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Do you HAVE to fuck?

MarkDW

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I mean, everytime you have sex, either with a partner, regular, one night stand.....do you HAVE to fuck? Is it expected? Sometimes, I would just rather JO, Suck, kiss, rim, etc, but NOT fuck. Am I weird?

Thoughts?
 
Absolutely not. This is a misconception perpetuated by porn movies. Guy meets guy - they kiss they suck, they rim and then one fucks the other, (or they flip if they're really lucky.) This is how it plays out every time.

First and foremost sex between partners should be about communication. What gets you off, what gets him off. Blowjobs, mutual masturbation, facials, 69ing - it's all good!!!

Orgasm doesn't even have to be the final goal. There have been times when I didn't quite get there, and we just laughed it off. Again, communication is key.
 
Hi, I've moved this thread to this forum, since the topic is sometimes discussed here.

In answer to your question, no, I don't think a couple HAS to fuck at all. Many couples don't like it, or just aren't into it for whatever reason. They get along just fine expressing in love in other ways...especially in the ways you mentioned.
 
That's a no. Variety is always good. Sometimes its nice to lay naked. Or kiss passionately. Or have some foreplay. Don't always go all the way. Use some imagination.
 
MarkDW said:
I would just rather JO, Suck, kiss, rim..
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If that's what is on the buffet, I suspect you'll have no problem finding dinner guests.
 
Eagle653 said:
Hi, I've moved this thread to this forum, since the topic is sometimes discussed here.

In answer to your question, no, I don't think a couple HAS to fuck at all. Many couples don't like it, or just aren't into it for whatever reason. They get along just fine expressing in love in other ways...especially in the ways you mentioned.
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No problem. Not sure I understand why "here", but you're a mod, so okey dokey.
 
I think that depends completely and solely on your partner. If your partner insists on fucking every time, then you either accede to that, or you work on changing his mind. Other guys probably wouldn't mind altering the routine...

Lex
 
sometime a blowjob or even a handjob can do the trick depending on the guy and the situation...

I don't get guys who don't think its sex unless they fuck someone.
 
Nah, I can pass on the fucking parts, the rest is more than enough for me!
 
Sometimes my ex and I didn't have time in the morning but still wanted t get off so we just jacked off together. Other times we spent so long with foreplay that we didn't feel like fucking. So no, you don't always need to fuck and you don't always need to cum.
 
For hookups, at least for the first (or only) time I don't think fucking is necessarily the norm.
 
There are so many fun ways to have an orgasm, you can't possibly save every single orgasm for anal sex.

And frankly, you don't even have to have an orgasm every time. It's not like oral sex feels really bad and pointless until you have an orgasm. It can stand alone, or it can pave the way for more fun later in the day.
 
There are plenty of ways for man to man action. Mutal masturbation, cock sucking, rimming. Make use of those hands and tongue on your partner. When it cum time yu might want to try fucking down the road. Your choice if so play safe wear those rubbers. Have fun.
 
I don't have to fuck.

I've had guys jerk me off and I was very happy with that, and other times I didn't get off at all and still felt great at the end of the night.

I DO like getting off though, however it happens. I've even jerked myself off while the guy watched and played with himself. Hot!
 
I'd guess that the majority of first-time hook ups or guys that are just fooling around are usually of a non-penetrative variety. Many people in serious and/or long-term relationships, or even just dating, don't have anal sex often or at all. While I frequently want to have anal sex with my boyfriend, a lot of the time we don't have the energy/time to put into it - it does depend on the mood, the physical factor as well...
 
Thanks for all the great replies. Good to know I'm not alone!!

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I'm only occassionally in the mood for fucking. I'll top but will never again bottom. Everything else is so erotic to me: licking the shaft, sucking, mutual jo and passionate kissing anywhere on the body.
 
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