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Don know what to do with him ???(aka help)

backpacker

backpacker

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He sounds like a closet-case who wants to experiment to me. But then again, that could just be your wishful thinking influencing your post. I would definitely let him make the first move, but I wouldn't turn him down if he does make the move. Normally I'm dead set against cheating, but in this case you will probably be doing his gf a favor if he accepts his sexuality before getting married.

By the way, have you considered moving to another country where you can be out? I think it will be hard for you to be happy in the environment you are in now.
 
STOP GOING FOR THE STRAIGHT GUYS! Goodness people! You can do a lot better! Take a vacation to a more 'gay friendly' country and have fun! Do something! Just stop messing around with straight guys.

I don't care if he is deeply closeted, let him figure that crap out on his own and stop putting yourself in the position to be hurt by him!
 
Uhmm... I don't get where the "I wanna have sex with you" part is... o_o

But uhm, no, refuse the sex.
 
Dude,

Stop wasting your (and his) time and move on.

You had taken care of him and his dick upon his suggestion to do so and he came back to you with some sort of accusation? Like in, 'he blamed you...'

I have not got a thing against anyone, let alone str8 dudes. But a guy, who does not know, how to stand by his word and his action is simply too lame to be any good to anyone.

Dump him.

SC
 
Run. Fast. Now.

Your life is too short to be messing around with guys who send you mixed signals or can't figure themselves out.
 
Let me add to my previous advice as I think I gave too much encouragement to getting involved with him. If you were in a country where people are openly gay, my advice would be to stay away from this guy and seek out someone who is available and not going to play games. I guess the reason for my advice was that you said being gay in your country is like death. Under those conditions, I assume that most gay guys are deeply in the closet and therefore you don't have many options available other than moving. I honestly don't know the right thing to do. Based on the fact that he initiated things the first time and seems to be doing that again (assuming he actually makes it sexual), I think he's in the closet and not straight. He is probably more afraid of being found out than you are. I think he pulled away because he was afraid and I'll bet he has thought about that night many times. There has to be a reason why he is suddenly contacting you so much. I guess my advice is that if you have other options available, I would take those before messing around with this guy. Chances are that he is not going to leave his gf for you. If you do mess with him, taking as being purely a sexual and do not get emotionally involved. Good luck!
 
Agree with what everyone said above, he is obviously a closet case or a straight guy that wanted his dick played with. Don't bother.
 
another thread about a gay guy chasing a straight guy. It's getting pathetic guys. Plenty of gay men out there. Why punish yourself?
 
I agree.....stay away from him. You sound like you have enough baggage of your own to carry....let him deal with his.

From the moment that he went weird on you after he was the one who suggested a hand job, you should have have been unavailable. He had no right to make you feel like shit because he can't deal with something as normal as two buddies jerking off.

...and one other thing. Now he has a girlfriend, who knows where his penis has been?
 
I'm glad to see you have a plan to get to a more gay friendly place. Finishing school first is a good idea. As far as revenge, I wouldn't go there. My guess is that he was pretty messed up about what happened (sexually) and just handled it very poorly. Maybe him contacting you now is just his attempt to repair his mistake from the past. He might not be looking for anything sexual at all.
 
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