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do you have straight friends?

I probably have more friends that are straight than are gay. All of my friends know that I'm gay. They don't have any problem with it. :)

Most of my gay friends are coupled. I only have 4 gay friends that are single.
 
I don't choose my friends based on their sexual orientation. Considering that we are out numbered, most of my friends are straight, but since I've been out, and in the social scene with more and more gay people, I'm gaining new friends who happen to be gay.
 
I don't really have gay friends, but acquaintances. I work with a few gay people but we never really hung out outside of work. Other than that I don't really have many things in common with most gay guys I know, so all my friends are straight.

The reason why I post here so much is probably because it's my only level of interacting with gay people on a personal level.


I have a question. Do you most of you guys who have straight friends, are they mostly female or male?
 
F22-Raptor said:
Bitch you put me and Az in quotes, so we are just your "friends"? Go fist yourself and don't call me at 3 am asking for extra condoms.

I don't have any gay friends and ALL of my friends and buds are hardcore straight bunch. I can't imagine even having gay friends because from JUB experiences it seems everything turns sexual and into blow jobs.
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hey now....I only put az in quote...you ain't my friend since I"m not ur friend!!!!!
 
I have a lot of straight friends...I think it's because of the work I am in.

They love me and I love them and blah blah,but I do have trouble finding nice gay guys that are ready to have friends only.

Tides are turning though...

If you are gay and in Illinois and wanna be friends,no strings.....lemme know.

Im a nice friend. I promise.

:)
 
where my homos at??

just about all with a few exceptions are straight, but that's typical for my age group I guess.

it'll even out soon enough :D
 
I have very few heterosexual friends... four, to be exact. They are all female, and two of them are much older than me. Outside of work and family, I know no heterosexual men.

But then, I live near a gay mecca... there are a lot more gays here from whom to choose. Most of the people I know socially I met through gay AA meetings or the drag courts, so of course everyone I know is gay.

But you know what? I think some of you guys who worry about sexual tension in friendship are cheating yourself of some great friendships. All my best male friends are men I wanted to sleep with. Sexuality adds another level of intimacy and regard to a friendship. So just because he wants to suck your dick, don't write him off, OK?
 
Most of my friends are straight. Actually I get along with them better, and some are bi (at least now they are) :lol:
 
Pretty much all my friends are straight. Most of them are girls though. I ony have 2 male friends really, one is gay and one is...questionable. I did have a Bi friend but he was an ass.

I prefer straight friends to be honest. Particularly female friends. I find them easier to talk to and I enjoy their company more.
 
Yup all of them are straight i have a couple of gay/bi friends not many tho
 
G-Lexington said:
I have both straight friends and gay friends, and they all kick ass.

Lex
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I'm with Lex! I have more straight friends, though, because that's just who I grew up with. I don't see my gay friends as often but they are cool because nothing sexual ever entered the friendship.
 
Interesting thread. Never really thought about it, but most of my friends are straight. However, two of my best friends didn't know I was gay until I told them years later. And yes, they're still my best friends :)
 
I'm guessing that about 25% of my friends are gay. And, in general, my best friends are mostly hetero, by a similar percentage.

My friends are men overwhelmingly, mostly because my hobby interests are in things which are very much dominated by men.

I tend to find/observe that gay PLATONIC friendships are harder to make. I think I've figured out that if a gay person isn't interested in you sexually, chances are good that they will have some resistance to getting into a friendship.

Why should it be any different than a straight dude (who ALSO isn't interested in sexing you, but is perfectly ready for a friendship)? I can think of 7 or 8 people who would be more than willing to sit with me at length, if I needed to vent or talk about heavy-duty personal issues or deep personal philosophies, extremely private needs for advice, etc., and NONE of them are gay.

I certainly have no "requirement" of possible eventual sex, etc. to be a friend with anybody, including anyone who may happen to be gay. But I'm curious whether others have noticed similar things when trying to form friendships with other gay males?

I actually tried to post something like this on a similar thread maybe a year ago, but I couldn't come up with the words to describe the phenomenon.
 
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