Do you like boys who are more on the fem side and how do you treat them?

[innocentbychoice]

Hey, straight and bi guys,

Before answering the poll please read.

There's 2 questions, first: "Are you attracted to boys who are more on the fem side?" I ask this because for some reason I feel like the str8 and bi guys, would be more comfortable with someone who would make them feel manly and strong, don't know if I'm wrong. Now I won't describe what a feminine boy is because I think we all have different concepts of what masculinity and femininity is, but I do want to point out that I'm not necessarily talking about guys who talk like girls and wear makeup (but if you're into that that's fine), it might be guys who aren't that effeminate, but have feminine traits in their personalities (are caring, nurturing, sweet, very affectionate, delicate, etc).

Second question is: "If you are attracted and want to date a fem guy, how would you treat him?" I mean, how would you win them over? Would you treat them as you would treat a girl? Which means, taking him out to dinner, paying the dinner, trying to impress him by showing off your strenght, muscles, being the one to protect him, etc... or would you treat him just like any other guy?

 

[JetSetJake]

Sorry, I voted in the poll before I realised that it was only intended for Straight and Bi guys.

 

[innocentbychoice]

Sorry, I voted in the poll before I realised that it was only intended for Straight and Bi guys.

This is the straight and bi guys sub forum! LOL!! But that's ok, thank you for participating .

 

[innocentbychoice]

I'm really attracted to fem guys, I love the soft spoken, sweetness. I would treat him like a girl in your words but I just believe that's merely being a good date.

Nice answer.

PS: I'm kinda surprised that most have voted NO.

 

[azndude89]

i dont like fem guys. if i were to date a girl, i would. i like my guys to act and talk like a guy.

 

[NineOfClubs]

I've always liked guys "on the fem" side and find them just as attractive, and in some ways more appealing, as the more "manly men'.

Too much male bravado can make a guy seem like an uncaring brute, the feminine leaning boys don't ever come across that way.

 

[JetSetJake]

This is the straight and bi guys sub forum! LOL!! But that's ok, thank you for participating .

Yeah, I realised that afterwards. I usually just click on the thread titles on the homepage which interest me, then read the main content of the threads.

 

[UB6IB9Guy]

Hey, straight and bi guys,

Before answering the poll please read.

There's 2 questions, first: "Are you attracted to boys who are more on the fem side?" I ask this because for some reason I feel like the str8 and bi guys, would be more comfortable with someone who would make them feel manly and strong, don't know if I'm wrong. Now I won't describe what a feminine boy is because I think we all have different concepts of what masculinity and femininity is, but I do want to point out that I'm not necessarily talking about guys who talk like girls and wear makeup (but if you're into that that's fine), it might be guys who aren't that effeminate, but have feminine traits in their personalities (are caring, nurturing, sweet, very affectionate, delicate, etc).

Second question is: "If you are attracted and want to date a fem guy, how would you treat him?" I mean, how would you win them over? Would you treat them as you would treat a girl? Which means, taking him out to dinner, paying the dinner, trying to impress him by showing off your strenght, muscles, being the one to protect him, etc... or would you treat him just like any other guy?

I guess technically I fall under Bi, having had past relations with women and did spend several years doing time being married. I am mainly into guys at this point, but I tend to be pretty masculine myself, so most people assume I'm straight usually, maybe Bi. (I try to never assume anything, keeps life interesting, right?!
To each his own, but if I wanted female, I would get a female, what attracts me to a male is everything a female is not.
That being said, I can definitely say I seem to always attract married guys and non-out straight types. I think my not being very obvious has a lot to do with that.
I think men that are only into T's or very fem guys are either seeing them as an easy to get laid replacement for a female or else they find it easier to accept being with another guy if he looks like a girl. They don't have to admit to themselves their attracted to a man because it doesn't look like a man...so the don't have to question their "masculinity". Just my theory, I've always wondered what the attraction was and it's all I could come up with!
But like I said, to each his own, that way maybe there's someone out there for everyone, however they want to be.

 

[UB6IB9Guy]

Oh yeah, I pretty much treat everyone the same, regardless of who I'm attracted to. I always try to treat someone the way I would like to be treated...show them you care and give them your respect.... Doesn't always work, but it's a good rule to live by I think.