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Sup3r ...
I just "discovered" your Thread, and am, therefore, "too late" in posting. I mean ... as I type, You're very likely already at Chris's place!
So ... this "advice" is not something You could take with You! ](/images/smilies/bang.gif "Brick wall ](*,)")
I'm going to continue typing, though, because there are THOUSANDS of Guys, out there, in the same situation as You! Perhaps one of them might read this, too!
I'm afraid I have to disagree with Centex about "the talk". Mainly because it shifts an enjoyable "informal thing" into something more "serious". And, therefore, just might push Chris beyond his "Comfort Level". I mean ... "We" don't really know where He "stands", just yet.
Obviously, there is NO doubt that Chris LIKES You! However, the question is, "In what Way?"
DO NOT rush to Label Him! There is NO need to catagorise, and stick Him in a box! It doesn't matter if He is Gay, Bi, or Str8! The important thing is how He continues to react to You!
Just RELAX! ENJOY Him! And, casually, let Him KNOW that anything He might want to do with You is O.K.! Through ACTIONS, not Words, let Him know that Your own "Comfort Level" is not limited in any way! Don't THINK ... or Talk ... just DO!! He'll let You know if You've crossed a "Line"! And, then, You can laugh it off, and still keep Him as a Good Friend!!
As we get older, we grow to understand that LIFE should not be taken so Seriously! HAVE FUN! while, and as much, as You can!! JUST BE YOU!!
As far as I can see, given what You've written, Chris will likely respond in very Positive ways!!
Wishing You all the Very Best with Chris! And, of course, PLEASE keep "Us" posted as to how things are working out with You Two!!
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
I just "discovered" your Thread, and am, therefore, "too late" in posting. I mean ... as I type, You're very likely already at Chris's place!
So ... this "advice" is not something You could take with You! I'm going to continue typing, though, because there are THOUSANDS of Guys, out there, in the same situation as You! Perhaps one of them might read this, too!
I'm afraid I have to disagree with Centex about "the talk". Mainly because it shifts an enjoyable "informal thing" into something more "serious". And, therefore, just might push Chris beyond his "Comfort Level". I mean ... "We" don't really know where He "stands", just yet.
Obviously, there is NO doubt that Chris LIKES You! However, the question is, "In what Way?"
DO NOT rush to Label Him! There is NO need to catagorise, and stick Him in a box! It doesn't matter if He is Gay, Bi, or Str8! The important thing is how He continues to react to You!
Just RELAX! ENJOY Him! And, casually, let Him KNOW that anything He might want to do with You is O.K.! Through ACTIONS, not Words, let Him know that Your own "Comfort Level" is not limited in any way! Don't THINK ... or Talk ... just DO!! He'll let You know if You've crossed a "Line"! And, then, You can laugh it off, and still keep Him as a Good Friend!!
As we get older, we grow to understand that LIFE should not be taken so Seriously! HAVE FUN! while, and as much, as You can!! JUST BE YOU!!
As far as I can see, given what You've written, Chris will likely respond in very Positive ways!!
Wishing You all the Very Best with Chris! And, of course, PLEASE keep "Us" posted as to how things are working out with You Two!!
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
