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Do you live alone?

Do you live alone?

  • Yep. alone

    Votes: 43 50.0%

  • Nope

    Votes: 38 44.2%

  • Other

    Votes: 5 5.8%
  • Total voters
    86
I live alone now also since the ex and I have split....Its taking some time getting used to living alone....
 
In the last four years, the first three were mostly alone with my partner 1500 miles away. The last year he's been here.

He's always, always here. Always. HE NEVER LEAVES. ](*,)

I miss the alone time.
 
reone said:
Same. Even the 'ARGH'. :lol:
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Same...and Triple Arrghh! I had Roommates, had a blast with them, then I lived alone for a while, had a blast doing that too..then my Dad got sick...So I moved home to help them. (Basement Apt.) Now he's better, and I'm still here. I want to leave, but I get a guilt trip every time I bring it up. They can't do yardwork anymore, they have trouble doing "this" or "that". They need me to help them. Yada Yada Yada...But, I'm happy to help. They've done so much for me. I'll sacrifice my freedom for now, for their well being today. Double-edged Sword, I'm afraid.
 
I strated to live on my own when I was 17 and still have my own place ;)
 
Some of my fondest memories are from the few years I spent living alone...... :D
 
I live with one other roommate. We are best buds and I love him to death (in the most platonic way). He's the first person I came out to and he's been my biggest supporter. We are trying to get another roommate to cut down on living costs, but so far our friends have rejected us because they think we are too "clique-y." However, one of our friends is on the fence about moving in with us. We shall brainwash him and make him join our "Brotherhood of Evil." muahhaa
 
I've never lived alone in my whole life... I didn't leave home until I was 20, and then I lived with roommates (always in their homes, never an equally shared home) for four years before I moved back home with the Grandmother seventeen years ago.

The closest I ever got to living alone was when I was sharing a studio apartment with a friend and he spent two months in jail for drug charges. And aside from the bother of having to shoulder the rent alone for those two months, it was really lonely. I only went home to sleep and change clothes.

I worry about what will happen when the Grandmother is gone. After all this time, I don't think I could live with another person; and while I am kind of looking forward to having my first own place, it's kind of scary, too: the idea of being alone for the first time at my age, or rather at the age I'll be when she goes (I kind of expect her to make 100, which means I'll be fifty).

To counter and allay that fear, instead of thinking about being lonely I think about how I'll decorate around the sofa I already have picked out at Restoration Hardware.
 
Currently, I live alone...it will probably change in a few months..we've already made some plans.
 
As you would expect at my age I have experienced all the different variations possible.

Room mates were not a problem but I was young in the days that financially I needed to share.

Living alone when I was in my late 20s was easy and the freedom absolutely necessary.

Sharing a home with a partner required quite a few personal sacrifices, but oh the rewards were worth it.

Now, though living alone, I am only a flight of stairs away from my job so I am always seeing members of the family for whom I work. Yet when and as required I can retreat to the quiet of my own flat and terrace.

Loneliness is not related to living alone. There is absolutely no reason why someone living alone should feel lonely.
 
I have lived alone since I moved out on my own with the exceptions of when my oldest nephew burned down my brothers place. And when my mother and her girlfriend became homeless because their real estate agent was a bitch.


After having my brother live with me I wont allow that again. The ass stole from me.


Maybe one day I will get a partner.
 
dpnice said:
Loneliness is not related to living alone. There is absolutely no reason why someone living alone should feel lonely.
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Maybe if you have plenty of money to spend.

Here, I can either hang out with the retired oldies, the rednecks, or the druggies.
The oldies are safe but boring, the rednecks are NOT safe, and who wants to hang with people whose teeth are falling out, who can hardly remember their own names, and aren't sure what the word "bathe" means?

My other option is to spend $45 to go somewhere that I might find actual civilized people who are fun to be with -- and that's just the gas for the trip.

Since I'm lucky to have an extra $45 laying around even once a month... living alone is lonely. I can talk to my dog, but he's not much of a conversationalist.

Money may not buy happiness, but without it -- you're screwed.
 
I have lived alone most of my life. As I get old I am getting lonely, but I'm so used too the freedom, I don't know how a roommate, with or without privileges would work out.

Piggy, your new avatar is cute, but I think the old one was cuter
 
I now live alone. up till this last Saturday I had a room mate! She finally moved out, on good terms though (somewhat). Was only a temporary situation. Glad to be alone again! :D

I think it'll be along time before I have a room mate. ;)
 
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