Does Inner Beauty Make Up For Outer Ugliness?

[oakpope]

Only if people have time to know deeper the person. As that occurs rarely, ugglyness is a hard social handicap. Beautiful people are paid higher, they can act more easily like douch, people will be nicer to them, etc.

 

[MissAnne]

^ Speak for yourself.

I know, right ?

 

[eastofeden]

Usually the ugliest people on the planet are the ones who talk about other people being ugly. If I hear anyone describing anyone else as ugly because of their appearance I feel ice in my veins...I turn cold instantly and any respect I might have had for them vanishes immediately.

 

[bankside]

Yes. Confidence is what's attractive. Confidence can be expressed by anyone of any physical type.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Not financially.

 

[Kabluey]

It's a definite yes for me.

 

[JayHawk]

no .

 

[Milker]

I am sure the word "shallow" will come up about me as a result of this post, but truth can be brutal. I live near the beach. The currency of the beach is physical appearance. Looks wise on a scale from "A" to "F," I am about a "B." Looks wise, I know what I can get in the sack, and what I can't. Nothing irritates me more in a bar than a "C" who will not leave me alone. We are all adults, and we should be realistic about what we can get. If you are a "C" and want an "A" head down to the hustlers and buy it. You will save time, avoid a lot of pain, and get what you want.

Now, when I am not cruising, and was out shopping for a partner, my set of standards were completely different, looks and sexual activity were lower down the laddar. My priorities boiled down to someone I could enjoy from day to day. I wanted someone I can count on when I get older. I have been ten years with the same guy, and could not be happier. As it turned out he is also a "B." However, he is a caregiver for developmentally disabled people by career choice. When you spend as much time with the developmentally disabled as we do, your whole perspective comes into focus. However, this does not mean I won't go home with a guy bercause I like the face and basket. Say what you will, but my perspective is realistic, and I feel sorry for those who do not have their priorities in line. The bars are filled with guys who age alone unhappily. If you are realistic, and understand your own limitations honestly, you can win the marriage game.

 

[DigitalFudge]

I am sure the word "shallow" will come up about me as a result of this post, but truth can be brutal. I live near the beach. The currency of the beach is physical appearance. Looks wise on a scale from "A" to "F," I am about a "B." Looks wise, I know what I can get in the sack, and what I can't. Nothing irritates me more in a bar than a "C" who will not leave me alone. We are all adults, and we should be realistic about what we can get. If you are a "C" and want an "A" head down to the hustlers and buy it. You will save time, avoid a lot of pain, and get what you want.

Now, when I am not cruising, and was out shopping for a partner, my set of standards were completely different, looks and sexual activity were lower down the laddar. My priorities boiled down to someone I could enjoy from day to day. I wanted someone I can count on when I get older. I have been ten years with the same guy, and could not be happier. As it turned out he is also a "B." However, he is a caregiver for developmentally disabled people by career choice. When you spend as much time with the developmentally disabled as we do, your whole perspective comes into focus. However, this does not mean I won't go home with a guy bercause I like the face and basket. Say what you will, but my perspective is realistic, and I feel sorry for those who do not have their priorities in line. The bars are filled with guys who age alone unhappily. If you are realistic, and understand your own limitations honestly, you can win the marriage game.

I like you.


You spill the tea and divide your main points with a picture of a hot guy.


You should stick around, welcome to JuB

 

[RDaniel]

Yes, indeedy.

 

[72-Jay]

What if you do not have inner or outer beauty...but aren't totally ugly either?

 

[EuroSoccer]

Bla Bla Bla.........

Is that you? (I suspect not)
Cause that would be an A+++ to me, not a B

Also if someone looks like that, I don't give a shit if he is braindead..............
Though a less attractive guy can easily grab my attention if he is confident and makes me laugh (but he has to be really crazy)

 

[eastofeden]

I am sure the word "shallow" will come up about me as a result of this post, but truth can be brutal. I live near the beach. The currency of the beach is physical appearance. Looks wise on a scale from "A" to "F," I am about a "B." Looks wise, I know what I can get in the sack, and what I can't. Nothing irritates me more in a bar than a "C" who will not leave me alone. We are all adults, and we should be realistic about what we can get. If you are a "C" and want an "A" head down to the hustlers and buy it. You will save time, avoid a lot of pain, and get what you want.

Now, when I am not cruising, and was out shopping for a partner, my set of standards were completely different, looks and sexual activity were lower down the laddar. My priorities boiled down to someone I could enjoy from day to day. I wanted someone I can count on when I get older. I have been ten years with the same guy, and could not be happier. As it turned out he is also a "B." However, he is a caregiver for developmentally disabled people by career choice. When you spend as much time with the developmentally disabled as we do, your whole perspective comes into focus. However, this does not mean I won't go home with a guy bercause I like the face and basket. Say what you will, but my perspective is realistic, and I feel sorry for those who do not have their priorities in line. The bars are filled with guys who age alone unhappily. If you are realistic, and understand your own limitations honestly, you can win the marriage game.

That is one perspective. It may be realistic...for you. You do understand that different people may have different priorities and there is no need for you to feel "sorry for them". I can say with complete honesty that I have never had sex with a man because of his face or his basket...and I was a slut once upon a time.

That guy in the picture...I would sleep with a woman first...and I am gay. He is a complete turn off to me. Is he an "A" or a *B* in your mind?

...and I "won" the "marriage game"..... 27 years.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

I am sure the word "shallow" will come up about me as a result of this post, but truth can be brutal. I live near the beach. The currency of the beach is physical appearance. Looks wise on a scale from "A" to "F," I am about a "B." Looks wise, I know what I can get in the sack, and what I can't. Nothing irritates me more in a bar than a "C" who will not leave me alone. We are all adults, and we should be realistic about what we can get. If you are a "C" and want an "A" head down to the hustlers and buy it. You will save time, avoid a lot of pain, and get what you want.


Now, when I am not cruising, and was out shopping for a partner, my set of standards were completely different, looks and sexual activity were lower down the laddar. My priorities boiled down to someone I could enjoy from day to day. I wanted someone I can count on when I get older. I have been ten years with the same guy, and could not be happier. As it turned out he is also a "B." However, he is a caregiver for developmentally disabled people by career choice. When you spend as much time with the developmentally disabled as we do, your whole perspective comes into focus. However, this does not mean I won't go home with a guy bercause I like the face and basket. Say what you will, but my perspective is realistic, and I feel sorry for those who do not have their priorities in line. The bars are filled with guys who age alone unhappily. If you are realistic, and understand your own limitations honestly, you can win the marriage game.

Is it just me or does your statement above the picture contradict what you write below it???

 

[windsors]

My vote is YES!

 

[Adrock-JD]

Interesting, so is it an even bonus when people with poor character have a great ass, big boobs, killer eyes, nice biceps, ect ect?

Or does personality improve looks more than looks improve personality?

It's in the eye of the beer holder.

I think it's subjective. All depends on a lot of other factors involved.

 

[FlimFlam]

For most people it doesn't. Lets just be honest. Most people I've come across would drop everything for a hot guy no matter how bad his personality is.
Yea they'll talk about how they would never date or sleep with him because he's a d-bag, but let the guy show some interest and that all goes out the window.

But of there is a guy with an amazing personality but not the most attractive face and body, he's going to have a hard time getting laid and finding a date.

 

[Milker]

I am sure the word "shallow" will come up about me as a result of this post, but truth can be brutal. I live near the beach. The currency of the beach is physical appearance. Looks wise on a scale from "A" to "F," I am about a "B." Looks wise, I know what I can get in the sack, and what I can't. Nothing irritates me more in a bar than a "C" who will not leave me alone. We are all adults, and we should be realistic about what we can get. If you are a "C" and want an "A" head down to the hustlers and buy it. You will save time, avoid a lot of pain, and get what you want.

Now, when I am not cruising, and was out shopping for a partner, my set of standards were completely different, looks and sexual activity were lower down the laddar. My priorities boiled down to someone I could enjoy from day to day. I wanted someone I can count on when I get older. I have been ten years with the same guy, and could not be happier. As it turned out he is also a "B." However, he is a caregiver for developmentally disabled people by career choice. When you spend as much time with the developmentally disabled as we do, your whole perspective comes into focus. However, this does not mean I won't go home with a guy bercause I like the face and basket. Say what you will, but my perspective is realistic, and I feel sorry for those who do not have their priorities in line. The bars are filled with guys who age alone unhappily. If you are realistic, and understand your own limitations honestly, you can win the marriage game.

Quite a response to this pic! No not me, but I agree A+++. Total package!!!

I had to work today, so I stopped at a grocery in Westwood, near UCLA, and saw a guy comparable to the one in this pic. Later in the store, I saw a guy that nature had definitely cheated in the looks department. I mean a total make over could have done little.

Then I passed the good looking guy again, and decided to focus. Out here we have a lot of actors. I mean these guys take classes in how to pose in a provocative way. When you have lived here for a while you learn to how to trick the posers. I mean other than a one night stand, who wants to be with someone so obsessed with their looks and cool that they must manufacture it. Narcissism might be fun in the sack one time, but it does get old fast.

As I have a life partner, I am not really shopping, but I have never been one to turn down an opportunity. At the same time buying a guy like this model down on Santa Monica Blvd., could be yours for $50 or $100. If all you want is pretty boy sex, get over your ego, and buy it. What do you think it costs to sit in a bar drinking for hours hoping you will nail a guy like this?

 

[DigitalFudge]

But of there is a guy with an amazing personality but not the most attractive face and body, he's going to have a hard time getting laid and finding a date.

Agreed


At the end of the day there are plenty of people were darling personalities.


Wonder if their dick game is so "darling" to match them.

 

[Saybrooke]