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Do you think you're gonna find your one TRUE LOVE, someday?

What are the chances that you'll find Mr. Right?

  • High

    Votes: 22 25.0%

  • Average

    Votes: 19 21.6%

  • Low

    Votes: 25 28.4%

  • none

    Votes: 22 25.0%
  • Total voters
    88
landers said:
I've found Mr. Right twice, I just wasn't their Mr. Right.
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haha that actually has happened to me too.

There was this one guy who was super cute and really fun to be with, I totally fell for him and could definitely see myself with him, but after a few dates he wasn't feeling it. :(
 
I honestly think I could but not sure where he is. Im just gonna stop trying to find a guy and just have my friends arrange a guy for me.
 
I met my honey and it was instant connection between us.

That was 26+ yrs ago and we are still together.
He is my 1st and only guy I have ever had sex with. I was str8t but curious and I dump my gf and when with him.

Of course the whay he fucks me has a huge plus to it..
 
There were two guys I had been cruising 28 years ago. It was my birthday and I had a friend babysitting my 2 kids. I was determined to find one of these guys. I did and we've been together ever since.
 
I'm a starry-eyed dreamer... hoping to find my soul mate one day.

Will it happen? Dunno. It's possible it may never happen. But the dream is always there.
 
I've been in love twice, but lately I've not had any connections with anyone. I have hope, but for now I really don't care and I can't be bothered looking.

Love will happen when it wants to happen, I wish I met someone I had sparks with though! I have no libido without those sparks or love :(
 
I was sort of depressing to click on "low," but there you have it.

I'm not good at meeting people. I live in New York City of all places and I don't even have any gay friends I see more than once every couple of months. Never had a boyfriend either. Not sure how people do it.
 
I feel that in response I must quote Alfred Lord Tennyson

For me "Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
 
I am not looking for Mr. Right. I am looking for Mr. Right Now.
I made the mistake of marrying the first girl to come along when I was trying to live straight. I am not making that mistake ago.

I am going to fuck around for a few years first.
 
Yuki Sohma said:
I feel that in response I must quote Alfred Lord Tennyson

For me "Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
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plus one! I was going mental when I was a virgin about what it would be like, being all sentimental about love and that tosh, after I got a root sex was sex, after I fell in love, love was just another mystery unraveled that now made sense.

I am happy to have loved, but I would really like to experience someone that LOVES ME to that same level !oops!
 
The whole "one true love" thing is such utter bullshit. It makes people believe that there is precisely one person out there who is perfect for them, and if they're not with that person, they're wasting their time and settling for second-best (if not third-, fourth-...). So instead of meeting guys, dating them, maybe building a relationship, they keep comparing guys and relationships to some fantasy. "Well, he's really nice, but if he were really the one, I would fantasize only about him when jerking off. Guess it's not him." "Well, he's hot and great to be with, but he doesn't like going out dancing as much as me. My ideal guy would love dancing as much as me. May as well break up." Then I get to hear about how lonely they are, and when will they find their "true north" and other garbage. Bleah.

Lex
 
I voted low, I just don't see myself finding anyone where I live now.. (or anyone finding me, hehe)

I still hope that someday I might meet someone truly special, who doesn't neccesarily have to be that "one true love". I totally agree with what Lex wrote above about that!

Guess I'll just have to keep my fingers crossed ;)
 
Hell, I'm not sure that there's anyone even compatible with me. I never believed the "one true love" bullshit, though.
 
I don't believe in any 'one true love'.The fact of the matter is is that the odds against such a concept are to great,and if that principle were true everyone on Earth would be miserable.But,despite this,I do believe that there is a such thing as 'true love' and that anyone may obtain it.

I believe that human beings,even the worst ones,are capable of loving a great number of people.Amongst these numbers of loved people are a select few who one can come to love more than the others.To be more specific,I mean love in a romantic way.I personally think that someone can in fact obtain a type of true love with any of these given individuals.With some it might come naturally,giving some the impression of a one true love and thus instilling that type of mentality,and with others it might take a little more work,which can be more rewarding in itself,but it's true love all the same.

I'm very happy,thankful,and proud to be able to say that I've found one of my special someones and that,while it took seven years and a lot of hard work,we've managed to reach the point of true love !oops! .
 
I was always the romantic type, dreaming for days on end what my "true love" would look like and the latter. But after 3 unsuccessful relationships, I could care less at this point. In some sense, I honestly don't feel like I ever need a romantic relationship again, and I mean that sincerely (not like bitter people ranting and raving until someone else shows up 2 weeks later).

I felt like I gave it my best shot three times, the last one almost resulting in a marriage, but ultimately it didn't work out when it was horrible, ok, or even good.

So, "true love"? Sure, it's probably out there, but I highly doubt it has anything to do with a "happily ever after" type of relationship.
 
In the immediate future, pretty minimal tbh. In the future - well I'm 18 - I've got my life ahead of me and I have absolutely no idea.

Admittedly when I asked a guy out thinking he was single, he told me that he'd check his calendar only to be later completely ignored and then found out on Facebook of all places doesn't really inspire me with confidence. But, you know, he's just one guy.
 
G-Lexington said:
The whole "one true love" thing is such utter bullshit. It makes people believe that there is precisely one person out there who is perfect for them, and if they're not with that person, they're wasting their time and settling for second-best (if not third-, fourth-...). So instead of meeting guys, dating them, maybe building a relationship, they keep comparing guys and relationships to some fantasy. "Well, he's really nice, but if he were really the one, I would fantasize only about him when jerking off. Guess it's not him." "Well, he's hot and great to be with, but he doesn't like going out dancing as much as me. My ideal guy would love dancing as much as me. May as well break up." Then I get to hear about how lonely they are, and when will they find their "true north" and other garbage. Bleah.

Lex
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Damn, Lex beat me to it. We're told over and over that true love is all that matters, but really, that's just a construct. you build real relationships with real guys - and he's not going to be perfect, he's going to listen to music you don't like, or leave dishes in the sink, or something that's going to get on your nerves.

Real love is knowing the pros and cons, and wanting to be with him anyway.
 
I chose high because I am just optimistic like that lol. I do believe the world and any geographic location you are in is big enough to where there is somebody around for you to be in love with. I don't believe in just 1 person, but I think there are many we could fall in love with and be happy with. I think it may or may not last a long time depending on how we change or evolve over time. Nobody is gonna be the exact same person they were just a few years ago.
 
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