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Do you keep fit to attract guys?

Not to attract guys, just for myself...I do a little bit to try & keep somewhat - like trying to get out on short walks & such a few times per week, but fact is I'm old & wearing out, I can't take loner hikes like I used to like to do on weekends.

And simple fact is there's nothing I could to attract guys even if I wanted to (not that it would matter, since even if I could 'attract' to begin with, all I would end up doing is just driving them away anyway .. )
 
My right arm is more muscular than my left :lol:
 
hahahahaha


The very idea.

That ship sailed around the same time as the Titanic.
 
I'm not too fit yet, but slowly getting there. The answer is yes, but I think it's kind of false to say one's doing it to attract guys. They are, but attracting guys is also good for them, so ultimately they're doing it for themselves. Not everything one does for one's self is necessarily personally pleasurable either. But in fact, once you start, you do learn to enjoy it or at least get so used to it it doesn't become a burden ;).

I've never bought into the whole 'fat pride' thing. I mean scoff burgers all the time if you want, just don't be surprised if guys that show a stronger sense of healthy pride and discipline are further up the queue than you :p.
 
Although I don't look like Robert Redford or Paul Newman, I look pretty good for 58. I jog when I have the energy after work. Now that it's freezing outside, I don't venture out. :(
 
I aim to be fit for being healthier. An improved physical condition may contribute to the overall attractiveness, but that is just an extra thingy.
 
JarodA said:
I'm not too fit yet, but slowly getting there. The answer is yes, but I think it's kind of false to say one's doing it to attract guys. They are, but attracting guys is also good for them, so ultimately they're doing it for themselves. Not everything one does for one's self is necessarily personally pleasurable either. But in fact, once you start, you do learn to enjoy it or at least get so used to it it doesn't become a burden ;).

I've never bought into the whole 'fat pride' thing. I mean scoff burgers all the time if you want, just don't be surprised if guys that show a stronger sense of healthy pride and discipline are further up the queue than you :p.
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I never heard of healthy pride before but that's exactly how I feel :cool:
 
Hmmmm....
 
I keep fit because I'm older (nearly 70) and it's part of good health. But there is - to me - a difference between being "fit" and being well-built. I'm naturally well-built (which I got from my my dad, who had a v-shape until he was 53 (as my mother always reminded me), but I'm a mesomorph body type (naturally muscular). So, I only work out for tone.
That said, since I was well-built even at 15, I've watched guys struggle to reach the "body type" that they think is the only one that will attract other men. They're wrong: some guys LIKE stock guys (a little extra meat on their bones), or skinny guys, or whatever. It disturbs me that there's this mentality that having muscles makes you one of the "superior class." Sometimes guys are well built, but emotionally immature, so keeping "fit" should involve being an emotionally mature guy as well as just "keeping in shape."
As Lily Tomlin's Edith Ann character says, "And That's The Truth!":-)
 
mcbrion said:
I keep fit because I'm older (nearly 70) and it's part of good health. But there is - to me - a difference between being "fit" and being well-built. I'm naturally well-built (which I got from my my dad, who had a v-shape until he was 53 (as my mother always reminded me), but I'm a mesomorph body type (naturally muscular). So, I only work out for tone.
That said, since I was well-built even at 15, I've watched guys struggle to reach the "body type" that they think is the only one that will attract other men. They're wrong: some guys LIKE stock guys (a little extra meat on their bones), or skinny guys, or whatever. It disturbs me that there's this mentality that having muscles makes you one of the "superior class." Sometimes guys are well built, but emotionally immature, so keeping "fit" should involve being an emotionally mature guy as well as just "keeping in shape."
As Lily Tomlin's Edith Ann character says, "And That's The Truth!":-)
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Good point. I suppose contradicting my earlier post a little, there can be a fine line between working out for yourself and for others. Personally I think slender guys shouldn't worry unless they really want to do it for themselves.

In most people's 'hierarchy' of ideal body-types, slender will usually I guess be at the top or in the middle.
 
I keep fit to feel good and get validation by attracting guys
 
I will be turning 60 this week. I stay fit by working out 10 hours a week, sometimes 12 if I have the energy. I do it because I love the feeling when I enter a room and heads turn to check me out, men and women!
 
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