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Does gay have to equal slut?

mikey3000 said:
Ok, does P & P = sexually open? I ain't no angel, believe me. I've had way more sex then I deserve, and group sex too, but it was all with guys I've known for more than half an hour. And I remained sober enough to stay in control and remember what happened.
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OK but in your original post you didn't say anything about doing drugs. It was just about having sex with random strangers. That's not in your personal boundaries and that's fine... just because someone DOES to that doesn't make them a "slut."
 
I still think you need new and better friends.
 
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/slut:

"Slut = a woman who has sexual relations with a lot of men without any emotional involvment."

I think in this day and age the term can be applied to a male too, no? Drugs don't have to be involved, but in the gay community, quite often are. I've never seen the term P & P used in the straight community. Look, I know the sex industry is your bread and butter, I get it, but by your own admission, you don't slerp around or have much sex anymore either. Do you advocate slutty and risky behavior in others just so you can film it and make a buck?
 
rareboy said:
I still think you need new and better friends.
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You are probably right, but I have this habit of trying to rescue people who I think are in over their heads. From the day I met this guy I knew he would be eaten alive by the community, and so far he has proven me right. Wife split and took the kids and he is left heart broken and guilt ridden. His reckless behavior is, "I have to be true to me."
 
mikey3000 said:
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/slut:

"Slut = a woman who has sexual relations with a lot of men without any emotional involvment."
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I've always understood that a "slut" is someone "easy" and not choosey at all. either way, I find it's best to let adults make up their own minds about whom they fuck without calling them "slut."

Look, I know the sex industry is your bread and butter, I get it, but by your own admission, you don't slerp around or have much sex anymore either. Do you advocate slutty and risky behavior in others just so you can film it and make a buck?
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Risky? Miss Thing, I work for Titanmen. We don't "advocate risky behavior." We're a 100% condom studio. Always have been.

I don't consider the porn industry to be "the sex industry." I'm a film maker. I've made quite a bit of cash off potato chip commercials and "How To" videos, too.



...and it NEVER gets less funny when someone tries to come at me with "OH yeah? Well.. YOU MAKE PORN" as an argument... on a porn site.
 
mikey3000 said:
No, I have never bisparaged him or his actions. The only thing I did, when his new bf first got him into this scene, was the state of his health (and i posted it on here when it happened). He gets so wasted that he can't remember what happens, or if condoms were used, and I lectured him on that. He is a very naieve guy, sweet but naieve. In my city HIV is almost as common as a cold and I want him to stay safe, but I have a suspicion that it may be too late anyway.
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OK you posted about that guy before. It's 2016, if he's having unprotected sex as a bottom and getting gang banged by lots of men, and getting fucked up the ass raw and sucking off random men he meets in public toilets he probably already is HIV+ or has been for awhile, and has other STDs.

I know people who did stuff like that, or who had the mentality that it was the 70s and they did not need to worry about HIV or other STDs and could have unprotected sex; but they wound up HIV+ or getting other STDs.

There's nothing you can really do for people like this as they make the personal choice to have unprotected sex with random people.
 
Soilwork said:
I've always understood that a "slut" is someone "easy" and not choosey at all. either way, I find it's best to let adults make up their own minds about whom they fuck without calling them "slut."




Risky? Miss Thing, I work for Titanmen. We don't "advocate risky behavior." We're a 100% condom studio. Always have been.

I don't consider the porn industry to be "the sex industry." I'm a film maker. I've made quite a bit of cash off potato chip commercials and "How To" videos, too.



...and it NEVER gets less funny when someone tries to come at me with "OH yeah? Well.. YOU MAKE PORN" as an argument... on a porn site.
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I'm not referring to you as an employee/representative of Titan Men, I'm referring to you the person, the individual, like when you talk about you and your partner, human beings. And I'm not throwing around you being a porn producer, YOU are the one who keeps advertising your company and profession, not me. Man, don't be so touchy.
 
mikey3000 said:
I'm not referring to you as an employee/representative of Titan Men, I'm referring to you the person,
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OK, then, can you please point to an instance of me "advocating risky behavior", because I don't recall ever doing that.
 
I think slut means liking sex with a multitude of men and having zero emotional connection...no strings....in other words...honest sex...

I like sex to be about sex....and I quite liked my time as a slut..and I am proud of how I behaved and I respect myself because of it as a matter of fact. I didn't fuck anyone over...or lie to anyone to get what I wanted...or pretend anything....and since I am HIV- I didn't pass along any disease to anyone.

I would never just have sex with "anyone":roll:....not even close....not even in the right ballpark...

If no strings sex brings on judgements from other people...go ahead and judge..really...just glad I am not you...and would hate to have anything to do with you because by your judgement alone..there are a hell of a lot of "strings" there ....UGH
 
eastofeden said:
I think slut means liking sex with a multitude of men and having zero emotional connection...no strings....in other words...honest sex...

I like sex to be about sex....and I quite liked my time as a slut..and I am proud of how I behaved and I respect myself because of it as a matter of fact. I didn't fuck anyone over...or lie to anyone to get what I wanted...or pretend anything....and since I am HIV- I didn't pass along any disease to anyone.

I would never just have sex with "anyone":roll:....not even close....not even in the right ballpark...

If no strings sex brings on judgements from other people...go ahead and judge..really...just glad I am not you...and would hate to have anything to do with you because by your judgement alone..there are a hell of a lot of "strings" there ....UGH
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NSA sex is not hard to find in the gay community, never has been and never will be. If that's how you want to look back on your life, or how you want to be remembered, then by all means, have it. But were you a great lover if there was never any love? Man, when I reach the golden years, I hope I can say more for my life than I had lots of random, NSA fucking. And BTW, that is exactly what I meant when I started this thread, how some are looked down upon for having differing values than others. Thanks for that. You surprise me.
 
mikey3000 said:
NSA sex is not hard to find in the gay community, never has been and never will be. If that's how you want to look back on your life, or how you want to be remembered, then by all means, have it. But were you a great lover if there was never any love? Man, when I reach the golden years, I hope I can say more for my life than I had lots of random, NSA fucking. And BTW, that is exactly what I meant when I started this thread, how some are looked down upon for having differing values than others. Thanks for that. You surprise me.
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I have been with the same man happily for 30 years. Looking back on my life is a pleasure actually.

I don't have to edit out anything to respect myself though. I made alot of mistakes...I own them. Having NSA sex was NOT a mistake..I would do it again..in fact..I would do every single thing again because if I changed even one thing I might not be where I am today....so I would even repeat the crap for the privilege....
 
This site is in danger of being taken over by prudes and pearlclutchers.
 
eastofeden said:
I have been with the same man happily for 30 years. Looking back on my life is a pleasure actually....
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I didn't know this (or forgot), but am very glad to hear it. I think the worst words one can say at the end of their lives are, "what if..." if you had all those experiences and someone to share them with, that is awesome.
 
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