I have known for years that I have strong bi leanings and I finally took the plunge into an ongoing relationship with another married guy. I live in a small town and so discretion is pretty important and being as how I do not get off on casual, one time sex with a stranger, I knew that my chances of finding another married guy for a ongoing one on one thing were at best slim. I had placed ads on Craigslist many times and had pretty much given up but I figured that I would try one last time.
I was looking for one special guy - married with strong submissive tendancies and ideally, inexperienced with m2m sex as my own expeience was limited but I had finally accepted that I am bi natured and I'd just have to live with the desires and urges. I knew that I like Dom.sub play because my wife and I had gotten into it some years ago and the submissive role does not interest me at all - hence my desiire for a submissive guy. I wanted someone who is married and fresh as well to reduce the chances of STD's plus, with him beingg married, it meant that discretion would be vital to him as with myself.
I had received many responses to my ads but only two of the guys were interesting enough to go ahead and meet with for an initial meeting to see if we were compatible and comfortable with each other. The first guy was spooky and definitely had personal issues that were fringe at best and the second guy liked his booze too much and that made me uncomfortable. When I placed that last ad - a very detailed account of what I was seeking in another guy, I never really hoped to realize any degreeof success at all. I felt like I was the onlyy guy out there who wanted only one partner and he had to be married and submissive and willing to commit to a one on one friendship.
When his email came into my Inbox and I read it, he seemed too good to be true. We met for coffee and things just felt right and although he insisted that what he really wanted was to be dominated and humiliated and bi or gay sex really was not that interesting to him. He wanted only one person to Top him and while he preferred a woman, he had not found one who he was comfortable with and then he said that he read my ad and one sentance in that ad was what prompted him to try it with a guy and see what happened. We spent over an hour over coffee and he shared his expectations and limits and I was agreeable. I told him that I wanted him to write out what he wanted from this and what he was into and not into and we parted. he emailed me the next morning and asked me to please stop by the store that he managed and he would give me the paper. I did as he requested and I was pleasantly surprised to see whenhe handed me the hand writtennote and accompanying lists, that our interests were very similiar and I could live with what he wanted and did not want. An initial meeting date and time were agreed upon the next day and it was a done deal.
His insistance that he was really straight made me smile inwardly and yes, he was a virgin to m2m sex plus he is good looking and fit and younger than myself and that was ideal. He is definitely straight looking and acting and in a position of authority and most people ( including his wife ) would never imagine him with a cock in his mouth. he had been trying for years to get his wife to take the dominant role in bed but he said that she seldom did and when she did, her efforts were at best, half hearted. So in frustration, he reached out and we met.
Our first time was so much better than I had hoped for and for "a straight guy basically", he sucked cock like there was no tomorrow and he gives better head than any woman who I have ever been with now. He isn't so adamant that he is "maybe 10 - 15% bi and 85-90% straight any more after just a few times together. He had stopped by my home just after our second time together and we talked and he again came out with the "I'm at best 15% bi" story and I tolld him that I sensed that he was more bi than he thought. Of course, he denied that staunchly but we all need time to deal with our issues as most of us know. The bondage and Dom/sub was definitely hot to him and better than he had exppected though and he said that he wanted to continue.
He stopped by several weeks later and we did not have a lot of time to talk. But as he was getting ready to head off to work, I stopped him part way to the door and on impulse, I told him to come back and drop his pants and sit down. Now, I am not really versatile - I have sucked cock but it isn't my favorite pass time but something inside me told me that I had to "throw him a bone" and give him a treat to lack him into what we were sharing. I dropped to my knees between his legs and took his stiffening cock into my mouth and nature seemed to take over and I just knew what to do to give him what he later said was a far better blowjob than his wife had ever given him. He has a nice cock - cut, failry slender and about 6 1/2" long and I had no trouble taking him right into my throat and there was noo gagging at all. he was deep in my throat when he came and his cum went right into my belly without me hardly realizing that I had just swallowed my first load. He left a happy guy and I was happy that I had done what I did although the after taste was strong and I couldn't seem to get rid of it for the next few hours. I did learn that while sucking is OK, it is not really something that I long for and I did tell him that what had happened was a treat and warned him not to expect that every time that we were together. He was and is OK with that and says that it is his place to serve and not mine.
He actually emailed me and pulled away after our second time together stating guilt with his wife as the reason and he needed time to think and to try to work some things out with her sexually. They have a pretty solid, long term marriiage but things have gotten a bit stale in the bedroom as happens inmost marriages over time. He emailed about two weeks later and told me that he and his wife had "worked things out" and he wasn't sure if or when he wanted to get together again. I was bummed out but respected his thoughts but deep inside, I smiles to myself and I knew that he would be back. He had enjoyed his role as My boi too much and sure enough, he emailed about three weeks later as I thought he would, and he said that he missed what we shared and wanted to get together again.
We have been together several times since and he is definitley enjoying his new role in life. Things have progressed rapidly and past where I had ever hoped and he has definiotely been turned. Anal was off the table originally - a definite no no - but in his last email he plainly stated that we wanted his cherry hole fingered - and I think that we all know where this is headed. It will, I suspect, be just a matter of time until I am inside him and enjoying his man cunt and filling his bowels with my cum. I introduced him to rimming during our last session and he enjoyed that and wants more.
I could post some details of some of our experiences but I am not sure that anyone would want to read them..
- but suffice to say, we have both learned a lot and realized some things about ourselves that we either did not want to realize before or that we just needed a r/t experience to help us both know and accept what we really are deep down inside. I have long known that I am likely very bi and that has now been confirmed - and for him, it has likely brought some feelings and thoughts to the surface which have made him uncomfortable at times. But he is adjusting as am I - and while this is far from romantic and neither of us want that anyways, it is definitely probably the most erotic thing I have ever experienced. We had to cancel our last scheduled meeting and we get together at best about every two months but I have a feeling that the get togethers will become more close together and frequent this year. Yeeah - it's good.
