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Does he like me or is he clowning?

Or, alternatively, you can choose the non-"erotic fiction" option and just tell him how you feel. It's quite possible he feels conflicted about himself. You have to be supportive and friendly, not provocative. Make it about getting stuff in the open. Not about him or you. And certainly not about sex.
 
bw92116 said:
Next time he says or does something flirtatious, take him aside for a minute. Look directly in his eyes and speak in a calm and serious but gentle and non-threatening voice. "Come over tonight to my place and we'll make love like real men." That's all you need to say, nothing more. Don't laugh or anything, show him that you are serious.

He may freak out and run away, or he may be impressed by your self-assurance and balls. Either he will come over and it will happen for real, and you'll have a great time and you can report back here with the details afterwards... or, he'll get scared and it won't happen - but, at least you will have put an end to the silly games and wasted time.
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lol, they are only 22.
22 normally are not that brave ... or maybe time has changed. :D

Maybe just "come over to my place and have fun"
 
i need to take it to the next level because he is driving me INSANE lol. He comes up to me and its almost like he is waiting for something.
 
Well, what do you want? Choose one:

A - the "game" to continue
B - negotiation and discussion
C - action
 
I'll go with B. Ill let you know how it goes. Like i said, some days he completely ignores me and some days he wont get out of my face. I read that this is a test that people do to see if you'll chase them
 
You want the outcome of this to be just discussion? You don't want to actually go to bed with him?
 
Well I have to go to bed now, so I'll just say what my next post would be. Men are blunt and explicit and businesslike in these things. Sometimes it's just "Hi. Come over and suck my dick." At least after you know them well it's as simple as that. It doesn't take an act of Congress or a 473-page legal briefing to negotiate time in bed with a man.The endless teasing, flirting and dancing around the question is unmanly. I think if you bluntly and boldly ask him to come over and have sex with you, he might actually be relieved that you are cutting through all the B.S. He has been blunt and explicit with you, so you are free to be blunt and explicit with him. What are you waiting for? Just say "Come over tonight and and we'll get naked." Be matter of fact about it. If he continues the flirtations and games, just say, "It's not appropriate here. Come to my house tonight and we'll do all that stuff." If you want negotiations and discussions and all that, it's going to boil down to that point anyway. So just get to that point now.
 
Yes, he's trying really hard to probe you for answers about your sexuality. If you would just reciprocate, you'd be able to get over all this silliness and be with him already.

The only word of caution I would give is he may be mixed up in his feelings too. If he pretends to be straight sometimes with other boys, he may have some insecurities about his own sexuality that may backfire on you if the two of you pursue a sexual relationship.

Other than that, he definitely wants you.
 
Oh good lord I give up. Just get in the fucking bed with him already.
 
goodbadenergy said:
also, if you ask him about past relationships, or stuff hes done with girls he always says "i'm not that kind of guy". or "im very reserved and i need to be dating for like 2 months before i'll even kiss" excuses excuses. Every straight guy is that kind of guy, espescially if i comes to hott chicks. he akwardly comments about women that are barbie dolls, and watches my reaction. “Look at that ass — yeah, boy, that’s what I’m talkin’ about!" haha from what i know of him he scores an A+ on every single one of these

^Gay. If he has to wait 2 months to kiss a girl then I dont think he's kissed any since 6th grade. Girls love to kiss, especially ones that dont have sex.

Find an excuse to joke wrestle with him when you guys are alone and "accidently" keep grabbing his junk for a few seconds. Make eye contact. Nature should take its course. Or if your not the physical type say u slept wrong and ask for a message and offer to give one back. Take ur shirt off and act like its normal. When you give him his, make sure u go to ass too(!) I dont even think you need "words" or a talk for this. Just physically go for it cuz you guys already know what the other is thinking. Dont puss out, just do it. You'll be happy you did!
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goodbadenergy said:
now why would he be probing me about my sexuality?
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Oh stop. Don't take one word I wrote and pretend to be so naive about what's going on. You've read our advice. Act on it. Stop pretending not to notice all of his flirting and reciprocate.
 
well i guess he is very religious. He reads a bible, and he said "gay people say that god loves them, but he created adam and eve not adam and steve" wtf is this now? he also said he liked blond girls with long hair. now im lost.
 
I think you're just wasting your time with this guy. Find a nice guy who won't play games, who you like and who likes you, and be with him, and you'll have a happier life. Just quit this whole silly game now, it's old and tired and pointless. Move on. There are billions of men in the world.
 
Goodbadenergy, is this the same guy you have posted about for the past year in these threads:

So I Have This Friend
Is This Guy Digging Me
Cute Guy At My Work
Question About Friend
Guy Is Driving Me Crazy (version 1)
Guy Driving Me Crazy (version 2)
Cute Guy I Know
Does he Like Me Or Is He Clowning (Hot Topics version)

Is there a pattern here?
 
MrRochesterNY said:
Goodbadenergy, is this the same guy you have posted about for the past year in these threads:

So I Have This Friend
Is This Guy Digging Me
Cute Guy At My Work
Question About Friend
Guy Is Driving Me Crazy (version 1)
Guy Driving Me Crazy (version 2)
Cute Guy I Know
Does he Like Me Or Is He Clowning (Hot Topics version)

Is there a pattern here?
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troll likes attention?
 
MrRochesterNY said:
Goodbadenergy, is this the same guy you have posted about for the past year in these threads:

So I Have This Friend
Is This Guy Digging Me
Cute Guy At My Work
Question About Friend
Guy Is Driving Me Crazy (version 1)
Guy Driving Me Crazy (version 2)
Cute Guy I Know
Does he Like Me Or Is He Clowning (Hot Topics version)

Is there a pattern here?
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no and this is supposed to be a no flame zone remember
 
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