's quite obvious I am the younger sibling. It's one of those things you can easily determine about a person.
 
I have a younger brother. Our age gap is 11 years, and we couldn't be more different. I may as well not have a brother. Makes me sad, but we have nothing in common that we like to do. So we didn't do sports or anything else together. 2 strangers under one roof.

I had always wondered if things would have been better had we grown up only a year or two apart, but I'll never know. Truly sad.
 
I'm 1 of 9 also.
It teaches you how to deal with different personalities.
 
Older brother (by 18 months), younger sister (by 7 1/2 years), both straight. Mild case of classic middle-child syndrome, according to some. I'm closer to my sister, but I'm still on good terms with my brother. It did teach me a lot about people in general, getting to observe our interactions (especially the ones that didn't include me).

Lex
 
I have 3 older siblings 2 older brothers and an older sister with me being the youngest. Growing up the youngest has been a great learning experience from an early age since I got to witness some of the troubled and obnoxious behavior from my older siblings and opted to not even dare try some of the things they were doing. So in other words I was a goody goody growing up which I still am today but to a much lesser extent.
 
I'm the oldest of 3, and the only boy. The age gap between me, and my sisters, are 3 and 7yr. I can't put into words how much I always wished one of them, either of them, had been a boy, too!

I went off to college at 18, and never really lived at Home after that. That meant, I never really got to KNOW my youngest sister, like my other one, because she was only 11 at that time. And, it seemed she was turning out to be the Best of the 3 of us!

We lost her, in a car accident, just before her 25th birthday.

I can not say that my remaining sister, and I, are what most would consider "close". We only see each other maybe twice a year, or so. However, when we are together, we're quite "tight"! We know things about each other that NOBODY else does! Well ... at least we Think so!

"My" Kev is 4 of 8, with two brothers. And, his family is Nothing like mine! Heck! They aren't even like each other! And, I do Love all of them in their own ways. I feel I'm even closer to some of them than I am to my own sister! Well ... at least I've seen some of them more often during the last 30yr. It's a matter of location.

My sister has met Kev, Many times, and they get along exceedingly well! However, she has yet to meet any of his siblings ... yet!

"Family", however that might be defined, is something that can have tremendous effects on all of "Us"! And, it's quite Important that we all realize just how much a part of "Us" that ALL of "Them" can be with "The Good", AND "The Bad"! (group)

All the more reasons to ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
I am the youngest of 4. It doesn't impact me that much since I have a huge gap between my siblings. I am convinced I'm an accidental product from sexual intercourse. Me and my brothers are pretty much strangers.
 
I'm 6th of seven kids: 4 older brothers, one older sister, and one younger sister by 5 years. I'm 61. All of my brothers and sisters and brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law are still alive.

It was tough being the youngest boy. I got all the hand-me-downs (I was in high school before I wore a pair of pants that hadn't been worn by at least one of my brothers) and I got blamed for everything that got broke or lost.
 
I have 2 Brothers...One is older and the other is younger....I grew up with the younger Brother and I Bossed him around 24/7...I will Boss him around for the rest of his Life...He can hold his own when I back him in a corner but he KNOWS to RESPECT Big Brother MM...

Now my older brother is a different story....LOL...We didnt grow up in the same house but a couple of times I tried to Boss him and he wasnt having ANY of that and shut me DOWN...LOL..

So there's benefits to being the OLDEST but it Sucks being the youngest....
 
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