Do you think sexuality is partly ego?

[88Jockstraps]

Like, I think with straight men, it starts out with them just liking the attention and ego inflation, they get from another guy, whether he's gay, or straight. Then he starts liking it, the admiration, then it becomes sexual, and then he might experiment, then he becomes full blown bisexual!

Do you think some straight guys just start out liking the attention? Then it becomes something more?

 

[cuteguyincali]

In my case no. Total opposite. With me it started wanting more out of sex. When masturbating I wanted to feel more THRILL. So I started anal play with masturbation. Then when I was in my early 20's dating women, in the times I was lonely and horny I started thinking about getting with men so I would frequent the bisexual yahoo chats from my city. I was scared not knowing what I was about to get into. I already knew what it felt to take in the ass. but I finally did it and the attention I got as a bottom was amazing. Horniness was what got me motivated to fuck with men. The attention I got with them is what gave me the ultimate high. But I'm not an attention seeker like you describe. But I do LOVE the attention I get during the act. Anal +attention = amazing experience! I mean what better attention and turn on seeing a guy get hard for you right in front of you? From limp to hard FOR YOU! I LOVE IT! I LOVE being desired like that. I said it before and I'll say it again, no matter how much a girl wants you, a man wants you harder! You can feel his desire and will physically show you how much he wants you! OMG it's so amazing!

 

[IrishBuflo]

In my case no. Total opposite. With me it started wanting more out of sex. When masturbating I wanted to feel more THRILL. So I started anal play with masturbation. Then when I was in my early 20's dating women, in the times I was lonely and horny I started thinking about getting with men so I would frequent the bisexual yahoo chats from my city. I was scared not knowing what I was about to get into. I already knew what it felt to take in the ass. but I finally did it and the attention I got as a bottom was amazing. Horniness was what got me motivated to fuck with men. The attention I got with them is what gave me the ultimate high. But I'm not an attention seeker like you describe. But I do LOVE the attention I get during the act. Anal +attention = amazing experience! I mean what better attention and turn on seeing a guy get hard for you right in front of you? From limp to hard FOR YOU! I LOVE IT! I LOVE being desired like that. I said it before and I'll say it again, no matter how much a girl wants you, a man wants you harder! You can feel his desire and will physically show you how much he wants you! OMG it's so amazing!

Damn I got hard just reading that. Seems like the ultimate sexual high...

 

[88Jockstraps]

In my case no. Total opposite. With me it started wanting more out of sex. When masturbating I wanted to feel more THRILL. So I started anal play with masturbation. Then when I was in my early 20's dating women, in the times I was lonely and horny I started thinking about getting with men so I would frequent the bisexual yahoo chats from my city. I was scared not knowing what I was about to get into. I already knew what it felt to take in the ass. but I finally did it and the attention I got as a bottom was amazing. Horniness was what got me motivated to fuck with men. The attention I got with them is what gave me the ultimate high. But I'm not an attention seeker like you describe. But I do LOVE the attention I get during the act. Anal +attention = amazing experience! I mean what better attention and turn on seeing a guy get hard for you right in front of you? From limp to hard FOR YOU! I LOVE IT! I LOVE being desired like that. I said it before and I'll say it again, no matter how much a girl wants you, a man wants you harder! You can feel his desire and will physically show you how much he wants you! OMG it's so amazing!

Yeah, me being gay, and all. I love seeing when a guys' dick gets hard for you!

 

[joshtrainer30]

Like, I think with straight men, it starts out with them just liking the attention and ego inflation, they get from another guy, whether he's gay, or straight. Then he starts liking it, the admiration, then it becomes sexual, and then he might experiment, then he becomes full blown bisexual!

Do you think some straight guys just start out liking the attention? Then it becomes something more?

I seem to attract a lot of attention from gay guys even though I am straight. It would be logical for me to completely ignore their interest, but actually I revel in it. I am always fully dressed and unattainable so the only reason for this can be the boost to my ego.

 

[88Jockstraps]

I seem to attract a lot of attention from gay guys even though I am straight. It would be logical for me to completely ignore their interest, but actually I revel in it. I am always fully dressed and unattainable so the only reason for this can be the boost to my ego.

Cool, now I know. I always stare at straight guys' legs. I like most male 'types'. I do like guys with moderate beards, it's very macho and hot!

 

[texan_slant]

Like, I think with straight men, it starts out with them just liking the attention and ego inflation, they get from another guy, whether he's gay, or straight. Then he starts liking it, the admiration, then it becomes sexual, and then he might experiment, then he becomes full blown bisexual!

Do you think some straight guys just start out liking the attention? Then it becomes something more?

I think that sexuality is already IN you, but most of the time, it's untapped in straight guys cuz of social barriers and labels.

 

[joshtrainer30]

Cool, now I know. I always stare at straight guys' legs. I like most male 'types'. I do like guys with moderate beards, it's very macho and hot!

Do you like my legs ?

 

[joshtrainer30]

I think that sexuality is already IN you, but most of the time, it's untapped in straight guys cuz of social barriers and labels.

I have always been attracted to women and never gave a thought to men until I worked abroad.

The Middle East was an all male environment so if anything the social pressure was toward all male relationships. In the absence of women, I became much more aware of the interest that gay men had in me and did start to appreciate it. If I was ever going to enter into a relationship with a man it would have been while I was out there.

In the meantime I enjoy posting pictures of myself on this site and it is good for my ego when people say they like them.

 

[88Jockstraps]

Do you like my legs ?

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I like your bulge and your underwear.
And yes, your legs are good!

 

[joshtrainer30]

I like your bulge and your underwear.
And yes, your legs are good!

Thank you. That does boost my ego. I like those briefs. It's humiliating how revealing they are.

There are two ways I get an ego boost from my sexuality. Firstly I love the sexual power I have when men eye me up IRL because I know I am unattainable. The second way is when I post pictures of myself. The pictures show me as the reverse of unattainable because I am vulnerable, stripped to my underpants. It seems contradictory but that's the way it is.

 

[88Jockstraps]

Thank you. That does boost my ego. I like those briefs. It's humiliating how revealing they are.

There are two ways I get an ego boost from my sexuality. Firstly I love the sexual power I have when men eye me up IRL because I know I am unattainable. The second way is when I post pictures of myself. The pictures show me as the reverse of unattainable because I am vulnerable, stripped to my underpants. It seems contradictory but that's the way it is.

I would definitely sniff your underwear in that leg picture.

 

[joshtrainer30]

I would definitely sniff your underwear in that leg picture.

Well I can't complain because the underwear does make me look sexually available.

I would prefer you to use your hands to fondle my underpants though, stroking my penis through the thin material while looking into my eyes and enjoying the sense of defeat that you would see there.

 

[88Jockstraps]

Well I can't complain because the underwear does make me look sexually available.

I would prefer you to use your hands to fondle my underpants though, stroking my penis through the thin material while looking into my eyes and enjoying the sense of defeat that you would see there.

I love watching men's dicks poke through their pants, or underwear.
I especially love briefs and how the penis pokes through, stiff and hard as a rock!

 

[joshtrainer30]

I love watching men's dicks poke through their pants, or underwear.
I especially love briefs and how the penis pokes through, stiff and hard as a rock!

Nothing too sexual for me I'm afraid.

I prefer the humiliation of knowing that some guy staring at me can see the outline of my briefs through my trousers. Alternatively I like the idea of being stripped and completely defenceless.

 

[88Jockstraps]

Nothing too sexual for me I'm afraid.

I prefer the humiliation of knowing that some guy staring at me can see the outline of my briefs through my trousers. Alternatively I like the idea of being stripped and completely defenceless.

Haha, I forgot! You're straight.

 

[CollegeGuy95]

It could be a component of it, but I think sex is one of those essential needs from Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

 

[88Jockstraps]

It could be a component of it, but I think sex is one of those essential needs from Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

Thanks for you opinion!

 

[BlkBitchDaddy]

No, it may seem that way. Trust me, there's something underlying and perhaps it can something small as attention. Ego def plays apart. Its called being scared at what others may approve/disapprove. Its when that person feels totally comfortable and has accepted who they really are is when one Comes Out The Closet. Its only my humble and very unprofessional opinion.

 

[Shelby29]

No, it may seem that way. Trust me, there's something underlying and perhaps it can something small as attention. Ego def plays apart. Its called being scared at what others may approve/disapprove. Its when that person feels totally comfortable and has accepted who they really are is when one Comes Out The Closet. Its only my humble and very unprofessional opinion.

Hey, kinkydaddy, we all are entitled to our opinions. And it's nice to see you express yours here. And BTW,
to JUB!