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Does a Wedding Ring Make a Man More Attractive ?

Does a Wedding Ring Make a Man More Attractive ?

  • Oh hell, YES.

    Votes: 17 23.3%

  • Oh hell, NO.

    Votes: 25 34.2%

  • Never really thought about it.

    Votes: 19 26.0%

  • Leave me alone, I'm masturbating.

    Votes: 12 16.4%
  • Total voters
    73
It tells me he's a man of honor and integrity who can make a commitment.

And commitment is sexy. :D

Of course, most people fall far short of those ideals. Honor, integrity, and commitment really exist mostly in my fantasies. :help:

So, is a wedding ring really truly sexy? Only if I put it there. :sex:

Of course, I really truly wish you would all go away and leave me alone ... I'm masturbating.
 
Only makes me want to choke the lucky man's wife !oops! :rolleyes: :badgrin: :cool:
 
As a rule, nothing is a bigger turn-off than a guy in a relationship. As soon as I find out a guy is in a relationship (in whatever shape or form), I lose all interest.

(some exceptions do apply, but they're rare and strictly viewed on a case-to-case basis)
 
Well it makes my "Husband" look very attractive to me as for other guys i haven't noticed as why would i look when i have perfection already and 13 years since we met none of those feelings have changed. Do other guys get attracted to us again cant say i have noticed as i have never looked.(*8*)
 
Nomenclature said:
The general idea - especially for women - is that once they know a man is taken and desirable to someone else, they want him too and will try to compete for the man's attention and affection. I guess it's a human instinct/genetic diversity, thing, but I don't think I would be into that.
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"The most striking result was in the responses of single women. Offered a single man, 59 per cent were interested in pursuing a relationship. But when he was attached, 90 per cent said they were up for the chase."

the full article: http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619-its-true-all-the-taken-men-are-best.html

i can see the logic behind it, but still: thats fucked up.

as for me, i might not even notice, since i dont really care, at least not at the very beginning. but once i realize hes in a relationship already it makes him a little less attractive to me.
 
Seeing as how I only look at guys as "fantasy fuel", if you will, the wedding ring makes no difference. If I were actually interested in dating, it'd be a turn-off.

Lex
 
x-cess said:
"The most striking result was in the responses of single women. Offered a single man, 59 per cent were interested in pursuing a relationship. But when he was attached, 90 per cent said they were up for the chase."

the full article: http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619-its-true-all-the-taken-men-are-best.html

i can see the logic behind it, but still: thats fucked up.
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I think human nature in and of itself is illogical and fucked up most of the time. It's not our fault, really.


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As controversial/loaded of a thing as this is to say, it's honestly how I feel right now: I've seen way too many relationships fall apart after years, or even decades together. I no longer value committment, and I don't think being married or having children with someone does very much to make a person want to stay with you.
 
Attractive? No. Appealing? Yes.

In all honesty, knowing someone is unavailable would definitely add that "forbidden fruit" factor into their overall appeal.

I would never pursue it by approaching the man as the instigator. If a married man was to approach me though, I'd like to think I wouldn't act out on my feelings.
 
Yes, in the same way a huge festering boil on his ass makes him more attractive.

I means he is a liar and a cheat who will use and discard you.

Criostoir's answer is perfect.
 
blacksyringe said:
Wait...weird question, but if you're missing your wedding finger what finger do you put the ring on?!
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I'm not sure Miss Manners has ruled on that, but I'm pretty sure it's always permissible to wear your wedding ring on a chain around your neck (as friends of mine who are much thinner than on their wedding day do).
 
No, weeding ring leads to the image of his wife and probably kids. Too many moral issue for me :)
 
stacyphierce said:
Only if I know he's married to a man.

I know that's tough to tell from a glance, but if I know someone is gay, a public figure or someone I know in general, and I see that they have a wedding ring, I am immediately more interested in that person because of what it took for them to actually get married (if it is in fact a legal marriage and not just a ring to say 'look I'm taken').

Anyway I don't find married men more attractive in general. I have a hard enough time wanting people I can't have ;)

So I guess my answer is no, but I am intrigued by gay men who are married because by and large it took a lot of shit to get to that place and that means they have a strength of character and a love for their partner that is really strong too.
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^ Wow !

That was one hell of an answer, Stacy !

Thank you ! :kiss:
 
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