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Does a Mother Know?

I don't believe that Operafan. I just tend to mull things over for a long time and every now and again I come up with something worth saying. I didn't start out so levelheaeded and forgiving when my Mom and Dad first started freaking out...

hindsight as they say.... 20/20
 
Jesus. Parents are people too. The mother could have actually dne something to her feelings (kick the son out, kill him, etc) rather than keep them inside.
 
I read that too...but what is written underneath is submitted by a reader, not the sender, so I assume that they read into as a father, but it seems more female to me...I am not sure why...I love postsecret...it updates EVERY sunday.
 
Christopher, if I may, let me ask you some questions. What was your relationship like prior to her learning about your sexuality? Did you ever feel her love for you was unconditional? Did you have to earn her love?

As others have said, perhaps she is speaking out of her own hurt. You know your mother, we don't. Is she ever likely to get over her disappointment or will she hold onto it forever.

I think the religious side is something with which I have some knowledge. For some reason (unknown to me) religious people, especially evangelicals, feel that if a child 'decides' to be gay, he is rejecting God. In turn, they almost feel they must renounce the child. In their eyes, the child is dead. As ridiculous as it may seem, I've seen it happen more than once and have also experienced it first hand.

Conditional love is not love. Love is a gift that comes with no stings attached.
Just because people give birth to children, does not automatically make them good parents.
I am sorry for this in your life, but know that you are not alone.
 
My mother was a mess after I came out.

But she's changed 100%. Now she's a totaly supportive mother when it comes to me being gay.

she just doesn't like that I'm a pornographer who lives in LA, rides a motorcycle and has tattoos.
 
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