Do you think I'm attractive?

[BINOWGAYLATER]

Gee maybe it's NOT you ?

I didn't think anyone has had specks like that since around 1985 ...........

and as has been said.....
it's not the face - there's personality traits -- and maybe you could smell better ? IDK.......

 

[Jayden]

I'm not totally convinced that you are that guy at all.


And I swear I imagined you to be a black guy.

 

[storm-0]

I think you are Totally Hot!!!! A Big Kiss from (Me - to brighten your day/evening) this Southern Bro!!! And yes, I love making passes at men who wear glasses!!! ;>)

 

[Toy-Boy]

I think I look worse without glasses.

 

[clicker]

You're not alone, TOY-BOY. Many of us feel invisible to other gay guys, and we are decent looking. I've been told I'm good-looking by men and women and I have turned a few heads when slimmer, but most of the time I'm invisible. And I'm very sociable and chatty. Go figure. Certainly I'm not bitchy,arrogant or rude-I like people.

 

[Beachguyj]

It looks like your mom bought those awful glasses. Ask a gay friend of pretty girl what glasses would look good on you.

I saw a nice looking guy the other day at a gas station but he had awful black plastic glasses too.

 

[Beachguyj]

I think I look worse without glasses.

The mustache is bad too.

 

[Toy-Boy]

I don't think you do. You're still very handsome (I personally prefer guys who wear glasses so I thought the original pic was much cuter), but it's that sullen attitude that turns people off. You're so negative. So what if you do look worse without the glasses, find something positive about yourself to make a note of. But if you can't even find something positive about your appearance to be proud of, how can you expect the rest of us to?

Btw, you have a nice set of eyes and lips.

I guess I shouldn't make sweeping generalizations about people, but I've had SO MANY bad experiences with the gay community that it's left me bitter and jaded. I'm initially really nice to people, and that puts a target on my back. I'm not as mean in real life as I come across on this board. It's just easier to pent your frustrations when your sitting behind a computer screen

 

[Poozy1]

I think you good looking.

 

[MoltenRock III]

I can't believe I'm making this thread, but I've been single my whole life. I'm now 23 and still wondering why I'm so love-starved.

If that's you, then yes you're very good looking. What's not appealing about you is your self-doubt. Sorry. *shrug*

But what you're going thru is normal. I've not known many guys that are comfortable in their own skin until somewhere between 25 and 30 years old. Frankly, guys under 30 years old are undatable IMHO. So many kids these days struggle more with finding their way than they do with being gay.

I've said it a thousand times; being gay up until about age 25 is the hardest, worst, things a guy can imagine. However, AFTER age 25 years of age, being gay is actually easier, and in fact, MUCH EASIER than being str8.

 

[MoltenRock III]

To tell you the truth, I seriously thought you were underaged or something.

I think you are cute - outside.

But you don't get a free pass and I am not going to kiss your ass. You can be really annoying and childish at times and that's online, I dread what you are like in person.

You need to work on yourself - inside.

From:

I've never masturbated
to
I don't know what a vagina looks like
to
All gays hate me
and such threads...we are pretty familiar with lol

I am not sure how old you are but I am guessing you are young. Right?

Agreed! He is in a high school library, so that should give you a good idea of his age.

 

[boxerdudeuk]

I think I look worse without glasses.

Very attractive actually

 

[fetaby]

It doesn't matter if that's him or not, the weight of his words paint their own picture.

The person in the pics is attractive.

As for all these bad experiences? Do you really want to let the bad shit to color your life?

 

[Seasoned]

It's tough cracking into a clique. Joining some kind of gay group centered on an interest or hobby would make sense. You'll have to learn how to take some small risks so people can get to know you. We have our looks, our personality, and we all give off a vibe. It sounds like the vibe isn't working for you. You'll need to figure out how to appear open rather than closed.

I had that issue and I just began observing people.

 

[StationToStation]

those hipster glasses
then the i'm manly facial hair
to the needy approval appeal
i'm lost

 

[jdcnow]

^^ Where do y'all find these great gif animations?

 

[Toy-Boy]

Umm yeah, I felt safe right up until I did a little searching and found this particular quote by you in one of your past threads:



I knew I had a good reason for imagining you as a black guy b/c you said so yourself. And now I can also imagine you as a pathetic, lying lowlife for stealing someone else's pics and passing them off here as yours.

Do us all a favor and request for a straight-jacket and padded walls.

Wow, dude, you dug into the archives..

I'm biracial, and yes, that it my picture

 

[VenomGGXX]

Dude you look fine. Cute even. I have glasses like that too it's retro. Those are the 50s glasses. It's not you, people are just stupid sometimes

 

[VenomGGXX]

I mean you almost look like superman. I'd date you hell lol

 

[VenomGGXX]

Oh, so that's not his pic?. That guy you showed us doesn't look bi-racial at all.