Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

[princefeet]

Hey, im a 22 yr old bi dom from the UK

I love the whole younger lad dominating an older man!
love having my body massaged, licked, kissed... my feet being worshiped is a big thing for me, as for the older guy!

as a dom i feel all i need to do is sit back, relax and get worshiped! sometimes watchin tv, playin xbox, chatin online while having my feet massaged and sucked on... but i do enjoy being tad more forceful and kinky with older guys too!

I know one guy 44 who ive met a few times who loves being under my feet, nothing more nothing less, he just loves the fact he can get his hands (and tounge) on a young pair of feet

and I know anouther man, hes 36, and is a complete gimp he loves being humilated, laughed at, verbally abused, pushed around, tied up, and just generally groveling at my feet... which i also find hot. I am comfortable financially and do not need older guys to give me money and spoil me, HOWEVER the 36 yr old loves buying me things, from games, to clothes and even a holiday once... which also turns me on, that an older man would spend money on me just to get a chance to serve me!

For me I love the idea that an older guy will do anything to worship me, and be my slave! i enjoy younger guys n girls aswell... but tend to be kinkier with older "pervs"

Just thought i would share!

Princefeet

 

[Beanstalk]

Thank you, Princefeet! I was hoping to hear from guys like you! I wish I could find a few guys like you closer to me. I would be very happy to do whatever it is you enjoy -- whatever it takes in order to enjoy some contact with a young man who wants an older man; but, as for me it is not abuse that I enjoy, it is just the chance to give love and pleasure to a younger guy who enjoys it and wants it.

Oh, yes! Sit back, relax, and let me worship you and kiss your feet -- that part suits me just fine. I sure wish there were more guys like you that would let an older man serve him.

To me, it just seems that the "natural" thing is for the older man to serve the younger man! I don't really understand why it is almost always expected to be the other way around. Of course "sexually desirable" is entirely a subjective concept, but I have always thought that Youth was a pretty big component of what it means to be sexually desirable. So if some hot and beautiful young man will let me love him, there isn't much I wouldn't be willing to do to express my appreciation and joy for the chance to get some contact with his fresh young body.

One more thing -- it is not only the age reversal that arouses me (older man serving younger man), but it also seems that it is the bigger and taller and heavier men that are dominant, while the short, slender ones are usually submissive. But, as for me, I not only love the younger men, but I even especially favor the ones with short, small, slender bodies, and even small cocks! Give me a smooth, young, 100 lb twink, and I am ready and eager to grovel at his feet and serve him in any way he can think of that will give him pleasure!

Step right up! Please take a number; but the youngest, shortest, and slimmest (with smooth, effeminate bodies, and even long hair) please step up to the head of the line. No limit -- in fact, every time you return for more I will be even more excited to see you again, and will try to give you even more pleasure than the last time!

 

[careandrespect]

Beanstalk I agree with you all the way. It is all based upon respect and from that mutual enjoyment can certainly develop.

 

[tomhrdhat]

When i have been with gay men, they all seem more inclined to be submissive at any age. Would be nice to find my equal.

 

[GamerBear]

I think I saw a porno with two skinny twinks having sex with an older heavy hairy bearish looking guy. They were fucking him and shoving their dicks down his throat he was enjoying every moment of it.

It's videos like that which turn me on the most seeing an older man give himself so the younger guy or guys can satisfy their needs.

Don't see stuff like that now a days especially with younger and older videos. A recent one I saw was of an older guy fucking the younger dude it was hot, but after a while you kind of try to look for the opposite positions but never successful at finding such videos.

 

[Beanstalk]

Well, if you do find such videos, post a link!

 

[subobj]

I'm pretty much a sub and into younger guys; never thought the two worlds could come together, but it would be amazingly hot if they did.

 

[careandrespect]

Just a thought:

Sometimes I wonder if younger guys are apprehensive about approaching an "older" guy (30's or 40's) and discussing the possibility of beginning a relationship.

Sometimes I feel as if though old guys look and go with older guys and the younger ones stay with their own type.

Any opinions?

 

[ohioguy7711]

i actually had a six month relationship with a Dom who was 17 years younger than me. i was 42 and he was 25. He was not my usual type (small stature and build, sort of fem, age, etc). We met in a bar and started chatting while having a beer. It was a wonderful relationship that ended only because of real life logistics (new jobs in different cities).

Our relationship took some fun turns. When we were out in the local leather bar, most assumed he was the sub because of his age and size. That always got me in trouble (he felt i was not showing my "position" well enough). It was an interesting change of rolls as i could mentor him in one moment, and be getting the belt in the next. One moment giving career advice, the next taking face fucking that made my jaw hurt for days!

Overall, he was a beautiful man who i enjoyed my time with and the age difference just added a new level of fun.

I currently serve, part time and non sexually, a man who is 12 years younger than me and that is fun too.

 

[careandrespect]

Thank you ohioguy7711 for your comments. Sometimes I feel kind of funny opening up and discussing this topic. I am glad that this thread is active and many JUB members contribute.

Thanks again for your contribution.

 

[GamerBear]

Just a thought:

Sometimes I wonder if younger guys are apprehensive about approaching an "older" guy (30's or 40's) and discussing the possibility of beginning a relationship.

Sometimes I feel as if though old guys look and go with older guys and the younger ones stay with their own type.

Any opinions?

Society sucks, so younger guys are probably more afraid to approach older men because they are afraid of what people will think if he starts dating or starting a relationship with an older guy.

Some don't really care so they get with an older guy, but when I see most older men I'm attracted to, they seem kind of dominant so that would mean the relationship would make me submissive.

 

[careandrespect]

Society sucks, so younger guys are probably more afraid to approach older men because they are afraid of what people will think if he starts dating or starting a relationship with an older guy.

Some don't really care so they get with an older guy, but when I see most older men I'm attracted to, they seem kind of dominant so that would mean the relationship would make me submissive.

Hi GameBear:

A lot of what you say has so much truth in it. For myself, what it all boils down to is if two people of legal age (that is very important) are attracted to each other and they enjoy each other's company that should be it.

However, as you have said in your comment society does not make things easy or simple. A good example would be if a man in his early 40's had a companion who was 18 or 19 most would consider him perverted for socializing with someone that young.

In terms of the dom/sub issue that is secondary. The relationship and the close bonding that can take place comes first.

Again, thanks so much for your words of wisdom they carry a great deal of truth.

 

[GamerBear]

Hi GameBear:

A lot of what you say has so much truth in it. For myself, what it all boils down to is if two people of legal age (that is very important) are attracted to each other and they enjoy each other's company that should be it.

However, as you have said in your comment society does not make things easy or simple. A good example would be if a man in his early 40's had a companion who was 18 or 19 most would consider him perverted for socializing with someone that young.

In terms of the dom/sub issue that is secondary. The relationship and the close bonding that can take place comes first.

Again, thanks so much for your words of wisdom they carry a great deal of truth.

Thank you for the great post.

I am not sure if I pointed out already, that sometimes older men usually pay younger guys to have sex with them. I can't believe that young guys do that kind of shit it's like a huge insult to young guys who do enjoy the company of older men and don't want to have to accept money to be an older man's friend.

Most of my friends are older than me and are over 30+ years old. I don't understand why you see these shallow young gay men who go and say how disgusting it is to be with an older man I know when a person ages they can't be that skinny little young twink forever.

They will get wrinkles, their cock will shrivel up and have a hard time staying hard, they will gain a little weight and have a hard time trying to get rid of it as compared to guys who can never gain weight at all. I'm always hearing older men say when you get older you tend to not care anymore about your own physical appearance but then when they chase after younger guys they get nothing but the silent treatment from them.

What's the point of this post? Well in the end an old man shouldn't have to use money to bribe a younger guy to have sex with you or be your friend, money can't buy you happiness and if you have to pay for a younger guy for sex then maybe you're after the wrong guys...

 

[careandrespect]

Hi GamerBear:

Thank you too for keeping this thread alive. When I found it a while back I was so grateful because it provided me with the opportunity to communicate with others who are on the same page as myself.

You speak so much truth.

First, I agree with you about your comment about older guys paying younger guys for companionship and other things. I agree with the fact that things such as this can lead many people to make false assumptions when they see an older guy with a younger one. We, no matter what our age should never have to pay someone else for companionship.

Money can't buy love. I know for myself I would not want to pay someone to be my "friend". I would rather go solo instead.

Outside of this the one thing which I really belive can be obtained from such a relationship is the opportunity to learn from each other and share each others stories. With this the things which can develop are being comfortable and willing to show each other true affection. The greatest reward

Take care.

 

[Beanstalk]

This thing about paying money is insidious. I have never paid for sex -- for me, the pleasure comes from giving pleasure to my partner, so if he only wants my money, there is nothing whatsoever of interest for me.

But, on the other hand, there are so many beautiful young men out there, and so many men will offer them money, so after a while they just get used to it and expect it.

It is like the street kids here: I live in the tropics in Southeast Asia, and everyone says not to give money to the little kids on the beach who are "selling bracelets" or something to earn money. Giving money to these kids just keeps them on the beach hustling money instead of going to school.

But the problem is that the kid's father might earn $3 a day for a 10 hour day at hard labor, yet a little boy of 6 or 8 might make $15 on a good day at the beach, just chatting up the friendly tourists (not even any sex -- that's a whole different issue - these kids are definitely available for sex, but I don't think it happens much -- I certainly don't go there).

It's the easy money that skews the picture. After a while, when a boy of 18 finds that every man who goes with him is happy to pay him lots of money, buy him a $400 cell phone or a laptop computer, then he just gets spoiled and expects every man to pay that way, and the prettier the boy, the more they expect it.

But I also want to comment on old men aging! For some reason, I don't seem to age much (I think it is because I take care of my health, and don't take pharmaceutical drugs). While "fully mature," most people think I am 20 years younger than I am. I am still relatively slender, and my skin is still smooth. I ride a bicycle all the time for the exercise. Yet I am constantly looking at some young man's profile where he is looking for a man who is bald and fat and old looking. I have been rejected by young men who prefer older guys because I don't look old enough!

I try so hard to keep in shape, and so it is depressing to see how many young guys are looking for a man who is overweight. I like my boys slender! What's this fascination with overweight older men??

It is as bad as all these wonderful young men who only want to find "an aggressive top daddy who will fuck them silly." Sweet young men don't seem to have any interest in finding a man who just wants to give them love.

But no one ever said it was easy loving young guys!

 

[GamerBear]

@Beanstalk

I feel that young guys who might be thin and skinny might want the opposite, opposites attract. So if you find a really skinny twink chances are he might not be attracted to guys who look like him (thin) and might go for the older men who might fit the description of their opposite (bald or overweight).

Take me for example, I'm young and overweight (over 200lbs) there is a bigger chance I will probably not be attractive to most older men like yourself. But everyone has their standards and preferences so finding a guy might be a bit difficult especially if that opposites attract thing is true for most guys out there.

My boyfriend is also overweight but older, I lost a lot of weight but I am sure it would never be enough for most people with higher standards in men, but I'm happy and dedicated to my boyfriend. You just gotta keep looking, and never change your appearance for ANYONE especially if it seems hopeless finding a young guy who will like you for your physical appearance.

Being healthy is definitely a plus but people who exercise and exercise don't usually have the chance of looking 20 years younger, it all comes down to family genes if you are lucky you might look 20 years younger like another JUB member who is in his 60's and yet he looks 39 years old.

@careandrespect

This quote from you really struck a nerve cause when you said this, it makes me feel that a lot of JUB members here think like this or even try to bring up false assumption about these kinds of relationships.

I agree with the fact that things such as this can lead many people to make false assumptions when they see an older guy with a younger one.

Whenever you mention older / younger relationships members will post reasons like the only reason why a younger guy would be with an older man is for the money they NEVER want to see any more possibility that maybe the younger guy might be more comfortable being with older men cause let's face it, guys our age (younger) are very immature and very little do you see a younger guy who is mature for his age. Same goes for older men who happen to be immature.

I've always felt I could NEVER relate to guys my age they were always about looking pretty, looking young, attracting guys for sex. Give me an older man that can share his experiences with me and I'll be fine. Guys my age hardly experience life of sex, fetishes and other sexual fantasies that makes them any more knowledgeable than an older man whose experienced 40 years of sex and fetishes. I can't really say I'm a professional at experiencing sex but at least I can enjoy hearing them from older men and getting turned on by it.

I'm a writer with my spare time I write stories about younger and older guys, most of the time these kinds of stories never really score much interest so they are left not being read and enjoyed by men who enjoy reading this kind of genre of stories. I guess in time when people are more accepting they will give it a chance.

Speaking of the whole submissive / dominant thing, I've been trying to figure out stories with this, I wrote a story about this and someone told me I got it all wrong so I always tried to learn how it feels and how it is to play the dominant role as a younger guy and having the older one being submissive to my demands and wants.

 

[careandrespect]

Hello GamerBear:

I am sorry if I may have caused a misunderstanding. Sometimes when I write about this topic it can be very difficult to put my true feelings into words.

I agree there are a lot of younger and older guys out there who can be very immature. Going out with someone like this can be a real drag.

So, here I go I will try to do my best to put my true feelings into words about how I feel about this topic.

I don't see anything wrong with a younger and older guy being together. For myself I think it can be really neat. I try my best to never make false assumptions about two people when I see them.

I agree, the most important thing that can make a relationship strong and lasting is how do the two people feel about each other. If a younger guy who is honest with himself and an older guy who enjoys the company of the younger one and they get along and neither one is out to take advantage of the other one I think we have a perfect couple.

You have also sparked my interest. You mentioned that you write stories. I am interested in taking a look at some of them. Do you publish them or have them on JUB?

Let me know. Drop me a PM if you wish.

Hi Beanstalk:

I would like to thank you once again for starting this thread. It really helps me get some of my feeling out and I also feel very comfortable talking to both you and GamerBear about this topic. Yes, the issue of money and material goods can be a very evil thing especially when you are looking at an older guy who makes a lot and feels as if though he can approach a younger guy and offer him these things for a few minutes of pleasure. Sad, sad, sad

I also agree, the ultimate thing I think we are both looking for is a relationship in with a younger and older guy feel comfortable with each other and are willing to share their expressions of affection for each other in a way that is most pleasing to the other partner.

I hope all of this makes sense.

 

[southcoastlad]

Beanstalk, I am totally with you. I want a younger guy to make love to me, gently take charge, and mild domination, not this verbal aggressive stuff. My dream scenario is to be tied to a bed by a teen or twink, blindfolded, then he tongues and licks and kisses me all over, with me never knowing where he going to go next. Sweet torture. I don't who is dominating whom there but it works for me.

 

[careandrespect]

Hi southcoastlad:

Your description is exactly what we are talking about in this thread. Things like this can produce a lot of fun too.

I also say you are right on track when you comment about the verbal aggressive stuff. I think it can be a real turn off.

Again, I am with you southcoastlad 100%.

 

[GamerBear]

Hello GamerBear:

I am sorry if I may have caused a misunderstanding. Sometimes when I write about this topic it can be very difficult to put my true feelings into words.

I agree there are a lot of younger and older guys out there who can be very immature. Going out with someone like this can be a real drag.

So, here I go I will try to do my best to put my true feelings into words about how I feel about this topic.

I don't see anything wrong with a younger and older guy being together. For myself I think it can be really neat. I try my best to never make false assumptions about two people when I see them.

I agree, the most important thing that can make a relationship strong and lasting is how do the two people feel about each other. If a younger guy who is honest with himself and an older guy who enjoys the company of the younger one and they get along and neither one is out to take advantage of the other one I think we have a perfect couple.

You have also sparked my interest. You mentioned that you write stories. I am interested in taking a look at some of them. Do you publish them or have them on JUB?

Let me know. Drop me a PM if you wish.

Well this was my first attempt at writing a story like this, I still need to experience the whole dominant / submissive, this is more of a story about three guys trying to have sex with an older 38 year old man. Sounds more like a rape story but the older man kind of stops and is submissive to their demands and joins in.

I only wrote four chapters but figured the scenario of chapter four fits the type of genre of sub / dom.

Hopefully you enjoy.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showpost.php?p=5592385&postcount=4