Does going to the gym turn you on?

[MisterMajestic]

Your husband is bi? kelsey, do you live in Disneyland?

Dude..You gotta bring you thinking to 2011. Just like you witnessed the First Black President being inaugurated, Gay Marriage passing in Key-States, Women selected to the Supreme Court, Gays being accepted back into the Military, Straights being Comfortable having openly Gay Buds....The List goes on & on....The Times are Changing....Bisexual Men & Women are more open with their Sexuality TODAY than ever before...You don't have to understand it, nor do you have to Like it, but you should Respect the Honesty in it..

Personally I know of only one Bisexual Guy that told his wife over 20yrs ago that he is "Bisexual". They were in college and she married him anyway. 3 kids later they are still happily married. Their marriage works for them and he told me he would NEVER leave his wife because he's still in Love with her and he Likes her. He told me that his Wife & Kids are his first priority and that will never change. He goes home to his Wife EVERY night.

Yep, he's bi. He told me not too long ago, but I didn't let it stop me from marrying him last month...I love and support him! What that means, I don't know yet. But I do know we're both willing to work together to find something that's good for both of us.

As you already know you are not the First person to be in a marriage where the other Spouse is Bisexual. I don't know you and I can't predict what the Future holds for your marriage. What I can say is that your Marriage will be a success as long as you work together.

Some people tend to think the "Bisexual Man" is really Gay and he will come to his senses & "Go completely Gay" in a matter of Months or perhaps years. I can tell you that is a "Myth". Everything and I do mean EVERYTHING is based on the "Individual". As long as your husband Loves you and remembers where his priorities lie, you will be just fine.

 

[blackbeltninja]

Well that's why I said the UNITED STATES, because clearly the young guys in you're country are a little odd. Like I said, here in the US I don't see ANY guys of any age acting the way you describe the young guys in your country.

I'm not so sure. You search for locker room threads in Jub and you'll be surprised at how little nudity there seems to be - many JUBbers do the towel-shuffle,change in a toilet stall or just shower at home.

Perhaps where you are is the exception Where in the US are you?

-d-

 

[mike1491]

I'm not so sure. You search for locker room threads in Jub and you'll be surprised at how little nudity there seems to be - many JUBbers do the towel-shuffle,change in a toilet stall or just shower at home.

Perhaps where you are is the exception Where in the US are you?

-d-

Perhaps not!! Just because there aren't nude pics of guys in locker rooms plastered all over this website, that doesn't mean the guys in the locker rooms are shy. I don't know how it is in your country but here in the US taking pictures in locker rooms is forbidden, for obvious reasons.

Also, the gym I currently go to is not the only one I've ever been to. I've been in a few other gyms as well and seen plenty of young guys naked all the time. So there must be something wrong with the guys at whatever gym YOU go to because this locker room shyness isn't as universal as you seem to think.

 

[blackbeltninja]

Dude, I'm not trying to pick a fight with you.

I did spend some time in the US, in Colorado, a few days at a ski resort, and the nudity in the locker room by the pool and jacuzzi and gym was zero. The nudity in .za gyms - private and at the University I work at - is diminishing. This is my experience.

Nobody said you have to take pictures in the locker-room either. But if you were to search for locker room threads, you'd see how many guys here don't get undressed in them. Search for yourself if you think I'm bullshitting.

-d-

 

[mike1491]

I'm not picking a fight either. I simply think you have a lot of misconceptions about people in locker rooms.

Just because you didn't happen to see any nudity at a ski resort locker room, which you were only at for a few days, that doesn't mean there's a fear/shyness of nudity in all locker rooms in general. I've had days, even entire weeks, when I'd walk into the locker room and see absolutely no nudity at all. Then on other days, there's hot naked guys everywhere.

Also, some people simply prefer to shower at home. It's not always because they're shy. The point I'm trying to make is don't generalize and assume all people are threatened by nudity in locker rooms because that's not even the issue here.

 

[cocksucker4use]

1. Plenty of people know plenty of generally older men taht walk around the locker room naked, and sit down for extended periods of time for no apparent reason. I have seen it, many others have seen it. It is likely the gym you attend is rare case.

2. I can't tell if this is serious or not? You think because people streak etc that they think it's ok to be naked for extended periods for no reason in a locker room, with oother straight men around? No. These people are also a very small percentage of straight men. Fact is, most younger people treat other straight men with more respect than the horny old men. You can not deny that.

3. Yes, I am not denying there is shy guys, but the majority of young people are more reserved out of courtesy, not shyness.

I belong to a Gold's by my office and a private (read, expensive) club by my house.
the dudes at Gold's vary, with the younger guys coverin up, mostly, unless they are overtly gay and then they show off....by my house, a lotta the guys have known each other for years and total nudity is everywhere, spa by the shower, etc., with only the occasional gawker, whatever. Hook up consistently with a coupla married closeted dudes I met there, though...and they still get naked when they cum bi...lol

 

[blackbeltninja]

I simply think you have a lot of misconceptions about people in locker rooms.

Well, we'll have to agree to disagree on this one. Either way, I wish my gym/s lockers were more like yours! Our guys are extremely uptight about this sort of thing.

-d-