Does it gross you out?

[Rooster]

I'm a hairy guy and something I find unfortunate is that most people seem to find back and shoulder hair to be unattractive. I'm curious how big a deal it is.

As such, I have a few questions for you JUB folk and I hope you will answer honestly...

-Would you date someone with a hairy back/shoulders?

=If so, would you insist that they shave or otherwise remove their back/shoulder hair? If not, then would shaving even make a difference in whether or not you would date them?

-On a scale from 1 to 10, how uncomfortable does back/shoulder hair make you? (1 being grossed out and 10 being just fine with it)

-Do you believe that guys with hairy back/shoulders should remove that hair before going to a public beach, pool, etc.?

-If you were in a long term relationship with a guy who started growing back or shoulder hair (which does sometimes happen when guys get older) would that affect your relationship with them?



And a few questions for the hairy JUB folk.

Do you feel ashamed of your body hair?

Are you contemplating the expensive hair removal treatments, like laser and electrolysis?

Has your body hair affected your dating or sex life?

 

[Scooter]

I'd happily go out with a gorilla. I love body hair everywhere...!

 

[vidarr]

The only time I would be grossed out is if he didn't wash properly down there...
But I find hairy guys very attractive and I'm pretty hairy myself.

So with that said, I would not change my looks to suit anyone else. If my body grosses someone out then we weren't meant to be together in the first place.

 

[8tomtoms8]

No, it doesn't gross me out. The first guy I had a real crush on had a great hairy chest and some hair on his shoulders. I thought he was sexy as hell. For me it is more the overall body type. I like in shape, swimmers build type guys. If I find a fellow like that with some body hair I'm in heaven. The typical "bear" type guy I'm not attracted to. Overweight, out of shape men do nothing for me regardless of hair.

I have a little hair on my back and shoulders and my boyfriend of five years loves it. And to answer your question, I would never not date a guy because of the amount of body hair he had.

 

[genthree]

I don't like back/shoulder hair, I think a guy should not shave, I like au natural. (I do like hair) Hairy guys should not stress though because God , in her infinite wisdom, has provided you with plenty of admirers.
It is the same with long, short, cut, uncut etc., my mate says I have got ducks disease - it does not show up on my score card though.

 

[ayesinwi]

Would you date someone with a hairy back/shoulders?

I may be atypical, but it depends on their body type/shape and personality.

If so, would you insist that they shave or otherwise remove their back/shoulder hair?

I think that would make me an asshole.

If not, then would shaving even make a difference in whether or not you would date them?

Yes, I do prefer smooth guys so it would be a plus.

On a scale from 1 to 10, how uncomfortable does back/shoulder hair make you? (1 being grossed out and 10 being just fine with it)

4

Do you believe that guys with hairy back/shoulders should remove that hair before going to a public beach, pool, etc.?

That would depend on if I ever told the world about my sexuality. I wouldn't be caught dead telling a friend who just showed up to the beach that he needed to shave himself unless I was just kidding, or we were enjoying an insulting conversation with some back and forth banter.

If you were in a long term relationship with a guy who started growing back or shoulder hair (which does sometimes happen when guys get older) would that affect your relationship with them?

I don't know, I haven't had a "relationship" with a guy except over the internet. All of my experiences with men have been either just friendships with them not knowing, or NSA sex. I wouldn't mind having a Fw/B long term though, although I'd still like to keep it discreet.

Do you feel ashamed of your body hair?

I have shaved my stomach, chest, genitalia, and tried to buzz the hair on my ass before. I'm not ashamed of it, it's just not something I show off.

Are you contemplating the expensive hair removal treatments, like laser and electrolysis?

I have thought about it, but not seriously because I don't have the cash. Waxing is more probable.

Has your body hair affected your dating or sex life?

No, but I've had more sex with women. But I do think I remember a guy commenting on it once, but he was like me, not very gay on the kinsey scale, in fact I think he wound up moving a couple of states away to be with an older woman.


Hope this helps!
Also, if there is something in there that you don't like hearing, just remember it's my personal opinion and may not accurately reflect the majority.

 

[bankside]

I like hairy guys, though not extremely so.

I'm not into "insisting" that my guy trims his body hair one way or the other, but I do have preferences. I love hairy chests and legs. I like smooth shoulders, upper arms, back, nape of the neck.

Both my guy and I will just get rid of a few out of place hairs with tweezers. We'd use an electric razor once in a while to trim up the nape of the neck between haircuts. If I was an extremely hairy guy, I'm sure I would have my back waxed or lasered or something.

Some guys think of that as an attack on their natural hairiness or undermining their masculinity or something, but I don't see the drama. To me it is just like removing unwanted nose hairs. If you don't want them there, get rid of them.

Is it a deal-breaker though? No. If my guy was lost in the woods and finally the rescue crew found him after 10 days without a razor or scissors, I would hardly look at his nose hairs poking out and say "EWWW!!! Get away from me!!!"

 

[Passels]

-Would you date someone with a hairy back/shoulders?

Sure.

=If so, would you insist that they shave or otherwise remove their back/shoulder hair? If not, then would shaving even make a difference in whether or not you would date them?

I wouldn't insist. Shaving the back/shoulders would up the attractiveness for me though. I love chest hair and leg hair, but I don't find hairy backs or shoulders attractive.

-On a scale from 1 to 10, how uncomfortable does back/shoulder hair make you? (1 being grossed out and 10 being just fine with it)

Depends on the hairiness, but probably a 5.

--Do you believe that guys with hairy back/shoulders should remove that hair before going to a public beach, pool, etc.?

Who am I to tell people what they should shave? I certainly wouldn't find it attractive, but it's none of my business.

-If you were in a long term relationship with a guy who started growing back or shoulder hair (which does sometimes happen when guys get older) would that affect your relationship with them?

No. It would take a pretty drastic physical change to affect a long-term relationship with me.

 

[Adhesion]

I'd prefer it if the back hair was shaved (also, shaved balls ftw) but I don't think I'd ever actually ask or demand a partner shave.

Tell you what, I'll shave my balls for you if you don't shave yours for me.

(I <3 hairy guys)

 

[anchihiro]

Nope don't have a problem with hairy guys. I think hairy is sexy, even if they have back hair, so if you want to change, then change for you not for another.

It's society/media pushing an individual view that we should all be attracted to the same thing, hairlessness.

Smooth is great too and so is inbetween, some people really shouldn't be so picky. x

 

[Prestobesto]

Lots of people are turned on by body hair. It's a masculine trait.

But if you're going to embrace it as masculinity, I think it's also important in good shape. You don't have to be an adonis, but to exercise and be strong is important in my mind to pull off being super hairy.

Though I'm sure other members will see this as terribly arbitrary.

 

[Gayguy41]

There are people who will swear that only one or the other is attractive. I happen to like both. I love me a nice smooth guy, but at the same time I would have no qualms cuddling up with a hairy stud.

Bottom line is do what makes you feel comfortable, and if anyone doesn't like you b/c you have (or don't) have hair your better off without them.