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Do you think love comes when you least expect it?

Do you think love comes when you least expect it?

  • Yes

    Votes: 14 45.2%

  • No

    Votes: 3 9.7%

  • Sometimes

    Votes: 14 45.2%
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Hello guys.

From your experience, can you tell if love in your case came when you least expect it?

Cause for the time being and I'm not very experienced and to be honest, I don't believe it. Or it may be true but only if you are out to wider "public".

Any comments/ideas very appreciated.
 
I think it has to. You live your daily life going along, minding your own business...then wham. How could you anticipate something like that happening. You never know who you are going to meet when you walk around the corner.

That's why you always have to wear clean undies....or no undies.
 
from my experience, no. things just happen randomly and you could either be at the right place at the right time or the wrong place at the wrong time. you can say the same thing about getting into a car pileup. whether you expect something or not doesn't mean that it will or it will not happen.
 
love exists but it doesn't happen to everybody

many people live their lives never having known such a thing
 
Don't know, or at this point, care.
 
I believe it has to. I mean, who goes to work thinking I'll fall in love today. Or, I'm going out tonight and fall in love.

In my case, I walked into a room and there he was on the other side of the room, sitting on a bed in a dorm room. I hadn't even spoke to him yet or knew his name and I feel in love with him at first sight.

It was like being hit with a lightning bolt, a direct hit to the forehead. I will never forget that moment the rest of my life. It was completely unexpected and so absolutely wonderful. Not only was he gay also, but feel in love with me and was the greatest man I have known, except maybe my dad. In that respect, I was very lucky man.
 
I'm hopeful it does, and will. I'm certainly not expecting it...
 
I was not looking for it, I had a Gf at time and str8t. but I met this wonderfull guy when I was down and out in between homes no place to go. Hitchhicking in pouring rain, soaking wet.

He picked me up and said were u going. I said anywhere I dont have a home. went to his house, I had a hot shwr, he washed dried my clothes, and a hot meal and a couch to sleep on. NO SEX was asked of me. Next day he was going to work, I said I have no place to go, he said I could stay there and we would talk later. He then took me out to a fine dinner. we partied and I got buzzed. He told he was gay and i said it's cool. he then asked if he could give my a Bj, I said ok and it went into full on sex and he fucked me 4 first time let alone giving me the best bj ever. I never new it could be that good, it opened my eyes, mind and thinking the best sex I ever had. I never left his place--ever . That was 27 yrs ago, we are still together and i am so glad and would not change a thing. I did call gf and tell i was breaking it off, did not say why and never saw/talked to her again.

So it was instant love attraction for me and him.

btw, I was 18 and he was 24 when we met down town San Diego across from F-street book- Univercity Ave
 
^^^^

racer2438 - That is an Awesome story!!!

You're kinda the gay version of Cinderella, with the 'Happily Ever After'. ;)
 
I think a lot of it has to do with your attitude towards love. I repeatedly say here "you can't love anybody else until you love yourself". If you don't love yourself, you will never find love with someone else.
 
It always has for me. The few partners I've had, I met when I was really not looking. It just happened and, in a couple cases, I was not really interested the first time we met. Over time, it was like it was meant to be. I would add that I never had a meaningful relationship come out of any bar. The bars just never did it for me with all the head games going on. It was always someone I met at a private party or was introduced as a friend of a friend.
 
Thanks for all the replies. I appreciate it. And the question was meant rather as Do you think love comes when you don't look actively for it (like posting ads on a dating site etc.)
 
maxpowr9 said:
I think a lot of it has to do with your attitude towards love. I repeatedly say here "you can't love anybody else until you love yourself". If you don't love yourself, you will never find love with someone else.
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I've heard this many times, and I still don't understand it. Maybe I don't get it because I've never loved myself. Some have told me to learn to love myself. Is that even possible? How can you learn something like that, or change that status? Makes no sense to me at all.
 
Speaking anectdotally, it always has; literally striking out of nowhere. Chance encounters; distant associations growing more intimate...so long as you continue to interact with human beings and don't cloister yourself away, the possibility will always be there.
 
I think that often we try to force things to happen that just aren't going to work. We're so anxious for love, that we rush in to ill-advised relationships - then we try to force them to work.

But when we give up - we let down our guard. We aren't trying to cause something to happen. Someone can then see us as we really are - and we can see him/her. We can find a relationship with someone we would not have otherwise considered.

When we go to those dating sites, we have a list of things we want. So we eliminate a lot of people who don't meet those criteria. Then one day, someone talks to you while you are sitting on a park bench. You're not trying to impress him, nor he you. He wouldn't satisfy half of your requirements on your dating menu, but something about him gets into your head.

Yeah, i think it's not unusual for you to meet someone when you are not actively looking because of how different you come across and who you don't filter out of your communication.

On the other hand, if you spend all your time playing computer games in your apartment, it's not likely that your true love is going to knock on your door.
 
Falling in love is like the need to take a shit. Of course you can do things to encourage it, but sometimes it just hits you out of nowhere.
 
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