Does the real thing hurt more?

[JesseBoy]

I'm 18 and I'm a beginner when it comes to booty play.

I got a couple of toys last month. One was a 5 inch butt plug and the other was an 8x6 Dildo

The butt plug was definitely easy for me to take, but to get the 8x6 one in was some sort of achievement for me xD

It looked so damn big when I first opened the box that I was terrified to sit on it.

Anyway, after I finally took 8 inches "balls deep" (the toy does indeed have balls), I found that it didn't hurt at all. I've heard that it's supposed to hurt like @%#k, but I didn't experience any pain at all; if anything it felt a little funny.

Would a real 8x6'er hurt more? To be fair I just insert it a few times before leaving it in for awhile, so it's not like I can thrust super fast.

and would I pretty much be good to go with taking any cock in me if I can handle an 8x6?

 

[evanrick]

yeah that sounds fair but ive found that "targeted" stimulation is sometimes more important than size or length. something that big is appealing visually but something that fits and hits feels much better for me...

 

[mbamike]

No, the real thing does not hurt more in my experience. In fact, there is minimum discomfort when the top properly prepares the bottom by fingering, rimming, and stretching the bottom's hole before inserting his cock into him. The hole will acclimate to the size of the cock.

 

[Derob68]

What is the rush to handle bigger and bigger? There's alot of variety in dildos without having to constantly use bigger and bigger ones. I think that you should resist the temptation to believe all the porn you see. There really aren't that many giant men out there that you need to "prepare" for.

 

[JesseBoy]

I just got the 8x6 one because the butt plug really was too simple to take.

I don't want a gigantic 14 inch monster, but I thought 8 inches would be a good size since I don't really think many guys are actually bigger than that.

The only thing I'm on the look out for now is thicker; I had the feeling I need something thicker than the 8x6 =D

 

[JesseBoy]

I use some KY lube that I got at CVS; is that bad? I made sure it was water based.

I just have two toys in mind and I'll pretty much done; one's called the Master and is 12 inches and the other one is a butt plug that's 3 inches in diameter and 9 inches long. I'll probably get "The Master" because I'd enjoy something more penis-shaped =D

 

[KaraBulut]

8x6 penises are not very common. If you can take a toy that size without pain, the real thing should be a breeze.

One thing that is different is that some tops are more in tune with the guys they're fucking. You may find that a lot of guys your age want to dive in on the first thrust. When you're getting fucked by someone new, speak up and tell them to slow down or better yet, chose a position like cowboy or reverse cowboy where you're more in control.

Happy fucking.

 

[JesseBoy]

Yeah, as much as I like my guys dominant, I don't plan on letting them try to shove it in there.

I'd like to be a bit "open" before I let them start thrusting like there's no tomorrow; I think they'd listen =D

 

[JesseBoy]

I've been using the KY and I've barely used half, but I've gotten my toys in about 30 times, so I think it works pretty well. =D

I do have a play rape fantasy; I wonder how much that would hurt if he just rams it in there D=

 

[mbamike]

I do have a play rape fantasy; I wonder how much that would hurt if he just rams it in there D=

It will hurt like a muther fucker!

Rape is not about love, intimacy, or any of the good things associated with sex. It is about control, anger, arrogance, and stealing without any regard for the other person. Just try to quickly ram one of your dildoes up your ass without any lube. You will understand how much pain there is.

 

[JesseBoy]

I actually did ram the 5 inch plug into my hole without any lube; I was too cheap to spend 10 dollars at first.

I do find control to be an attractive feature D=

 

[fed1983]

I had sex a few times with my ex, barebacking and no lube, and worked great, but of course he went there really slow, he wasn't really intending to do that at first, but we started making out, and then that happened naturally, didn't hurt at all.

Of course, you can only do it with someone you trust and is loyal to you and vice/versa.

I'm not sure how it'd work with a condom and no lube, maybe some of those condoms that have no lube would work fine. But maybe if you wanna try that fantasy out, first stimulate your hole yourself with lube before starting to role play.

Enjoy sex when you have the chance!

 

[Bensen]

My first time: Insertion wasn’t really a problem but I found the fast thrusting very very uncomfortable. Like so uncomfortable I almost felt like throwing up. They key is no take it SLOW (after all it’s only your first time) and use plenty of lube. You’ll hear some people say they like the friction associated with little or no lubrication, but this is very unwise. No matter how good getting rammed with little lubrication may feel, it is very easy to do some nasty damage to your very tender insides.

Be safe.

 

[headrushboy]

I had a condom break when a guy topped me and we had no lube.

Good thing he noticed and pulled out before going full force on me