Do you want kids?

[RenaissanceMan]

Kids can save you from yourself and from narcissism.

Seeing my 2.5 year old sister running around, as much as a pain in the ass she can be, makes me think I might eventually want a kid myself...mostly for the above reason. That's the reason why I'd want to be single forever (relationships can save you from yourself too) and the same follows through for kids.

 

[metta]

No kids. I do not want any kids. No thank you.


I do appreciate that there are gay people/couples that want children. I think that gay couples can and do raise kids as well as straight couples. There may be issues that need to be dealt with that are not dealt with straight couples....but so what. We all have issues to deal with in life. Love is love. PERIOD!

I would ask that they learn good parenting skills....but then again...I wish that straight couples would have to do that as well.

 

[Metroguy78]

Hey Danno,

I also want a child, just the one is fine, and I also would like it to be biologicaly mine, have my blood and be my son through and through.

I have about 8 years to sort out my life before i dedicate my life to my son or ideally daughter. I still don't know who or how i will get to create this child being that i have no womb on offer??

 

[sherman]

I love children, but I just don't want any of my own. I'm a very supportive Uncle to all my nieces and nephews and I love them like they were my own. I have a lot of Godchildren and my friends have lots of children that I baby sit for so, I like being the guy that can spoil someone else's child.

 

[Christopher123]

I sorta already have one, although he's not mine biologically. A good friend of mine, who used to be my roommate before she moved out and got her own place about 2 years ago, has a 7-year-old boy, Shane. We were living together (just as roomies, of course) at the time she got pregnant and her then boyfriend/fiance decided about halfway through her pregnancy that he didn't want to be a father. I talked her out of getting an abortion (she was very depressed that "the asshole" left her and wanted to get rid of his child) and told her to go ahead and have the kid and we'd deal with it. And we did. It was the coolest thing in the world. I was her coach in the delivery room and her and Shane lived with me till he was 5. We raised him together as friends and I still see him on a regular basis, she lives just a few streets over.

I love the kid to death and we're the best of buds

 

[starlight70]

I would love to have kids. But since my brother's death, his kids are growing so much closer to me. So, I am practically a substitute to them. Not that I am doing a great job, but they fill the emptiness I have inside for some children laughters. As well as headaches too. : p

Anyway, now I fear that if I have my own children, I would be loving them less. Silly, huh?

But if Brad Pitt asks me....

 

[Christopher123]

Anyway, now I fear that if I have my own children, I would be loving them less. Silly, huh?

You wouldn't

Honestly, I really don't care for kids all that much. Or at least I didn't until Shane came along. I love him more than life itself. And hell, when he came along, I was young. 17 years old (I'll be 24 next month and Shane just turned 7). See, I moved out when I was 16 and went to live with Nicole (Shane's mother). She was, and still is, a good friend of the family and knew how bad my home life was and told me if I ever left to come and live with her. So I did.

I guess my point is that you don't really know how much room you have in your heart to love kids until they come into your life. So if you had your own kids, I'm sure you'd love them just the same.

 

[beafous]

I love kids and would one day love to be a parent

 

[Kojimon]

I want to have kids, but it won't be anytime soon.

I will adopt. Personally, I dont really see the point in have kids biologically, when there are so many children in this world that need love, food, warmth and kindness already.

Gotta make the world a better place and it is best to start with the little ones first.

 

[MadeUpName27]

Do I want Kids???

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[Christopher123]

I love kids. I disappoint for me gay I wish I could better person or different ! I have fuck up myself

I hate this world fuck up totally !!!!!

Why do you say that? Why do you say you're disappointed in yourself?

 

[brandon84]

I'm not sure. Maybe it will hit me one day. I'm an excellent godparent to My god-son Colin, and my god-daughter Lola . I spoil them rotten and I love them so much. They are my two best friends kids and my friends call me their "stand-in-baby-daddy". I have a brother (7) and a sister (4) and i'm great with them. I take them to the doctor, school, and shopping for my parents. They always accidentally call me dad.

On the other hand I look at the hell I gave my parents and it scares me to think that one day I might have a little me running around spreading chaos. I was soooooo bad and everyone always told me that i'm gonna get it back worse when I have kids.

 

[brandon84]

I think if I can find a man worthy of spending the rest of my life with I would like a little girl. Here is a pic of my new god-daughter Lola. she is two weeks old and I have already boutht her all the fabolous clothes and accessories she will need until she is a year old.

How could you not want a baby girl after seeing this gorgeous babe.

Her mom bought her a pacifier with real pink & clear crystals.

We are gonna spoil the hell out of her. Nothing but the best for our little diva. She was only 3 days old in these pics.