Does anal hurt?

[Bonerific]

I'm scared to do it?

 

[Drebin]

Your name made me giggle.

I share your hesitation as well.

What if you have to take a shit after anal? Would it feel like passing shards of glass?

 

[CallMeHTD]

Go slow. A finger at first. Then two. Then three. Find a lover who won't rush you. Use lots of lube. Take your time. Ease into it. If you do it slowly, it will ultimately feel wonderful.

Buy a small-ish Dildo and just explore with it. Once you trust your own asshole and the pleasure it can give you, it will be easier to trust a sex partner.

One might be initially sore after their first few times getting fucked, but is a gentle kind of soreness.

 

[Enigma63]

anal sex feels fucking fantastic, take it slow at first and use lots of lube, get a Dildo and "practice" before you try the real thing.

 

[nijnij]

I agree. Buy a small Dildo/vibrator (you can buy them in person or online) and practice before you use a real dick. It should NEVER hurt or you're not doing it right.

 

[Lukeee]

Only if you ask nicely.

 

[Gayguy41]

The key(until you get more experienced) is to take it slow and work up to the dick.

Start off with 1 finger, then 2, have him slowly push the head in then slowly work the rest in and taking breaks for you to get used to feeling him inside yourself.

Pretty soon you'll just be able to bend over and take it lol

Personally, I find that there is nothing like having an orgasm while you are being fucked (esp if the top hits your prostate). Most intense orgasms I've ever had.


And if it feel like glass shards after you used the potty - see a doctor you did something bad lol.

 

[star-warrior]

I shall move this from Fetish to the Health and Wellbeing section where hopefully you'll get more advice.

 

[conrad]

With love all things are possible. IMHO if the guy who is "doing" you loves you as you love him, he will make sure by his careful, patience, that you may remember some real discomfort but that passes and is not remembered as pain.

IMHO there is nothing that quite equals anal; it is the ultimate in m2m sex. However, anal is not an absolute necessary part of a a loving relationship.

Remember loving means to seek the good of the other person rather than your own.

 

[Georgiadude]

As other have stated. Go slow. There isn't any reason to hurry. start out with a finger or two and then move on to smaller toys. If it starts to hurt, stop. Relax and use the toys some more.

You may have some soreness the next day. I've found that sitting in a warm bath with some epsom salt helped a lot.

Have fun.

Steven.

 

[ericwhitney]

i used a Dildo several times while masturbating and still it hurt a lot my first few times. and my boyfriend at the time had a very slender cock. I just assumed it wasn't for me. 'til one fateful day when a new boyfriend with a HUGE cock gave me a 45 minute back and ass massage, dropping all kinds of oil over my anus and working his fingers in and out and up and down until I was really turned on. when he slid easily in I literally could not believe it. from that day forward, I had the confidence of knowing how pleasurable it could be, and it never hurt again.

PLENTY OF LUBE AND PATIENCE

 

[Enigma63]

i used a dildo several times while masturbating and still it hurt a lot my first few times. and my boyfriend at the time had a very slender cock. I just assumed it wasn't for me. 'til one fateful day when a new boyfriend with a HUGE cock gave me a 45 minute back and ass massage, dropping all kinds of oil over my anus and working his fingers in and out and up and down until I was really turned on. when he slid easily in I literally could not believe it. from that day forward, I had the confidence of knowing how pleasurable it could be, and it never hurt again.

PLENTY OF LUBE AND PATIENCE

i was fucked by a guy with a small penis and it hurt like hell, but later a guy with a huge penis fucked me and it was the most wonderful experience and didn't "hurt' at all, i could still feel it in my anus hours later