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Does he like me?

seven2go said:
i think you need to look up the definition of the word "reciprocate"....... ;)
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mindblast said:
he likes you, for sure. He just doesn't know how to say it. You gotta reciprocate just a little, man. Don't lie there and do nothing like a dead fish. You don't have to flat out say you like him. Show him. When he puts his hand on you, snuggle up to him tighter. Hug him more. Put your hand on his shoulder.

The thing is, he's totally afraid of outing himself as bi (he seems like he's bisexual and not gay or straight, but only he can answer that question eventually, don't ask him directly in my opinion right now). I'm 28 so it hasn't been that long since i was probably close to your age and i remember what a lot of guys were like. Also, avoid talking about girls at all when you and him are together. That'll chill the mood and keep him from talking about how he feels about you if he's going that direction. It's kind of a 'closet' enforcer if you know what i mean.

Things you can tell him:
-"i really like spending time with you, i wish we could hang out more often."
-"could we stay like this a little longer?" (said when you're cuddling up to him)
-"so, i think we have an unfinished wrestling match, what do ya say?"

things you can show him:
-that you make time for him, specifically. Like you're busy with other stuff, but instead of not seeing him, you cut something else or someone else so that you can spend time with him.
-that you really like cuddling and touching
-spending time with him doing hobbies that you both enjoy
-you call him, for once! Sounds like he's always calling you. Don't make him feel like you don't like hearing from him. Show him you want to by calling him.
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Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
seven2go said:
Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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oh man. is there a class for this. i need to register asap. You're right though, I barely call him. I text him cause text is my preference and he responds but sometimes its one worded. But he does call me from time to time and linger on the phone basically saying nothing lol or complaining about something. Idk. Its so hard.

Then he will randomly start talking about any girl he's recently fucked and how sexy she is and if it was anyone else I would respond and talk about it. But because its him, I just smile akwardly. Idk what the fuck is wrong with me.
 
There's nothing "wrong" with you.......you're afraid of possible consequences.
AGAIN: reciprocate
Do unto him as he does to you.......what do you have to lose?....... ;) ........and a helluva lot more to gain....... :D
 
seven2go said:
There's nothing "wrong" with you.......you're afraid of possible consequences.
AGAIN: reciprocate
Do unto him as he does to you.......what do you have to lose?....... ;) ........and a helluva lot more to gain....... :D
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I'm going to next time. I'm gonna suck it up and try something.

Also, if I had it in me, I would call him all the time and such but because I didnt want to make it seem like I was too into him, I avoid contacting him so much. Maybe once a week. Is that bad? I sound like a lil girl lol.
 
He's practically throwing himself at you, and you're not playing "hard to get", you're playing "practically impossible to get".

I agree with everyone else... if you're nervous, let him make the first moves, and then copy back everything he does. Eventually, SOONER then later he'll one up you to the next step.
 
borg69unimatrix said:
He's practically throwing himself at you, and you're not playing "hard to get", you're playing "practically impossible to get".

I agree with everyone else... if you're nervous, let him make the first moves, and then copy back everything he does. Eventually, SOONER then later he'll one up you to the next step.
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You guys are amping me up. I laughed at "practically impossible to get" because I never thought about it that way but I am technically for no damn reason. I keep hoping for blunt interactions and maybe all those were blunt actions and I missed the signs. Ughh. Excuse me while I go stare aimlessly at the sky.
 
neogx89 said:
I text him cause text is my preference and he responds but sometimes its one worded. But he does call me from time to time and linger on the phone basically saying nothing lol or complaining about something.
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Let's cut to the chase........ (!)
YOU call/text HIM and ask him if he would like to join you somewhere for coffee/ice cream/a drink or two/whatever and take it from there....... ;)
 
seven2go said:
Let's cut to the chase........ (!)
YOU call/text HIM and ask him if he would like to join you somewhere for coffee/ice cream/a drink or two/whatever and take it from there....... ;)
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....................and if he gets all girly and silly like you and starts to make excuses tell him you are on your way and will see him in 30 mins.
( I rang a guy once and he couldn't this , bla bla bla, so I said "I am on my way".........it was'nt a waste of time........)
 
Thanks for the support guys. I truly appreciate it. I dont feel so alone anymore.
 
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