I met a married guy about two weeks ago who answered my Craigslist Ad. Professional, married with children, nice looking, scruffy, slender body, nice ass and cock (sent me pics), masc, str8-acting, kinda biker-looking. We were looking at all the hot girls and he was commenting on all that were walking passed our booth while we were chatting about him eating out my asshole. (That is why he answered my ad). He had a boner the whole time during our conversation.
His bucket list includes eating out a guy's ass because he has only eaten out his wife's and a high school woman, and I think they still might casually meet, but he has been thinking about rimming a guy for years and years. He is early 50s and has never been with a guy before so I can tell he is excited about it but still hesitant, so we will see what happens. I get emails from him that he says he still wants to meet but when I attempt to set a date, now he is busy for the next two weeks! I get it though.
You just need to make your move and try it. You are in your early 40s. Shit or get off the can dude!