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Doing it in the dark

zgbear

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Hello, all. I wanted to ask the community if it is considered strange or questionable if two guys always had sex in the dark. I've been with my BF for a few months and everytime he invites me over - we have sex in his room with all of the lights turned off each and every time. I've been meaning to ask him why we never see each other with our clothes off, but I wasn't sure how to approach him about it. Should I be concerned about this situation or just keep the relationship going without question?:confused:
 
zgbear said:
Hello, all. I wanted to ask the community if it is considered strange or questionable if two guys always had sex in the dark. I've been with my BF for a few months and everytime he invites me over - we have sex in his room with all of the lights turned off each and every time. I've been meaning to ask him why we never see each other with our clothes off, but I wasn't sure how to approach him about it. Should I be concerned about this situation or just keep the relationship going without question?:confused:
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I like it like a pornstar, in the bright lights! i truthfully don't love the idea of someone seeing any wobbly bits i might have but i like to see everything on him/her so why not let them have the privy of seeing me. you should address the issues. if he has any insecurities and your a decent guy, you will except them for what they are. insecurities will only separate the two of you from being truly happy. spice it up and do it in an unusual place so he cant turn the lights off (car, in the woods, get creative).
 
Interesting point. I like seeing the guy as we more and more intimate with each other. Only time it has been in the dark is when we wake up in the middle of the night. I like seeing my partner's body. Totally agree with Travisevian about having dim lights or candles. It is so romantic and exciting.

Would definitely discuss the darkness with me partner.
 
I generally like it dark for sex, myself. But that's just me.

If you haven't brought it up, bring it up. Better yet, bring a couple candles (and holders!) over to his place, and ask if you can set them up before you go at it. Then it'll seem less like a criticism. :)

Lex
 
My bf and I really don't care about lighting or locations. It is more about what are mood is but it is never in the totally dark. We always have at least a dim light to allow us to see each other and enjoy each other.
 
As you become more comfortable with eachother perhaps you could introduce some candles for ambience. It's a start and then the lights will come on and in time you'll be doing it on the kitchen floor on a Sunday afternoon beside the patio doors

Baby steps...
 
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