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I have been talking to this guy i like. I'm not sure if he is gay or not so i am making a gamble. I know him in person and he seems, well, um, pretty gay. He used to grin at me alot I had a conversation with him on facebook, and it goes like this: Tell me what i should do.

ME: Why did you used to grin at me sometimes when you saw me?
HIM: Lol i don't know
ME: lol people do that sometimes usually i think its because i walk kind of funny sometimes

HIM: Aww im sorry... you dont walk funny. Why they say that

ME:i have a short tendon from an injury in high school so i bounce sometimes and am self concious about it
but whatever

HIM:Oh i wasnt trying to make fun of you
MEk good lol

HIM:I never even noticed that you walked funny to be honest
ME:i shouldnt have said anything then haha
now you would notice

HIM:ZD

HIM:Oops lol

HIM:XD
ME:lol huh

HIM:Never mind lol
ME:its ok lol

HIM:Lol
ME:lol sorry for being self conscious unsure emoticon
i didnt think you were making fun of me

HIM:Oh ok good lol

ME:well we can hang out sometime we can get to know eachother better
if you want

HIM:If you want??

ME:lol i dunno it just came out like that

HIM: Oh lol yeah...

HIM: I'm tired"

ME: aww lol go to sleep"
HIM: Thanks xD g nite"
ME: and ill play videogames all night whether im tired or not
HIM: YAY (Thumbs up emoticon)

How should i take this? what does xD mean?
 
xD means he wants you to tongue-punch his fart box till he barks like a fox.

This whole conversation screams that he wants to pin you down and do this.

So what to do? Stop wasting your time playing videogames. Leave your parents' basement and meet up for an actual date. Go out to a movie. Grab a bite after. Talk about shit. Go somewhere. Get naked. Start to live.
 
lol well i wanna get my fart box punched as much as the next guy but he has kind of been resisting my requests to hang out. He kind of ignores or dodges the question. I don't want to make a fool of myself.
 
dudebroro said:
lol well i wanna get my fart box punched as much as the next guy but he has kind of been resisting my requests to hang out. He kind of ignores or dodges the question. I don't want to make a fool of myself.
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I think you have your answer then.

Move on to someone worth your time and effort.
 
I don't read into the dialog you quoted any interest on his part in meeting up or doing anything. You kinda blew it with those words, "if you want." He latched onto those words and seemed only interested in questioning why you said, "if you want." Instead of your lame reply "I dunno," you should have replied with something like, "Well I do want to. Do you?"

Now I think I'd let the conversation go and pursue someone else or talk to him in person. Facebook really sucks and nobody ever has a real conversation there, because it is devoid of all clues as to the intention or meaning of the words that appear on the screen, i.e. no voice inflection, hand gestures, facial expressions, pr anything human ... just bare words.
 
hi dudebroro,

I agree with #7. I would like to advise you to tell him clear and straightforward that you are a gay guy. I have no clue if he might as well be a gay guy. Please note that there are loads and loads of straight guys who are kind & friendly & nice (etc.) towards other guys (and who often don't bother at all that a guy turns out to be gay). Just make clear who you are and see how he is responding. No need to spend time with him anymore when it turns out he is a homophobe.

Good luck & take care & please keep people over here informed about the outcome.
 
rareboy said:
xD means he wants you to tongue-punch his fart box till he barks like a fox.

This whole conversation screams that he wants to pin you down and do this.
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In what universe. Because here on Earth I could safely guess you are in an extreme minority, if not the only creature (living or dead), that thinks that way.

To the OP..... that convo sounds like any number of normal convos between any number of straight guys who have no sexual inclination to each other. It also sounds like convos where one is trying to hide a physical, if not sexual, desire for the other.

My suggestion, just ask him out. He'll either say yes or no. But even if he says no are you any worse off than you are now, not even having asked? This might as well be no as it is.
 
Willie Boy said:
In what universe. Because here on Earth I could safely guess you are in an extreme minority, if not the only creature (living or dead), that thinks that way.

To the OP..... that convo sounds like any number of normal convos between any number of straight guys who have no sexual inclination to each other. It also sounds like convos where one is trying to hide a physical, if not sexual, desire for the other.

My suggestion, just ask him out. He'll either say yes or no. But even if he says no are you any worse off than you are now, not even having asked? This might as well be no as it is.
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You must miss out on a lot during a day.
 
After a while, i've decided to just let it go. He never initiates contact. (he has never sent the first message) and he doesn't really respond to my messages anymore. I dont want to make a fool of myself. Im not going to ask him out just out of the blue because he would probably not respond and would leave me hanging. I heard that he is shy/antisocial though. And he comes from a religious family so he is not "out"
 
hes not to friendly and never really initiates conversation. its kind of pissing me off. what should i do
 
Cute guys looking at me ???

I have just started noticing this now. I am 29 years old. Sometimes i will notice a cute guy looking at me. They are usually about 18-22 years old which is my guess. Most recently, i saw a cute skater kind of guy looking at me in a store. He had a sort of "awww" look on his face. About 10 minutes later i passed him again in the store and he smiled. I have very low confidence and i thought he was making fun of me. Also in a grocery store i went to order something from the coffee place and one of the guys behind the counter's face lit up and he kept looking down at what he was doing and then up at me. like i distracted him somehow. He had a warm look on his face. Another time at work, i was showing a customer something (he was with his mother), and he seemed very happy. I made a joke and he laughed at it. He kept looking at my mouth when i was talking to him. When i was leading them to a product i heard his mother say "Don't" to him. What could that mean? Don't do what? I have been told i am a 7 on the looks scale, but naturally i just think i am being made fun of.
 
Re: Cute guys looking at me ???

This is a difficult thing to comment on without photographic evidence of what you look like.

I am going to presume that you look great and the younger guys are showing interest in you because they are attracted to you. Many of us wish we were in the same boat so don't complain too strongly. :D
 
Re: Cute guys looking at me ???

Could they be doing this if i was ugly? i am also pretty short. Like 5'6
 
Re: Cute guys looking at me ???

You think they are just laughing at me? are you serious?
 
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