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Do you regret having cut someone out of your life?

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Have you ever cut someone out of your life over something that you felt wasn't completely resolved or maybe something as silly as a miscommunication. I have no regrets in life, and once I do cut someone out, it's usually for good reason. However, I've gone almost three years without speaking to a very close friend, and I'm wondering if I made the right choice. It would be a lie if I said that particular person didn't cross my mind from time to time.
 
I cut people off my life before they managed to get in---usually the ones annoying enough that I won't let them get near me.

I'm such a douche --'
 
No regrets. If somebody doesn't make the cut then it's usually for a very good reason.
 
I've thought about his over the last day before answering.

I'm sure that somewhere along the line there has to be someone I regret losing contact with but I'm at a total loss to think of one.
 
I'm tempted to feel regret, but then I realize I have to respect my own psychology and trust that there is a good reason for why I did what I did.
 
Whenever I've done that a lot of thought has gone in before I make the leap.

No regret at all.
 
Nope. I have only cut two people out of my life, and in both cases I should have done it much sooner than I did.

I do however regret having lost contact with some people.
 
I dated a boy in my hometown for almost a year and when we broke up he told me he was poz. We had never done much but I thought he should have told me and so I stopped talking to him. I sometimes wish I knew how he was doing so in that way I regret losing touch.
 
I regret the fact that I had to cut some people from my life, but once the decision is made, it is only for the best, the person cut cannot hurt me anymore, and I don't risk hurting that person...
 
I've never had to cut someone out of my life.

I've lose contact with several people though. This one guy...God I should of made a move when I had the chance. I still have his number and we're Facebook friends, but we don't talk anymore, so there's no point.
 
If someone's bad enough for me to actually cut them out of my life, then there's always going to be a damn good reason why I did it.
 
The only people I've ever cut out of my life were mean spirited and I was never really close to them anyway so I have no regrets. I believe that relationships that consist of emotionally healthy, mature individuals, 99% of circumstances can be resolved without using the drastic measure of cutting someone off.
 
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