Several things that have already been said:
1. Don't overlook the foreplay. Kissing, nipple play, kisses on the neck and ear, following the happy trail down to the cock and balls....all help arouse a person and make the actual sex so much better. Learn all the sensitive points of your lover and he should you: the taint, balls, thighs, rimming, area around the cock base with the tongue.
2. Lube and plenty of it both on your hole and on his dick. Lube application can be part of the foreplay with him using his finger to gently enter you and play with the rim and prostate area. Gentle....no need to ram the finger like a plunger. If he knows the sensitive areas of the hole, you can be pretty worked up and ready for entry/relaxed.
3. Gentle entry. Porn stars ram it in but they have usually been "warmed up" prior to doing so. Gently pushing the head into the hole and giving it time to open up makes pain little if any. Once in, just relax and allow it to adjust.
4. Don't ram, bam and scram. Enjoy, slow, and loving.
5. My husband is quite large and sometimes we've added poppers to our event. I have to admit there are times I've begged him to slide it in (and I usually top). It's all in what leads up to it.....
6. It may sometimes hurt but sometimes it is because the prostate is being overstimulated. Sometimes it may be you are tense or sometimes you may have just bottomed too much and are sore.....
1. Don't overlook the foreplay. Kissing, nipple play, kisses on the neck and ear, following the happy trail down to the cock and balls....all help arouse a person and make the actual sex so much better. Learn all the sensitive points of your lover and he should you: the taint, balls, thighs, rimming, area around the cock base with the tongue.
2. Lube and plenty of it both on your hole and on his dick. Lube application can be part of the foreplay with him using his finger to gently enter you and play with the rim and prostate area. Gentle....no need to ram the finger like a plunger. If he knows the sensitive areas of the hole, you can be pretty worked up and ready for entry/relaxed.
3. Gentle entry. Porn stars ram it in but they have usually been "warmed up" prior to doing so. Gently pushing the head into the hole and giving it time to open up makes pain little if any. Once in, just relax and allow it to adjust.
4. Don't ram, bam and scram. Enjoy, slow, and loving.
5. My husband is quite large and sometimes we've added poppers to our event. I have to admit there are times I've begged him to slide it in (and I usually top). It's all in what leads up to it.....
6. It may sometimes hurt but sometimes it is because the prostate is being overstimulated. Sometimes it may be you are tense or sometimes you may have just bottomed too much and are sore.....
