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I talk to two of them. The break-ups were amicable. Took a little while but I am good friends with them now. Some others...not so much.
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HoodedRat
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Yes.
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swerve
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Of course I do...
My ex -- who I was with for 7 years -- spends weekends at our home when he's in town (even when I'm NOT in town
) -- both him and my new partner (well, opinterph and I have been together for 11 years now) get along great...
I never allow "hard feelings" to get in the way of friendship...
My ex -- who I was with for 7 years -- spends weekends at our home when he's in town (even when I'm NOT in town
) -- both him and my new partner (well, opinterph and I have been together for 11 years now) get along great...I never allow "hard feelings" to get in the way of friendship...
borg69unimatrix
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I'm friends with my first Ex, and my last Ex...
Some of the ones in between them I'd love to see again, and others... not so much.
Some of the ones in between them I'd love to see again, and others... not so much.
Not really, though I do have an ex who will reliably call me up every 2-3 months and start talking at me about his girl problems. I'm not sure what his motives are for that at all. The last time it happened, he called on my bday, and I let him talk on for about 5 minutes and then asked him if he realized it was my birthday, at which point he said, "Oh fuck! Happy birthday! *hangs up*" ...
I almost died laughing...
I almost died laughing...
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LONG time Midwesterner here.
First relationship from 1961 to 1968. Doug moved to S.F. and never came back. We mailed some and phoned rarely, we visited a couple of times, but not much lately. I still dearly miss and love him.
Second relationship from 1973 to 1983. Married Candy in 1975. Alcoholism got her and she moved back home to L.A. leaving me and her 4 yr old son in 1983. We mailed, emailed, visited, phoned regularly, until she passed away from alcoholism in 1992. Again, I still dearly miss and love her.
Third relationship from 1998 to 2003. One day, Josh just said he just can't to it, not right now, and left, disappeared to another state. Total silence for 5 years. Then he began to chat on line and phone me fairly regularly. We haven't met up again yet, but we talk about it. And yea, again, I still dearly miss and love him.
There were a few other, shorter, less serious relationships along the way. We all still talk but we all live in different states and two in Canada.
First relationship from 1961 to 1968. Doug moved to S.F. and never came back. We mailed some and phoned rarely, we visited a couple of times, but not much lately. I still dearly miss and love him.
Second relationship from 1973 to 1983. Married Candy in 1975. Alcoholism got her and she moved back home to L.A. leaving me and her 4 yr old son in 1983. We mailed, emailed, visited, phoned regularly, until she passed away from alcoholism in 1992. Again, I still dearly miss and love her.
Third relationship from 1998 to 2003. One day, Josh just said he just can't to it, not right now, and left, disappeared to another state. Total silence for 5 years. Then he began to chat on line and phone me fairly regularly. We haven't met up again yet, but we talk about it. And yea, again, I still dearly miss and love him.
There were a few other, shorter, less serious relationships along the way. We all still talk but we all live in different states and two in Canada.
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Unless you count a gf I had when we were 14 and 15 (which I don't), I have no exes.
In school everyone thought we were a couple, but she drove me crazy. It was a love/hate thing. I saw her when I was in college and I told her I was gay. "NO!!" she said. "Yes, in fact I have a bf." I replied. "No way!!" she says. I showed her pictures of Tomas and she said "Wow, no wonder you are gay now". We kept in touch somewhat after that until her ex-husband killed her.
In school everyone thought we were a couple, but she drove me crazy. It was a love/hate thing. I saw her when I was in college and I told her I was gay. "NO!!" she said. "Yes, in fact I have a bf." I replied. "No way!!" she says. I showed her pictures of Tomas and she said "Wow, no wonder you are gay now". We kept in touch somewhat after that until her ex-husband killed her.
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with my ex-girlfriend, yes. we still talk a good amount, even after everything we put each other through. my ex-boyfriend on the other hand. hell no. i saw him at his job the other day (he works at lowe's, and i needed a tool for my car) and i saw him briefly, and he didnt say anything to me and i didnt say anything to him. we didnt even make eye contact.
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Just one of them, and when we're single sometimes we have sex as if we never broke up.
Sure, I do.....
My first love, VIncent has passed away, but I sometimes dream about him.
My second great love, Dave, calls me all the time. In fact, he has been nursing me through this nasty summer cold I have.
My first love, VIncent has passed away, but I sometimes dream about him.
My second great love, Dave, calls me all the time. In fact, he has been nursing me through this nasty summer cold I have.
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Anders123
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I recently 'caught up' with my ex-girlfriend. It was really, really awkward at first, she had a lot of questions. She was actually quite furious, she believed that our entire relationship was based upon a lie, and that I used her to hide myself etc. which was not at all the case. It actually kind of hurt to hear that, because I have nothing but fond memories of our time together. I thought that the way I treated her, and how we were together, would have shown her that I legitimately cared about her. I can see where she was coming from, though. It can't be easy to find out that an ex isn't attracted to your gender.
We haven't spoken much since then, I think my coming out really hurt her. I wish things were different, and that we could once again become friends, but part of me thinks she didn't exactly believe what I had to say. Part of me thinks it hurt her more than she was leading on.
I realised how much I really missed her when we caught up, and the thought of no longer speaking to her actually breaks my heart a little. Still, at some point I hope my words sink in, and she wont vilify me, or blame herself. Though, perhaps, as seems to be the theme of my life right now, it's time to let go.
We haven't spoken much since then, I think my coming out really hurt her. I wish things were different, and that we could once again become friends, but part of me thinks she didn't exactly believe what I had to say. Part of me thinks it hurt her more than she was leading on.
I realised how much I really missed her when we caught up, and the thought of no longer speaking to her actually breaks my heart a little. Still, at some point I hope my words sink in, and she wont vilify me, or blame herself. Though, perhaps, as seems to be the theme of my life right now, it's time to let go.
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blackbeltninja
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We agreed to keep it amicable but have avoided each other like the plague since.
It doesn't help that a week after it all I got informed that the tension I felt about it was "not from guilt about a lack of desire on my part, but guilt for my active rejection of God's love for me."
Yeah.
We're polite; but 2 months after it went tits-up we're still eagerly keeping out of each other's way.
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It doesn't help that a week after it all I got informed that the tension I felt about it was "not from guilt about a lack of desire on my part, but guilt for my active rejection of God's love for me."
Yeah.
We're polite; but 2 months after it went tits-up we're still eagerly keeping out of each other's way.
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BlackAdam13
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Yep. I do. All three of them (3mo, 9yrs, 3yrs). I don't easily discard important people from my life even if they were a part of a failed romantic relationship. I don't talk to any of them but my most recent regularly, but we still talk every so often to catch up and see how the other is doing.