do you think you're good looking, average or ugly?

[Fluxios]

I consider myself a litle below the avarage. Like 4 out of 10.
Although, I wake up once every 2 months, I look myself on the mirror and say "I'm fucking hot!".
What pisses me off is the fact that I'm skinny, and I don't look good from my perpective. Also my chest is kind of strange...

 

[mikey3000]

I met this young girl in a store last year; maybe 25 years of age. Actually I met her dog first. Adorable little schnauzer. I went to pat the dog and she greeted me warmly. As I looked up and focused, I realized that she had a massive, hideous tumor that disfigured more than half her face, yet she looked me right in the eye. It took a few seconds to get over the growth and really talk to the girl, but once I did she was so pleasant and funny. We talked about her dog and what a good pet he is and how happy he makes her.

The one thing I took away with me that day was the girl's confidence. I was totally blown away by her. If I was burdened with a face like that, I wouldn't have the guts to leave the house. I don't know what I'd be like, but I bet it wouldn't be good. She over came her disfigurement. And I was totally blown away by her. I bumped into her a few more times since, and even introduced my little daughters to her and her dog. Then I talk to them about confidence and appearances. They understand.


Now when ever I look in the mirror and don't like what I see, I think of her.

 

[Saybrooke]

"Ass so fat, all these bitches pussies is throbbin'!" Oh, Nicki Minaj...

Bad Bitches I'm yo leada!

If ya got, flaunt it CounterSpade

 

[bankside]

I have to say how badly the mind can play tricks on you though. Like not being your own type. I always liked muscular guys with big arms and big chests. And in my 20s I never felt I measured up to my ideal. I thought I was too skinny, too narrow, no shoulders, and a bit too gangly looking.

In hindsight, I was easy enough to look at and pretty much had a perfect twink body that I would never have admitted to. I missed out on all of that because I was looking in the mirror expecting to see a built brick shithouse instead. I confused what I was looking for with what I had to offer.

Now it's funny - I've definitely given up the twink look. I figure I'm only 6 months away from getting the body back at any given moment but to be honest I'm too lazy to say no to a steak and a dark rum and coke. It just tastes too good. But despite the apathy I have actually got better perspective on a few things that used to bother me.

For instance, I realised I don't really have narrow shoulders. I just don't have that V shape I enjoy seeing on other guys because even at my fittest weight I don't have a skinny waist.

I was kind of pleased when I figured that out. A bit of effort at the gym for the shoulders and a bit more self-control with what I eat should take care of the waist. So that made me happy. As did realising how I could look good with the shape I naturally have.

Truth is, if I looked like my boyfriend, I would not be his type. So the ultimate lesson from all of this is don't argue with people who think you're hot. Let them have their delusions. And then ask them out.

 

[touchofmyhand]

It mostly depends on the day, on how I feel, the place I am, what I'm wearing and all that stuff. Sometimes I can get/feel really sexy and confident, but in the other hand, I can also get awfully ugly. But, in general, I would give me a 7 out of 10.

 

[TheLyingGame]

Plain Jane here

which is funny, because to me, you're the best looking guy on this site.

 

[TheLyingGame]

That's messed up!

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JD2RtRW3DXM&feature=fvwrel[/ame]

 

[Rex]

I like the way I look but I know there are lots of guys who look way better. I'm happy with the way I look though.

 

[Anders123]

I have to say how badly the mind can play tricks on you though. Like not being your own type ... in my 20s I never felt I measured up to my ideal. I thought I was too skinny...

This pretty much applies to me, too. I'm most attracted to what many would refer to as 'bears', 'muscle bears' or 'cubs'. Yet I am a young, thin, reasonably muscular guy. When ever I look in the mirror, despite it being largely irrational, I'm always disappointed to see more leanness than bulk.

When I take my shirt off, I find most compliments will be directed at my abs, and also my upper arms and shoulders. Given that the men I find the most attractive pretty much never have a 6 pack, I'm largely indifferent towards my own abs. My shoulders and upper arms are reasonably muscular because of my determined, yet ultimately unsuccessful attempts to achieve that bulkier chest I find so attractive on other men.

I recognise my disappointment as unreasonable, because I'm sure there are plenty of men out there that would appreciate my body type. So I'm beginning to strive to effectuate the best and healthiest version of my body I can, rather than endlessly and hopelessly striving to achieve the body of a man I would personally find physically ideal.

 

[Puddle]

As much as I like to think I have the ugliest face ever, I know it's not true. If not for a few unfortunate features, I might even consider myself sort of almost handsome. I'd say I'm between average and ugly.

My body, on the other hand, is a complete mess. Even if I were to get in shape, those disgusting scars aren't going anywhere. If I had to choose between going outside without a shirt or without pants, I'd go without pants (and I'm not exactly happy with what I have down there either, but at least it looks almost normal).

 

[bw92116]

I think I'm average-looking and nothing more. I don't smile enough. When I look in the mirror, I don't get excited.
I think I look best in the sun. With sunglasses on, if I catch my reflection in the car window, I think I look cool.
But in order to look good, you do have to believe in yourself, and believe you look good. Then you have confidence.
Some people have told me that I'm handsome, but I really think it's just that I'm their type. But I believe I look good to them, and that's enough for me.

 

[Saybrooke]

"Phantom by the meter. Someone please direct me to the best ass-eater!"

My biggest image flaw is the fact that I don't have as much junk in the trunk as I'd like. I have some in the front (nothing that couldn't be gotten rid of if I stopped drinking soda all the time, actually), but my backside is as straight down as my actual back. I have no bubble butt bump at all. I want an ass that people can go, "dayum" to, but nothing people will go "he gotta donk" to.

I got that junk And don't worrry, that just means easier access for me

 

[DigitalFudge]

LMAO. She is working that hair. I love it.

No regrets

 

[72-Jay]

I'm definitely not hot or good-looking....but I don't consider myself to be totally ugly or anything either.

 

[DHolden]

I try not to have others rate me, as I already put myself down enough. I,myself is underaverage(just slightly above ugly).I know the truth,which could be why I haven't had a date that wasn't my hand since 1994.

 

[MascutarHero]

I thought I was ugly, till I joined A4A, my messages were full of compliments, but in the end, you gotta find your confidence because thats more important then what a stranger tells you. But I say I''m average, have moments of both

 

[spasssalzburg]

i think im average, but im hairy as fuck (thanks to my hungarian grandpa) and i hate it.

 

[Screwdriver4]

Hubris is a major turn-off.

lmaoooooooo so's jealousy henny b

 

[BreakTheIce]

I think I'm just okay ... I've been told by others I look mighty fine though.

 

[birddog7]

I'm below average for sure. Maybe even worse...